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Have you been let down even by guys with verifications?
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Well it's not a guy
It was a female
1st arrange she cancelled.
Thought ok it is what it is
She messaged saying she felt guilty and wanted to meet the next weekend
2nd chance and all that
Never turned up
Burger and chips in pub were banging though |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Life happens, sometimes the kids got sick, or they got called into work.
A "couple" deleted their profile the day of a meet after chatting all week.
I just learned from it and upped my due diligence.
Thankfully there will never be another first meet.  |
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Yep, we give him benefit of the doubt, arranged a meet again for last month and let us down on the day about 6 hours before and then blocked us both 😂
Made no sense. We very rarely get the time to play, so when we do, we'll take advantage of it, and for him to do that, just really let's single guys down.
I wonder if we'll ever create a blacklist. Especially for females and couples, to stop us all getting our time wasted. |
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Yes and on numerous occasions.
Either just vanish from the chat after confirming things or just don't turn up after they say they're on their way. Generally I find they block too.
Funnily enough they don't realise that you can still report them after they block you! |
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Yep, all the time. Last sat, we we're out. We text 3 guys online & local. All 3 said they we're on way. None showed up.
Yesterday, we had a meet up. Was advertised well in advance, with rules and what was on offer. 4 guys didn't show even thou promised to do so. 1 turned up, just wanted to watch. He was told what was exspected. ( not watching) another got spooked, as others we're there. Again they we're told, others would be there.
We still had fun, see video. But it just spoils it for others. Plus, we put a lot of effort into our meets. Finding locations, advertising, messaging, taking equipment. I was teid to the tree yesterday, and a blanket for comfort ect. Approrate outfit ect, washed bathed, arrived before time ect. Happens to us all the time. The guys yesterday, we're carfully picked. Long time accounts, a good few recent veri's ect. |
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By *linyMan 51 weeks ago
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I’ve been let down with a no show from a couple who were verified. I have cancelled a meet but that was due to me having a tooth abscess. Can’t turn up to play with a face like John Merrick! |
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Absolutely
The excuses range from have to take a call from head office in the states, ex has locked herself out so need to sort that, decided to wash my beard, going to take my mates dog out, stuck in A&E with friend....
These are from verified guys who we had already met. |
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Yes, just once.
We were due to meet for a social, chatted through the day, arrived to meet at 7.30pm and no sign.
I messaged him and he left the site, fast forward about 2 months later, he rejoined and asked me to meet again.
Obviously I declined and blocked him. |
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Yeah,it seems to happen all the time. We had a string of no-shows and pussy-outs from guys (and couples and single fems and everyone actually) a while ago... and it got to the point where we started to expect to be let down. Recently, it hasn't been an issue... but only because we haven't been doing meets at all! I think it's just a hazard of fabbing. |
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