I had a meet with a couple earlier which was going really well, however they both asked me to cum in the woman. I said I wasn’t happy to as it was our first meet and I didn’t know them. They seemed to accept this until I was about to cum. She was on top and I wasn’t sat on the sofa. The guy, who was sat on the chair watching, then came over and asked me to take the condom off, but I said no. He then started to finger her while I was inside her and I got th feeling he was trying to pull the condom off. As I pulled out the condom came off and was hanging from her. She the climbed off and started to suck me nd the guy then started wanking me off in her mouth, which I wasn’t expecting. She then asked me to cum in her as I was near cuming. I politely refused but agreed I’d shoot my cum into her from outside, which I did as she held it open.
I then went to use the toilet and returned to him licking my cum up.
Amy I wrong to have felt uncomfortable?
They blocked me straight after
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No means no!
If you enjoyed that and wanted to no problem whatsoever but if u felt uncomfortable absolutely not!
If that was a guy doing that to a woman it would be looked on differently and it shouldnt! |
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Maybe this should’ve been discussed before.
Also, as a few have mentioned already, No means No, irrespective of who says it.
Probably a good thing they blocked you, for your sake.
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Always discuss boundaries, hard limit etc before engaging with people. If you see things going the other way during the act just quit it. The fact you’re a bull doesn’t mean you should be disrespected or feel somehow coerced into something you don’t feel comfortable.
The act should feel natural not uncomfortable else what’s the point.
People are just playing smart here sometimes and it’s destroying the image of the lifestyle
Just saying
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"I had a meet with a couple earlier which was going really well, however they both asked me to cum in the woman. I said I wasn’t happy to as it was our first meet and I didn’t know them. They seemed to accept this until I was about to cum. She was on top and I wasn’t sat on the sofa. The guy, who was sat on the chair watching, then came over and asked me to take the condom off, but I said no. He then started to finger her while I was inside her and I got th feeling he was trying to pull the condom off. As I pulled out the condom came off and was hanging from her. She the climbed off and started to suck me nd the guy then started wanking me off in her mouth, which I wasn’t expecting. She then asked me to cum in her as I was near cuming. I politely refused but agreed I’d shoot my cum into her from outside, which I did as she held it open.
I then went to use the toilet and returned to him licking my cum up.
Amy I wrong to have felt uncomfortable?
They blocked me straight after
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Very disrespectful and out of order if you didn't consent. Also if the woman didn't consent you could be breaking the law. |
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OP what is acceptable or not and what you do or do not feel comfortable with is entirely for you to judge. We each have our own boundaries which if we've communicated clearly to the other person or persons is then unacceptable for them to ignore.
You post gives the feeling that you were not happy with how things happened. I am sorry you had an experience that made you feel uncomfortable.
Mutual enthusiastic consent relies on people understanding and respecting that No means no. |
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It's unacceptable. No means no ..If it had been the other way around and a woman had posted that a couple had wanted the man to come in her when she said no, there would not be people calling it hot. And as for trying to remove the condom if a man does that to a woman it can lead to charges if reported to police, so no its not okay for him to try to remove your condom.
And as for someone saying it's okay because she is 55 presumably because they think she can't get pregnant, that's not acceptable either. I was 56 when my periods stopped and could potentially have got pregnant until 57...
I think the couple were selfish and behaved very badly. They obviously view single men as their playthings and have no regard for them whatsoever. |
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