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By *usty kay OP   Woman 9 weeks ago

Burnham on Sea

"What the definition of swinging ? It not chatting to random strangers. This it a hook up site not social media site"

This is a message i just received before being blocked after he told that if I'm not sleeping with strangers, maybe Fab isn't the place for me. All because I said I wasn’t meeting anyone new right now. Apparently, that was too much honesty.

So, I looked up the definition of swinging. Nowhere did I find that swinging means single men (or women) randomly sleeping with other single strangers.

More and more, I'm finding myself having to explain what swinging actually is to men who clearly don't understand it. Men who can’t wrap their heads around people in committed relationships choosing to explore ethically — yet still feel entitled to push themselves on us.

Look, if you’re a single person here looking for other singles, that’s totally fine. Enjoy it. But don’t come looking for a married woman and then try to rewrite what swinging means to suit your own agenda.

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple 9 weeks ago

rochester

Well put, totally agree.

HW

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By *all me FlikWoman 9 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Pretty sure I've had that same message. Because I'm on here I have to have sex with anyone that asks seems to be the view of many on here.

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By *teveanddebsCouple 9 weeks ago

Norwich


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More and more, I'm finding myself having to explain what swinging actually is to men who clearly don't understand it. Men who can’t wrap their heads around people in committed relationships choosing to explore ethically — yet still feel entitled to push themselves on us.

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Why bother explaining? Look for the ones that clearly do understand

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By *ogerroger69Man 9 weeks ago

West Yorks

It’s different things to different people x

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By *issmorganWoman 9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

We can all use fab in whatever way suits us, I don't get why some get so worked up by how others use it.

As long as they're upfront and not using anyone etc.

I'm not meeting, I'm clear about that and yet I've been told what's the point in you being here etc.

I like the forums, chats with friends and attending the odd social with my other half.

Live and let live.

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By *issmorganWoman 9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm agreeing with you op BTW

Too many think it's a quick shag site, then get upset when you don't wanna meet them after a couple of messages.

I enjoy the lifestyle & meeting other couples with my other half.

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By *ellinever70Woman 9 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Like it or not, it's not up to any of us to decide what a 'proper ' swinger is

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