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By *uck69xMan 9 weeks ago
cramlington |
"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty " my situation was a bit different as I could no longer hold an erection due to health issues . However me and my ex partner ( she passed away ) talked about her needs at length and how we loved each other and decided we would go down the cuckold route . It worked for all involved she got cock I got to see her satisfied and licked her clean . My advice is discuss it at length and find out what works for you both
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I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.
I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel. |
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"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.
I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel."
I can’t encourage her I would never see her 😂she quite often tells me to go and fuck someone else but when you have a beautiful sexy wife like I do I find it hard to stray  |
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Does she want a pass or an affair? Is there someone she wants to sleep with? May be worth asking if it's someone in particular. Maybe you could have a 3 sum or something then you are there. Rather than her being on her own with a stranger. |
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"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.
I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel."
That’s how I would feel if Mrs asked |
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"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.
I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel.
That’s how I would feel if Mrs asked "
I only get turned on by my wife, it excites me seeing her have fun with someone and turns me on even more when she’s out having fun and texting me the details.
She’s told me she’s gone as far as playing with someone and making them cum without fucking them. Would enjoy it even more if she would and then return home and tell me all about it whilst I play with her wet pussy |
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"Does she want a pass or an affair? Is there someone she wants to sleep with? May be worth asking if it's someone in particular. Maybe you could have a 3 sum or something then you are there. Rather than her being on her own with a stranger."
Definitely not a n affair, I think she just wants the frill of a one night stand and she does like being naughty. |
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By *lthomasMan 9 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.
I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel."
Although my wife was never into swinging, in our early days together, she had a free pass which Used a couple of times.
For me, it was all about her coming home and telling me the details which made our sex even better
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"If you want to give her a free pass then do. Don't make decisions on things like this based on internet randommers. They once advisede to dispose of a giant dildo in a neighbours dustbin. "
Thank you for that advice  |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "
Say no probs...as long as I get one too!  |
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"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty
Say no probs...as long as I get one too! "
I can definitely have a free pass she doesn’t really mind |
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I think ultimately that, if the urge is strong enough, people will always do what they want to do.
If you come at it from that premise, then you've really only two choices; say "hell yeah" (and please tell me about it!) or else try and put some head-fuck 'barrier' in the way, which she'll just ignore anyway if she really wants to go there (and then probably keep it from you, knowing it's contra to what you want).
You can't really control anyone (even those in a 'owned' dynamic are still reliant on the submissive wanting to be dominated).
It's her body and morals that will ultimately will determine the outcome here.
Personally I'd be all for it, but then I'm a BIG fan of sharing and don't do jealousy.
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You need to decide, are you worried for any reason and discuss that with her. Why would you say no? What may change if you say yes?
For us, we have no problem, but we met swinging...but seeing each other playing is better lol. |
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The fact that she has told or openly run it by you is surely a good thing?
She is being completely open and transparent with you.. maybe you should do the same too? If your hesitant then tell her and maybe ask that she doesn’t in this occasion but you will come around to it just need to chat it through 👍
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"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.
I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel.
I can’t encourage her I would never see her 😂she quite often tells me to go and fuck someone else but when you have a beautiful sexy wife like I do I find it hard to stray "
She is a very sexy woman.And um sure she will get plenty offers for a drink |
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I think you have answered your own question further up OP…
I think you already want her to have the free pass, posting it here is just seeking justification from strangers.
It seems you are already turned on by the idea and can’t wait for her to tell you what she has been up too.
Good luck to you both hope you both get something great out of it |
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We recently went to a pub in Liverpool with live music, I told her to have a dance with the guys on the dance floor and if she fancies one she can take him around the back for a fuck then come back to me with cum in her knickers.
She always has a free pass  |
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"We recently went to a pub in Liverpool with live music, I told her to have a dance with the guys on the dance floor and if she fancies one she can take him around the back for a fuck then come back to me with cum in her knickers.
She always has a free pass "
Did she come back with then filled |
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"We recently went to a pub in Liverpool with live music, I told her to have a dance with the guys on the dance floor and if she fancies one she can take him around the back for a fuck then come back to me with cum in her knickers.
She always has a free pass "
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"We recently went to a pub in Liverpool with live music, I told her to have a dance with the guys on the dance floor and if she fancies one she can take him around the back for a fuck then come back to me with cum in her knickers.
She always has a free pass "
I’d definitely let her do that, but ill be at home look after the children😊 |
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"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.
I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel.
I can’t encourage her I would never see her 😂she quite often tells me to go and fuck someone else but when you have a beautiful sexy wife like I do I find it hard to stray
She is a very sexy woman.And um sure she will get plenty offers for a drink"
Oh she does and all the attention how fuck I ended up with her god knows😂 |
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By *oandjohnCouple 9 weeks ago
South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire |
If you want to widen your swinging experience then let her have a free pass on the condition she has to tell you very thing.
My partner has had free passes and been free to enjoy separate room fun both at parties and clubs.
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"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "
Consult the pre-nup…..if involving others isn’t ’by Mutual consent’ then it isn’t swinging, it’s cheating whether you like it or not. |
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By *JandCMCouple 9 weeks ago
cardiff |
"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "
Out attitude is we can do whatever they like with anyone, only rule we have is never go with anyone we know or anyone too local.
Wife knows I have been with women but doesn't want to know about it, but I'm happy if she ever wants to tell me about her meets.
We also meet as a couple. |
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"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "
Your profile says you do solo meets. What’s the difference between that and her getting some on a night out? |
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"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty
Your profile says you do solo meets. What’s the difference between that and her getting some on a night out?"
I guess a solo is pre planned? My wife is very spontaneous |
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"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty
Your profile says you do solo meets. What’s the difference between that and her getting some on a night out?
I guess a solo is pre planned? My wife is very spontaneous "
So would you prefer to know what was going to happen in advance? |
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"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty
Your profile says you do solo meets. What’s the difference between that and her getting some on a night out?
I guess a solo is pre planned? My wife is very spontaneous
So would you prefer to know what was going to happen in advance?"
Yes I guess so but that’s not going to happen she’s looking for the excitement, unknown, frill of someone else touching&fucking her without me being there that’s what she wants. |
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"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "
She will get plenty of opportunities |
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"If you want to give her a free pass then do. Don't make decisions on things like this based on internet randommers. They once advisede to dispose of a giant dildo in a neighbours dustbin. "
This is the best advice ever. Or to quote someone else: “please don’t you life in the hands of a rock n roll band who’ll throw it all away”. |
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"If you want to give her a free pass then do. Don't make decisions on things like this based on internet randommers. They once advisede to dispose of a giant dildo in a neighbours dustbin.
This is the best advice ever. Or to quote someone else: “please don’t you life in the hands of a rock n roll band who’ll throw it all away”."
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"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "
When we were an active couple, this is exactly how we started and we loved it |
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