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By *ertiBMan 2 weeks ago
Bournemouth |
I’ve recognised someone I used to work with on here - they used one of their Facebook photos in their profile! In fairness, they gave a lot of hints at the time they had an open relationship. Haven’t dared let them know or messaged them in case it freaked them out though! |
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I have in two occasions, one was a couple that I sent a message to.
The other was a lady I had been chatting with, when we swapped pics we realised we both knew each other and the respective spouses.
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A couple in the next door village. We had exchanged messages. They then blocked me and think we both realised at the time we knew each other. Met in public a couple of times after and got a knowing wink and a smile. They moved shortly after. Proably a good thing, although she was hot. |
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By *ohn 66Man 2 weeks ago
South Birmingham |
I've told this story before on a similar thread, but the only person I've recognised was a former colleague who I bumped into at Chameleons.
I guess she wasn't interested in playing with me as a few weeks earlier I'd had to sack her.
Awkward.
(PS To save my reputation, can I add that she's the only person I've ever sacked. I'm not a bastard!) |
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"hi has anyone on here recognised you and did they message you?
They didn't message me, they stopped the car, rolled down the window and said "are you _luebell888"?."
So I haven’t had this happen…yet…but is it good or bad lol? I think I’d shit myself more than a little bit haha! |
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"hi has anyone on here recognised you and did they message you?
They didn't message me, they stopped the car, rolled down the window and said "are you _luebell888"?.
So I haven’t had this happen…yet…but is it good or bad lol? I think I’d shit myself more than a little bit haha! "
You could have knocked me down with a feather, it was so unexpected as I thought he was going to ask me for directions. |
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"hi has anyone on here recognised you and did they message you?
They didn't message me, they stopped the car, rolled down the window and said "are you _luebell888"?.
So I haven’t had this happen…yet…but is it good or bad lol? I think I’d shit myself more than a little bit haha!
You could have knocked me down with a feather, it was so unexpected as I thought he was going to ask me for directions. "
Haha love that phrase!! I guess if it’s quietly then it’s kinda hot but you don’t wanna be shouted at in the street 😬 |
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A few years ago my FWB in Wales messaged with one of my work colleagues in the midlands I managed, I then chatted with him whilst at work. He was slightly embarrassed but I didn’t make an issue of it. Equally friends in a common hobby have spoken but we have never acted or spoken on our fab hobby |
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Had a message off a local guy on here I didn't know him even though he lived close by after chatting a while it turned out he was in the same class in school (not now a few years ago) with my step daughter he even told me her name and also knew my wife was a bit strange but he was and is very discreet so no problem |
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On my old profile a few years ago, I accidentally left my face pic public for God knows how long and had a few local views so probably have been.
On this account i highly doubt it as my face pics are private |
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"Would be so horny to recognise somebody on here"
it hasn't happened but I would find it so exhilarating to be recognized by a horny guys like you
you drop something and rather curtly tell me to pick it up as I stoop and offer it to you you stare intently into my eyes observing the look of complete submissiveness as you ask after my wife |
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I've recognised a few people. I didn't say anything as it didn't seem right to.
I don't think I've been recognised but I rarely show my face purely because it could be an issue with my work if I were recognised on here. |
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Yeah my next door neighbours are here,
As is the guy who built my house,
As are the couple who own the local car wash,
And the guy who tried his hardest to date me 15 years ago who loves in the village.
Half of them are blocked.... the other half have thier uses!
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"A few years ago my FWB in Wales messaged with one of my work colleagues in the midlands I managed, I then chatted with him whilst at work. He was slightly embarrassed but I didn’t make an issue of it. Equally friends in a common hobby have spoken but we have never acted or spoken on our fab hobby"
Savile Household by any chance? |
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My son’s best friend (he’s 22) who then texted me with my profile pic 🙈🙈. I then removed all pics freaking out lol. What’s worse is that he came over the following evening I didn’t know what to do so I hid in the bathroom 😂 |
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"My son’s best friend (he’s 22) who then texted me with my profile pic 🙈🙈. I then removed all pics freaking out lol. What’s worse is that he came over the following evening I didn’t know what to do so I hid in the bathroom 😂 "
Nightmare. What was he thinking texting you those pics? Also that means he has them saved on his photos now? I’d confront him tbh. |
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By *urenutsMan 2 weeks ago
waltham cross/Harrow HA1 |
"My son’s best friend (he’s 22) who then texted me with my profile pic 🙈🙈. I then removed all pics freaking out lol. What’s worse is that he came over the following evening I didn’t know what to do so I hid in the bathroom 😂 "
Wow, I don't think I have. I've seen one or two but didn't say anything to them.
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"A few years ago my FWB in Wales messaged with one of my work colleagues in the midlands I managed, I then chatted with him whilst at work. He was slightly embarrassed but I didn’t make an issue of it. Equally friends in a common hobby have spoken but we have never acted or spoken on our fab hobby
Savile Household by any chance?"
No afraid not, another household completely |
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By *egoMan 2 weeks ago
Preston |
I’m pretty open about everything anyway. I find the biggest problems is mainly the girls think if they communicate they feel you'll think they want some… tbh thats usually the case. But i don't care personally. Im more than happy just chatting and seeing if i can support the lifestyle if they are new and help with confidence. |
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Neither of us have been recognised, but we’ve deliberately kept everything quite anonymous. Someone would have to have very intimate knowledge to recognise one of us. Which stag admits would be a turn on if anyone did recognise vixen that way, but that’s highly unlikely |
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"A few years ago my FWB in Wales messaged with one of my work colleagues in the midlands I managed, I then chatted with him whilst at work. He was slightly embarrassed but I didn’t make an issue of it. Equally friends in a common hobby have spoken but we have never acted or spoken on our fab hobby
Savile Household by any chance?
No afraid not, another household completely "
Your livery looks rather like the Savile's tbf.
I used to be in a Household that wore Red & Black, for about a decade.
Good fun  |
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"A few years ago my FWB in Wales messaged with one of my work colleagues in the midlands I managed, I then chatted with him whilst at work. He was slightly embarrassed but I didn’t make an issue of it. Equally friends in a common hobby have spoken but we have never acted or spoken on our fab hobby
Savile Household by any chance?
No afraid not, another household completely
Your livery looks rather like the Savile's tbf.
I used to be in a Household that wore Red & Black, for about a decade.
Good fun "
Murray & Blue of a Yorkist Household, but I still get involved with Wars of Roses events & the crafting required to fully portray the role. Great fun |
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We’ve been recognised by a couple of different people.. one lad we are still in touch with as he has a partner and she’s unaware he’s on here which works well for us to continue chatting and also realise he has to be discreet. Only thing is we don’t know who he is!
The other lad mentioned he saw us in the gym and called us by our fab name… instant red flag in public for us so blocked him and told him not to approach us again… he was sound with it to be fair! |
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"A few years ago my FWB in Wales messaged with one of my work colleagues in the midlands I managed, I then chatted with him whilst at work. He was slightly embarrassed but I didn’t make an issue of it. Equally friends in a common hobby have spoken but we have never acted or spoken on our fab hobby
Savile Household by any chance?
No afraid not, another household completely
Your livery looks rather like the Savile's tbf.
I used to be in a Household that wore Red & Black, for about a decade.
Good fun
Murray & Blue of a Yorkist Household, but I still get involved with Wars of Roses events & the crafting required to fully portray the role. Great fun"
I was in a group that was part of The Fed & L&M.
Badge looked like a pretzel.. 😉 |
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By *huramMan 2 weeks ago
Newcastle |
Two women on dating apps have recognised me from Fab.
This wasn't a problem, my dating app profiles make it very clear, I'm only looking for a FWB.
I ended up meeting one of the women at her place.
It was a good night. |
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"A few years ago my FWB in Wales messaged with one of my work colleagues in the midlands I managed, I then chatted with him whilst at work. He was slightly embarrassed but I didn’t make an issue of it. Equally friends in a common hobby have spoken but we have never acted or spoken on our fab hobby
Savile Household by any chance?
No afraid not, another household completely
Your livery looks rather like the Savile's tbf.
I used to be in a Household that wore Red & Black, for about a decade.
Good fun
Murray & Blue of a Yorkist Household, but I still get involved with Wars of Roses events & the crafting required to fully portray the role. Great fun
I was in a group that was part of The Fed & L&M.
Badge looked like a pretzel.. 😉"
Ahh the Stafford’s , as a fed member been in a dazzling sun group , a ladies Sleeve group & a lions claw & some fab members in all of these groups  |
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"A few years ago my FWB in Wales messaged with one of my work colleagues in the midlands I managed, I then chatted with him whilst at work. He was slightly embarrassed but I didn’t make an issue of it. Equally friends in a common hobby have spoken but we have never acted or spoken on our fab hobby
Savile Household by any chance?
No afraid not, another household completely
Your livery looks rather like the Savile's tbf.
I used to be in a Household that wore Red & Black, for about a decade.
Good fun
Murray & Blue of a Yorkist Household, but I still get involved with Wars of Roses events & the crafting required to fully portray the role. Great fun
I was in a group that was part of The Fed & L&M.
Badge looked like a pretzel.. 😉
Ahh the Stafford’s , as a fed member been in a dazzling sun group , a ladies Sleeve group & a lions claw & some fab members in all of these groups "
Why doesn't that surprise me?
Tewkesbury event did have a reputation for some partner swapping going on! |
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If we have, we’ve not been told directly.
Have found a local on here who is friends with our (grown up) children. Think the risk outweighs the reward though if we were to ever let on we know they’re on here. |
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Never correctly.
I've had people who think they went to school with me, when they didn't. One who thought I was a teacher he'd worked with and another thought I worked in the arcades.
I'm none of the above 😂 |
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Yes twice,both by guys who work at same company. One had a good idea who I was when he messaged me as I had red hair at the time, the other guy I recognised him as had a side profile face pic and I realised who it was. |
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No, not as far as we know but we've recognised a couple that are friends of friends.
The worst one for us was at a club in Birmingham playing in an open room and a colleague of mine walked into the room |
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"No, not as far as we know but we've recognised a couple that are friends of friends.
The worst one for us was at a club in Birmingham playing in an open room and a colleague of mine walked into the room"
To be honest- looking at your profile- I wouldn’t mind recognising you when I’m in Stockport! |
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Hopefully people who recognise each other will just treat it with respect.
I'm sure I'll have been recognised at some point but just be respectful if they don't want to be recognised and surely the golden code is never out someone! |
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l've 'bumped into' a few people on dating sites, I am okay about it really as I'm not hiding anything.
If someone doesn't want to share a facepic I always say but you might be my kid's geography teacher - not happened yet but having been to parent's evening I can only live in hope! |
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My ex from a long time ago is on here, haven't reached out due to ours being a shared profile and I'd not want to out my husband like that (Not that my ex would care)
Only thing that worries me about people figuring out who we are is my husband being outed.
We haven't had any face pics on here and hid other pics last weekend as was paranoid someone would recognise us despite removing tattoos in pics. 😂
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By *BA8891Man 7 days ago
Manchester |
"No, not as far as we know but we've recognised a couple that are friends of friends.
The worst one for us was at a club in Birmingham playing in an open room and a colleague of mine walked into the room
To be honest- looking at your profile- I wouldn’t mind recognising you when I’m in Stockport! "
Me too! |
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By *BA8891Man 7 days ago
Manchester |
"l've 'bumped into' a few people on dating sites, I am okay about it really as I'm not hiding anything.
If someone doesn't want to share a facepic I always say but you might be my kid's geography teacher - not happened yet but having been to parent's evening I can only live in hope!"
Same here, about people on here from dating sites |
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"l've 'bumped into' a few people on dating sites, I am okay about it really as I'm not hiding anything.
If someone doesn't want to share a facepic I always say but you might be my kid's geography teacher - not happened yet but having been to parent's evening I can only live in hope!"
i came across one of the rugby mums. She is married but stated she is single. For her privacy i didn’t message her.
P.s. i m a rugby coach |
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I wasnt recognized but after chatting with a lady a while, her face was only distorted on her pic a little bit...she lived close so i told her who she was...best thing, she became a very fun fwb lol |
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By *enelope2UWoman 7 days ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
Yes not that difficult when I'm pretty much the only black female on here of Scotland...but to answer yes they messaged describing what I had on what they would do to me next time..but didn't have the balls to approach me or say where they were at etc...so I found it creepy and I'll never know who the scared stalker was or where they were at etc....
A simple..hi are you Penelope I'm Jayson.. and take it from there..if they say sorry I'm not her then you can later message to say hi..I approached you in The Wallace retail park today I'm Jayson I had on XYX.. just wanted to share my profile and another face picture as I found you interesting hope I didn't offend you by saying hello...
I'm 100% real I don't have a fantasy life who I am on here is who I am full-time... So I respect.. respect..and legitimate people
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