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Can you please post some pictures of the guys?
I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you.
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys?
I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you.
Thanks"
We've tried many different combinations over the years even pictures of only Mr,but still all the messages are aimed at Mrs.
Unless we change our message filters.
It's for the most part pointless 😔 |
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys?
I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you.
Thanks"
Amen! Our biggest gripe with Fab is how few couples show the man, as if knowing roughly what he looks like us irrelevant when considering if you might want to meet a couple.
Our pictures are pretty even between both of us. |
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys?
I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you.
Thanks
We've tried many different combinations over the years even pictures of only Mr,but still all the messages are aimed at Mrs.
Unless we change our message filters.
It's for the most part pointless 😔"
I can’t speak for your experience and I understand it but we’re not going to engage or meet people where it’s only the woman and we have zero idea of what they guy looks like |
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men."
Do fabs matter?
It’s about letting other people see what you both look like, if you’re both meeting, that’s the very basics |
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men."
At least the woman of any couples you engage with know who they’re talking to 🙂
I find it disrespectful when a profile has just the woman but they’re looking for couples - either it’s assumed I’ll play with anyone or the guy thinks he’s off putting. But either way I should have an idea of what he looks like!
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys?
I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you.
Thanks
We've tried many different combinations over the years even pictures of only Mr,but still all the messages are aimed at Mrs.
Unless we change our message filters.
It's for the most part pointless 😔
I can’t speak for your experience and I understand it but we’re not going to engage or meet people where it’s only the woman and we have zero idea of what they guy looks like"
This is why we always insist on a social meet first before any play.
Photos can be manipulated or old not giving an accurate representation of the people.
If we go along and they are not our cup of tea or vice versa well so be it, we've had a night out and a chat. |
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys?
I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you.
Thanks
We've tried many different combinations over the years even pictures of only Mr,but still all the messages are aimed at Mrs.
Unless we change our message filters.
It's for the most part pointless 😔
I can’t speak for your experience and I understand it but we’re not going to engage or meet people where it’s only the woman and we have zero idea of what they guy looks like
This is why we always insist on a social meet first before any play.
Photos can be manipulated or old not giving an accurate representation of the people.
If we go along and they are not our cup of tea or vice versa well so be it, we've had a night out and a chat."
But… why should we need to go and meet someone to actually see one half of the couple, that my partner would potentially be fucking?
Just post a picture or two! |
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men.
At least the woman of any couples you engage with know who they’re talking to 🙂
I find it disrespectful when a profile has just the woman but they’re looking for couples - either it’s assumed I’ll play with anyone or the guy thinks he’s off putting. But either way I should have an idea of what he looks like!
L"
I agree. We don’t live together, we don’t get much time together so why would we waste that on a couple where we have no clue as to what half of them look like?
Especially when we’re very clearly out there |
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By *ezandCCouple 3 weeks ago
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men.
Do fabs matter?
It’s about letting other people see what you both look like, if you’re both meeting, that’s the very basics"
No they don’t really matter, but its nice to get one 
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men.
Do fabs matter?
It’s about letting other people see what you both look like, if you’re both meeting, that’s the very basics
No they don’t really matter, but its nice to get one
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Sure.
If you want to meet couples though, it’s about aiming at that, not fabs. |
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men.
Do fabs matter?
It’s about letting other people see what you both look like, if you’re both meeting, that’s the very basics
No they don’t really matter, but its nice to get one
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Nice boxers by the way. You do have a mix so gold star |
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"We have a few up. But Meg is so much more fantastic than me, in every way.
(Though she did make me wear those pants for a date!)
Max "
Even a few is better than none. Mr has good arms and the pants look great |
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I find it quite bizarre to see only the woman visually represented, especially when it's usually the man sending the messages, too. It's like they're using their partner as bait 
Here's a crazy crazy thing, dudes. Lots of women quite like looking at men!
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"I find it quite bizarre to see only the woman visually represented, especially when it's usually the man sending the messages, too. It's like they're using their partner as bait
Here's a crazy crazy thing, dudes. Lots of women quite like looking at men!
N
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I tend to agree with the sentiment of ‘bait’.
Cas isn’t going to play Russian cocklette |
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I don't even look for couples anymore, as much as I like the ladies, I'd strangely like to see the owner of the penis in expected to sit on.
We come as a couple we photo as a couple.
What you see is what you get.
If the man's not there I assume he's ugly.
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"I find it quite bizarre to see only the woman visually represented, especially when it's usually the man sending the messages, too. It's like they're using their partner as bait
Here's a crazy crazy thing, dudes. Lots of women quite like looking at men!
N
I tend to agree with the sentiment of ‘bait’.
Cas isn’t going to play Russian cocklette "
Russian Cocklette.... haha love it |
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Well said, as a straight woman this is one of my biggest hug bears with other couples.
On our joint profile we have plenty of jack, as we look for partner swaps.
We'd never expect couples to chat to us without seeing us both, therefore we'd expect to see the man on the profile too.
It's generally couple profiles that just show the lady, that moan that they can't get meets with ladies /couples too. Or are unhappy when men just address the woman in the pics.
If you're looking for ladies or other couples, it makes sense to show both people. Just one pt two, to give an idea of build /body.
I appreciate women get most of the fabs and I usually fab male pics, when they're available on couple accounts.
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This is excellent advice and something we echo; it can be really frustrating to look at a couples profile and not see any pictures of the male.
We like to think we’ve got a decent mixture of both me and my wife on our profile. |
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Duly noted and something we will be addressing in the very near future. Also planning on some pics of us together, as those type of pics on couples profiles are the ones we enjoy looking at the most.
Watch this space.
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100% agree! Mr even gets pissed off he can't show me the man of the couple! He would never expect me to meet a couple when we've only seen the woman! We've even asked to see the man and been told they don't post pics!!!! Well we are not going to meet them then! Infuriating 😠 |
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys?
I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you.
Thanks"
Spot on x |
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Relieved to see so many other couples who also feel this way, it's nice to see so many of you showing off your handsome fellas!!
If we can't see any pics of the guy at all, we presume he's either lacking in confidence or feels unattractive. It's quite sad actually, so we don't get even angry about it, just scroll on by.
Off to perv on all your lovely hubby's now!! Lol x
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By *ezandCCouple 3 weeks ago
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Can we also add that we like to see more than just close up shots of the lady, some mid and full length (understand no faces), they can be clothed, your body is your body, if you plan to meet others will see it then. |
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"Can we also add that we like to see more than just close up shots of the lady, some mid and full length (understand no faces), they can be clothed, your body is your body, if you plan to meet others will see it then."
We hate seeing close ups, how do you know what they actually look like? |
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"Can we also add that we like to see more than just close up shots of the lady, some mid and full length (understand no faces), they can be clothed, your body is your body, if you plan to meet others will see it then.
We hate seeing close ups, how do you know what they actually look like? "
Agree we try and include context |
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"There are more of Lucy on our profile but still plenty of me.
Lucy justifiably does get 95% of the attention."
You’ve more than most.
You only have to look at the hot pics to understand the imbalance between men and women getting fabbed, it’s not about who is more attractive, it’s just a simple case that men don’t get fabbed.
Guys, put your pictures up. We want to see you |
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"We always share our pics on return it sorts everything out we like to see the male half of the couple as much as we enjoy seeing the female "
Why would anyone want or need to dig or request pictures of half of a couple? Just put pictures of the man up |
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This!! On my couples profile we have pics of both of us (and not just his dick)
As a woman I find it really frustrating not seeing body shots of the men.
Guys you want to see what a woman looks like before you decide if you want to have fun with them why do you think we are any different? |
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Guilty of this. But as I take.most of the pics it's hard to get any nice ones of myself. And as posters pointed out. Really does little on the profile in the way of likes or messages. But have made sure Im at least represented so its not a mystery. And always exact to see pics before meeting. So many couples profiles with no pics, and then they suddenly offer a meet, come on guys blind date is so 90s 🤣 |
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"I understand that the femmes get more love but why would anyone meet a couple without seeing both partners? Cmon guys, get yourselves out there! "
To be fair one of them has to take the picture and bet it’s usually the man. But good to see a few pics of the gentleman. |
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"We have a few but couples are mostly interested in the Mrs. There a few more of him on the friends only. "
It depends on the dynamic but if he’s going to be there and playing, there should be pictures. |
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"We do but can't force people to like them"
No, there will always be a disparity between the pictures of women vs men. It’s about who you’re looking to meet and representing that not who fabs your pictures.
Cas already has several pictures into the hundreds, my pictures are on a dozen, it doesn’t matter. We want to meet couples and they need to see me too. I’m here, it’s us. People need to see both |
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We never bother with a couples profile unless they are both in at least a couple of the pictures.
We have a body pic of Mr as its best for others to know what they would really see when we turn up. |
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There’s more pics of C as her boobs get a lot of attention however there’s enough of us both to show what we both looks like.
We don’t bother with couples profiles where they are all of the lady as it feels like you’re fighting a losing battle trying to get a pic of Mr and then having to them that they aren’t for us, once they’ve sent it.
I don’t think I’ve come across a profile where there’s no gents pics, they’ve sent them and C has been eager to meet. So we’ll go off the assumption that if there’s no guy pics on a couples profiles then it’s the woman who’s being used as bait.
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys?
What would sort of pictures would you want to see on a profile of the mr ?
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Full body shots, torso, legs. There are lots of options. They won’t get the fabs in the way that photos of women do but that’s not the point. The point is that no woman will want to play with a man she can’t see. That’s true here on my solo profile and my couple profile. |
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys?
What would sort of pictures would you want to see on a profile of the mr ?
Full body shots, torso, legs. There are lots of options. They won’t get the fabs in the way that photos of women do but that’s not the point. The point is that no woman will want to play with a man she can’t see. That’s true here on my solo profile and my couple profile."
This is exactly it!
As a couple I can’t imagine that anyone would want to meet anyone they can’t see.
Just post the pictures! |
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We try to have photos of both of us but I do take more of me. Its difficult to get him in them - he hates it with a passion. So they do end up being me mainly.
I do agree that there should be at least a few of the man in a couple but it's more about the chat and communication for me. A picture of the guys body probably isn't going to sway me either way. I'd have to get on with them first, and then meet them. |
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys?
I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you.
Thanks"
no we are only looking for single men x |
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Faces are in private etc 
