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By *eli OP Woman 5 weeks ago
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It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?
I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
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By *aizyWoman 5 weeks ago
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?
I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them."
Yes to this Meli, I also like the feeling when I lean right back and grab their thighs, only thing I don't like is reverse cowgirl, I can't get my balance and I can't lean in for a kiss in that position. |
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?
I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
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I'm slightly aroused reading that. |
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By *eli OP Woman 5 weeks ago
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?
I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
Yes to this Meli, I also like the feeling when I lean right back and grab their thighs, only thing I don't like is reverse cowgirl, I can't get my balance and I can't lean in for a kiss in that position."
I've never tried reverse cowgirl, I don't want to be winking away at them as I come - could have phrased that differently. Won't.
When you lean right back do you find that thighs or near ankles is better to grab? |
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By *aizyWoman 5 weeks ago
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?
I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
Yes to this Meli, I also like the feeling when I lean right back and grab their thighs, only thing I don't like is reverse cowgirl, I can't get my balance and I can't lean in for a kiss in that position.
I've never tried reverse cowgirl, I don't want to be winking away at them as I come - could have phrased that differently. Won't.
When you lean right back do you find that thighs or near ankles is better to grab? "
I usually grab the thighs but that is only because I really like thighs! |
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I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
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Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish  |
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By *eli OP Woman 5 weeks ago
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"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position
(As you were ladies  )"
Ha, it's fine! I thought if I posted in this section it was less likely to receive daft comments. And I like reading different approaches and hope women don't mind sharing tips etc. |
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By *eli OP Woman 5 weeks ago
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"I really enjoy it on some people and on others not at all.
I love my boobs being played with sucks, my hips to be held and helped with the riding plus some long deep snogs yes pkease"
Do you think it's down to how people fit or is it more the dynamic you have with someone?
Hips being held is 🔥 |
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I've found many ladies (not all) enjoy being on top and in control of the depth, angle and speed. They get that look in their eyes when they're close and know they can grind away for immediate release or slow down to prolong the pleasure. |
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If we are having one of our big sessions Banana likes Peach on top as he can have a rest. He also likes playing with my tits and kissing them.
We do like ALL positions mostly. About six we LOVE so we keep going with them.
Peach
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"I love reverse cowgirl but men are boob obsessed and always turn me round "
Bums are also good!
Only problem with this for me is when they just leap on but they’re not quite “fully ready” 
Like woooooo you’re going to injure me!
Too much drag! |
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I kinda get off on a women basically just just my cock to ride and get off find the position that does it for her , it’s not a position that would make me cum but hey it’s still nice and a great view , so can let them get what they need then flip them over |
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Absolutely love being on top. It makes me cum every time. Love the grinding motion and being encouraged with hands on my hips, such a turn on. As others say great to be able to make intense eye contact and even better if kissing happens as well. It's a definite YES from me.. |
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By *eli OP Woman 5 weeks ago
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I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish "
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them. |
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I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them. "
I’d like to think that they at least appreciate the view as we do our thing 😊 |
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I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them.
I’d like to think that they at least appreciate the view as we do our thing 😊"
I can vouch for this 😎 |
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I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them. "
In those moments, it is just about getting what I want. Kind of a just “shhhh” and let me do my thing, let me allow this orgasm to wash over me then I’ll be back in the room and you can join in again 🍭
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As much I take delight in being ridden — gentle but firm bouncing 'strokes' — I find that with grinding it's really down to technique. I enjoy it when it's done 'right' but sometimes I feel my shaft is getting contorted or kinked/bent against its natural anatomical shape. It's difficult to describe.
In essence there's good grinding and not-so-good grinding.
(Bouncing is erotic though: the aesthetic appeal of seeing her breasts sway indiscriminately like pendulums or bobble like frolic'ing baubles). |
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I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them.
In those moments, it is just about getting what I want. Kind of a just “shhhh” and let me do my thing, let me allow this orgasm to wash over me then I’ll be back in the room and you can join in again 🍭
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Yes.
Yes.
& yes. Absolutely selfish. I've yet to find it can be beaten.
Must admit I save it for my hubby & me. It's an intimate connection that only he has ever " got " |
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I used to hate it. Always felt like I was doing sowething wrong.
Then I met an ex fb who turned it around for me and with him it was one of the most intense experiences I've ever had. Particularly when I was denying him the pleasure he was begging for.
It's now something I'm more interested in but still feel very self conscious and uncomfortable with. |
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"As much I take delight in being ridden — gentle but firm bouncing 'strokes' — I find that with grinding it's really down to technique. I enjoy it when it's done 'right' but sometimes I feel my shaft is getting contorted or kinked/bent against its natural anatomical shape. It's difficult to describe.
In essence there's good grinding and not-so-good grinding.
(Bouncing is erotic though: the aesthetic appeal of seeing her breasts sway indiscriminately like pendulums or bobble like frolic'ing baubles)."
Agreed! When’s the results done right it’s mind blowing, some have been rather uncomfortable |
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I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them.
In those moments, it is just about getting what I want. Kind of a just “shhhh” and let me do my thing, let me allow this orgasm to wash over me then I’ll be back in the room and you can join in again 🍭
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I'd be absolutely fine with this as well |
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By *igad999Man 5 weeks ago
wolverhampton |
"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?
I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
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Id say the grinding thing is common.
Favourite position for me and wife is doggy but her on top is a second.
She literally pushes down and grinds slowly then speeds up and slows and it’s definitely to make herself cum.
When she does she literally shakes
Bonus for me is seeing big boobs bounce around or bum if she’s the other way as I’m a BBW lover and boobs and bums
So winner winner but the on top bit gives the lady the control |
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"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position
(As you were ladies )"
Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂 |
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?
I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
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this is exactly why my gf likes it, its one of only two positions that really make her cum hard! most of the time its the only position that makes her squirt.
she loves using a vibrator at the same time too, or shell use another dildo on her arse if she reverse |
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By *ickawitchCouple 5 weeks ago
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?
I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
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Speak as a guy . I have to say I love a lady riding me . Taking it at her own pace and controlling the pressure. Having them cum over me is an amazing feeling |
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"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position
(As you were ladies )
Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂 "
Oh I see no reason to move, just let her do what she wants to. Also applies to my face |
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By *aizyWoman 5 weeks ago
west midlands |
"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position
(As you were ladies )
Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂 "
It is!! I end up shouting stay still and pinning him down by his shoulders! |
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"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position
(As you were ladies )
Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂
It is!! I end up shouting stay still and pinning him down by his shoulders!"
My body is ready 🫡 |
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By *eli OP Woman 5 weeks ago
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I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.
Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them.
In those moments, it is just about getting what I want. Kind of a just “shhhh” and let me do my thing, let me allow this orgasm to wash over me then I’ll be back in the room and you can join in again 🍭
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Yes that's it exactly it! I think I get so in to it a part of me is almost using them like my favourite dildo in that moment in time. In the nicest way. :D |
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By *eli OP Woman 5 weeks ago
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"I love being on top. Just a gentle " cradle " rocking motion if you will. Hits every spot every time.
It's mine ( & his ) favourite after a club sex. It's sooo kinda ... welcome home.  "
Aww welcome home! That's really lovely. I guess it's more the connection than the actual position that provides the intimacy. Oh rocking and long kisses could. |
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