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Why are men messaging me?
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This happens a lot!
Remember they're not always after fucking you or being fucked by you. They might be testing the messaging service to see if it still works, just looking for a chat with someone with similar interests, or perhaps just looking for a friend. Lot's of dudes reach out to me and if they're gay and I'm not interested I'll tell them so. |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"This never used to happen before does anyone have the same issue? It clearly states on my profile what I prefer  "
I get men messaging me all the time as well, offering to suck me off etc. It clearly states on my profile that I'm straight but clearly they take no notice of that.
It is possible to filter them out which I do time to time but I occasionally enjoy chatting with guys and if I've got the filter on then I can't.
I imagine this is what it's like for all the women on here, getting unwanted messages from guys |
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"To be fair, I don’t care who messages me as long as they have something interesting to say. I chat to anyone. Doesn’t mean they fancy me. Although how rude of they don’t and message me 😂😂"
I absolutely refuse to believe they dont fancy you. If anyone messages me who doesnt fancy me then off the plank they bloody go! Cheeky buggars! 🤣 |
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"To be fair, I don’t care who messages me as long as they have something interesting to say. I chat to anyone. Doesn’t mean they fancy me. Although how rude of they don’t and message me 😂😂
I absolutely refuse to believe they dont fancy you. If anyone messages me who doesnt fancy me then off the plank they bloody go! Cheeky buggars! 🤣"
Oh I’m so tempted to message him now 😎 |
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"Interesting replies everyone, some guys saying yeah it's annoying, girls seem to go straight for the solution of blocking/ghost without actually considering the cause lol, some actually look at my profile and state I'm looking for a mum scenario hints I must be into men, the limited text on profile opens me up to speculation, I will accept that, I don't block anyone because everyone has their right to message whoever they like  "
That's mfm btw damn predictive text |
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"everyone has their right to message whoever they like"
That's incorrect, not everyone can message everyone. Many are blocked from doing so because they're the wrong sex or age, as many profiles use message filters. |
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"everyone has their right to message whoever they like
That's incorrect, not everyone can message everyone. Many are blocked from doing so because they're the wrong sex or age, as many profiles use message filters."
Yes and that is your choice, fully accepted |
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"This never used to happen before does anyone have the same issue? It clearly states on my profile what I prefer "
You shouldn't be so god dam sexy lol, if it says on a guys profile blurb "not looking for men" then I won't message but other than that nothing ventured nothing gained |
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By *de81Man 2 weeks ago
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I get that too, it's not particularly offensive most of the time. I just tell them I'm straight and it's not my thing, but happy to chat. I wouldn't say I pity them, rather am empathetic and a human being so I'm always polite and respectful.
It's hard for some to approach people regardless of orientation, so am always mindful of not wanting to crush someone or spoil their experience on here! |
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People don't read profiles lol
I get couples and ladies message me, I'm not looking for either.
I've blocked couples, so many are after that ffm and don't read that I'm straight & do and think they'd be different.
Use your filters, it makes life more peaceful on here. |
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"People don't read profiles lol
I get couples and ladies message me, I'm not looking for either.
I've blocked couples, so many are after that ffm and don't read that I'm straight & do and think they'd be different.
Use your filters, it makes life more peaceful on here. "
Ppl don't read profiles, thats just lazy  |
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I'm not bothered I just wonder why it happens and why did I never get this much guy attention before when I last was on fab! Lol it makes no sense, I've had the odd varied gent invite me over to hotels to gangbang his wife so don't really want to block anyone, never know when you might miss out |
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I'm quite bemused by how many men on here are contacted by other men. All my filters are open and have been for the last four years, or thereabouts. In all that time I've had perhaps just half a dozen men message me. |
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"I'm not bothered I just wonder why it happens and why did I never get this much guy attention before when I last was on fab! Lol it makes no sense, I've had the odd varied gent invite me over to hotels to gangbang his wife so don't really want to block anyone, never know when you might miss out "
What makes you think that the bloke's wife will come with him to the hotel, or even exist.
At best, she is normally still waiting for her visa to leave Thailand! |
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"I'm not bothered I just wonder why it happens and why did I never get this much guy attention before when I last was on fab! Lol it makes no sense, I've had the odd varied gent invite me over to hotels to gangbang his wife so don't really want to block anyone, never know when you might miss out
What makes you think that the bloke's wife will come with him to the hotel, or even exist.
At best, she is normally still waiting for her visa to leave Thailand!"
That is true, however he did have a very respectable veri list so even though it probably isn't his wife I didn't have a big reason to doubt him |
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I get it a lot too. It used to p!ss me off, but now, I don't mind so much. Sometimes I'll have a chat if we have common interest; other times, I'll ignore them. I block them if they get to gross or pushy. |
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