"So a guy can feel horny but still struggle?"
Absolutely! Take his mind off it, just play and don't make a big deal out of it the bigger the deal you make the more pressure it puts on him and he'll be less likely to rise again |
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By *astpoetMan 2 weeks ago
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"So a guy can feel horny but still struggle?"
Yup absolutely. Some guys can get stage fright, plus things like lack of sleep or stress can be a cause too.
It’s almost never the woman to be honest |
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It could be something small, I’ve had once or twice putting a condom on for some reason the whole thing is very un-erotic and takes me out the zone.
Also depends on how long you have been building the meet up for, sometimes it’s just important to start the physical intimacy without any pressure or expectation, leave the fantasy stuff until that physical connection is there.
I usually just concentrate on a bit more foreplay stuff until I relax. But yeah it’s usually nothing to do with the woman if I wasn’t attracted to her it wouldn’t have gotten to that stage. |
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"So a guy can feel horny but still struggle?
God yes. It's devastating for us, well, for me anyway.
And the older i get, the worse it gets. It's a shame as I'm still sex mad at 67  x"
I've found the opposite personally. I used to struggle when I was younger due to nerves, but with age and experience has come confidence, and I feel like I've been constantly improving for years now |
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By *uck69xMan 2 weeks ago
cramlington |
"My assumption is that if a guy is horny he should be hard as. I don’t get it. "
I was always horny but due to health problems it effected me been able to get hard . It's how me and my ex partner went down the cuckold route
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"So a guy can feel horny but still struggle?"
Many things can effect an erection and the length of time one can stay hard and being horny has nothing to do with it.
As folk have said it can be physiological or physiological…
Depression is one.
Fatigue is another… I have CFS and when I get fatigued I cannot keep an erection for more than 5 mins no matter how horny I am, I can be in the middle of a very horny fuck and I go soft for no reason what so ever.
You should no feel anything yourself but maybe try talking to the partner and recommend talking to a dr about medication. I wish I’d done it years before rather than struggling as I had. |
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By *ickD80Man 2 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"How offended should you be if he’s struggling to stay hard? "
Why would you be offended? It’s not something a man can consciously control so why would you be offended by something happening that he can’t control? That’s like being offended by the weather.
If someone intentionally does or says something rude and inconsiderate then it’s understandable that you’d be offended but I don’t understand how you can be offended by an act that is neither intentional, rude or inconsiderate.
A man not being able to stay hard is very rarely anything to do with the partner he’s with but on the rare occasions it is then it’s not an offensive act…it isn’t done to cause offence. Saying that it offends you when he can’t stay hard is criticising and blaming him for something he can’t control. |
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