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Just wondering about the bull dynamic? Do they humiliate the guy? Completely dominate the female or are there degrees? I’ve seen couples even write ‘not into the bull dynamic’. Has just made me curious. |
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"Just wondering about the bull dynamic? Do they humiliate the guy? Completely dominate the female or are there degrees? I’ve seen couples even write ‘not into the bull dynamic’. Has just made me curious. "
This comes with discussions from Lloyds involved. Every couple is different and you'd be a fool to try the same thing with everyone thinking it will work.
Talk to the couple see what they enjoy, be sure to say what you enjoy, this is always important. You will find the more you play with them, and more comfortable you all feel the more boundaries are explored and pushed. |
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Iv been a bull a few times.
For me, it’s all down to the dynamic that the couple wants to experience.
Or in these cases, normally what the woman wants.
You can’t turn up acting all arrogant and super bossy, if that’s not what they want.
On the flip side you can’t turn up submissive if they want a more dominant experience.
So in my head, being a good bull is about accommodating the couples needs |
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as a lifestyle cuckold couple we no longer look for bulls and we know lots of others who dont either ''the bull'' is not a true part of cuckolding its more of a porn addative therefor made popular by guys watching american porn 99% of guys who call themselves bulls in our experience are bulls but with the added shitter..
in real cuckold relationships the wife always has the full control of the cuck thats not to say the third cant humiliate the cuck in anyway but its down to the wife at the end of the day after all the wife and the cuck are the most important bit at all times the only time that will change is if there are regular guys whom we have known for years but thats different because of the relationship developed
porn / content makers / books and other platforoms have muddied the water on real cuckolding making people new to it think porn is right but its not |
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I've met several cuckold couples over the years, but none of them used the term Bull. It's been either 'Lover' or 'Alpha male', as they (but usually the wife) wish...
Every cuckold couple has their own desires for how the arrangement plays out. I've been seeing the wife of one couple for over 8 years now, we've been to swinger clubs by ourselves as a couple, and have sex in their marital bed. I've never met cuck though, as it's her wish he doesn't know who I am, so that I could be any man he passes in the street......  |
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By *ampire69Man 51 weeks ago
Birmingham West Midlands |
the dynamic varies from couple to couple the bull is principly there to service the wifes needs if done properly she is the one who calls the shots she is the one in control of the meeting |
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By *rad670Man 51 weeks ago
South Lakes |
I'd love to see the definition of bull, I don't like the term really unless it has a specific meaning and one task. I understand it to mean an extra male and if that's correct I think bull is a pretty crap term. A single male joining a couple is merely an extra, an extension to facilitate a fantsy for the couple really, it's a win win situation all round for single males as most of the time you discuss the scenario, set rules and boundaries and everything usualy goes well, everyone leaves happy. There are so many scenarios for the extra, I think there are a few common terms for different scenarios but when I hear bull it does kind of suggest some dominant rough play that I imagine could get out of hand at times. I could do with a dictionary myself to help with all the terms and like DDLG, CNC ect, Google doesn't always help. |
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So, there was a young bull and an old bull stood on a hill they look down upon a field full of sexy looking heifers. The young bull says “ hey let’s sprint down there and hump some of those lovely heifers “ the old bull says “ no lad let’s walk slowly and hump all of them “
I’m assured by my farmer buddy that this is a true story  |
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By *e13guyMan 51 weeks ago
Lewisham |
I don't know what a bull is for most people but I did have a wife guide me inside her husband once and get extremely aroused watching me having sex with him. Is that going too far? I guess you can judge yourself. I really enjoyed it |
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The term bull although used in cuckolding circles is really not a suitable term for couples like ourselves.
We look for males that can give Dee the sex she wants but also take her out for drinks, weekends away, stuff like that, of course as a cuck I like to watch but a lot of the time I’m not present.
Perhaps we are a bit weird in cuckolding circles with our dynamic but we aren’t just looking for a gut with a big cock that can come over and ‘destroy’ Dee, which is the usual ‘bull’ messages we get on here. |
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"as a lifestyle cuckold couple we no longer look for bulls and we know lots of others who dont either ''the bull'' is not a true part of cuckolding its more of a porn addative therefor made popular by guys watching american porn 99% of guys who call themselves bulls in our experience are bulls but with the added shitter..
in real cuckold relationships the wife always has the full control of the cuck thats not to say the third cant humiliate the cuck in anyway but its down to the wife at the end of the day after all the wife and the cuck are the most important bit at all times the only time that will change is if there are regular guys whom we have known for years but thats different because of the relationship developed
porn / content makers / books and other platforoms have muddied the water on real cuckolding making people new to it think porn is right but its not"
What a great explanation … I’ve helped couples enjoy the cuckold lifestyle over many years and it’s always been a role that is defined by them but not with a label but by actions |
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"The term bull although used in cuckolding circles is really not a suitable term for couples like ourselves.
We look for males that can give Dee the sex she wants but also take her out for drinks, weekends away, stuff like that, of course as a cuck I like to watch but a lot of the time I’m not present.
Perhaps we are a bit weird in cuckolding circles with our dynamic but we aren’t just looking for a gut with a big cock that can come over and ‘destroy’ Dee, which is the usual ‘bull’ messages we get on here."
Nothing weird in wanting exactly what you want from the experience |
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"The wife calls the shots. "
Exactly. Some bulls think they can swagger in and take over with absolutely no concern for a wife’s feelings or wishes.
We have been approached by a few like this who are clearly only interested in pursuing their own fantasies. Right from the get go they are telling us what they are going to do without showing any interest whatsoever in our wishes.
Needless to say we bring the conversation with these guys to an abrupt finish.
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For us, a Bull is for exactly the same use as those in farming - to give the females a damn good screw, bringing things to the desired conclusion.
The husband is essentially the farmer, with the job of bringing them both together so as to allow the mating to happen.
You never saw Farmer Barleymow doing this sort of thing on "Bod".
If you get that one, you're as old as I am... |
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