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By *J4U200 OP Man 42 weeks ago
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I have just been very nastily told to grow some by a couple, think it was the woman because I have straight on my profile, I am a real bisexual man and am tired of curious guys being either not committed or not bisexual at all, hence I changed to straight, I do like women too, ffs there was no need for such nastiness, rant over, I give up |
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There’s no need for abuse.
But, I can see where they’re coming from. If someone contacted us with straight on their profile we wouldn’t respond, no matter the reasons for why and no matter how much they claim to be bi in messages |
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Sure theres no need for abuse, but when guys say straight on their profile but claim to be bi in the messages we don't trust them.
Like all you are doing is lying to us man. |
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"I have just been very nastily told to grow some by a couple, think it was the woman because I have straight on my profile, I am a real bisexual man and am tired of curious guys being either not committed or not bisexual at all, hence I changed to straight, I do like women too, ffs there was no need for such nastiness, rant over, I give up "
There are many men who lie about being bisexual or bicurious just to shag someone else's wife. I know you aren't but there is a lot of it about and distrust is easy to build with so many timewasters.
There's also homophobia or biphobia which means men often live for many years hiding their true sexual orientation. It's sad and it's wrong. |
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"So you lied on your profile saying your straight because you're frustrated other guys lie on their profile they're bi?"
Exactly this, your comment OP doesn’t really make sense as you are saying you are tired of men doing that so you then do it yourself!!!
Honesty is always going to be key. The more your profile reflects you in an honest way the better it is for you. Plus why let what others do change the way you present yourself.
Personally I don’t like profiles that say straight and then claim to be bi as to me if someone can’t be honest with themselves it doesn’t bode well as I like people that are honest and embrace what they like and are looking for. |
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"So you lied on your profile saying your straight because you're frustrated other guys lie on their profile they're bi?
Exactly this, your comment OP doesn’t really make sense as you are saying you are tired of men doing that so you then do it yourself!!!
Honesty is always going to be key. The more your profile reflects you in an honest way the better it is for you. Plus why let what others do change the way you present yourself.
Personally I don’t like profiles that say straight and then claim to be bi as to me if someone can’t be honest with themselves it doesn’t bode well as I like people that are honest and embrace what they like and are looking for. "
I forgot to say. Regardless there is no reason for people to be rude, nasty or abusive. |
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They should just have deleted and moved on.
We don't converse with straight profiles. The number of straight men sho say they're really bi as a hope to meet and just be with Bunny is exhausting. So we just don't entertain it.
Trust has been well and truly burnt |
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"Thanks all for your comments, I do understand but was shocked at the venom, I’ve right now grown a pair "
Don’t take it too personally but you do have to appreciate what it’s like for couples that are absolutely bombarded with 1000s of messages and if you look at it from their point of view it does at times get extremely frustrating. There is no need to be rude but don’t dwell on it. Take on board the comments. Change your profile to be honest (don’t worry what anyone else does) and look for like minded people. Let’s face it if your profile had said bi then you wouldn’t have received the backlash you did so it’s worth taking the advice of people on here isn’t it.
Good luck. |
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Thge sexual chemistry of 2 people is very complex and when you add a third or more it gets very hard to predict how people will react.
Just shrug shoulders and move on. You will never be able to guess how people will react when the truth is out. |
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I (Mrs) get totally fed up with the straight but I'm bi guys... it clearly states on our profile if your BI your bi be out be proud.. don't contact us if you have straight on profile.. all that happens is BLOCK. |
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When I first joined here about 2019 I was down as straight and had more success. Since I've broadened my horizons I have put bi curious and my luck has dropped off a cliff. Was tempted to go back to saying straight bit thought sod it as o am what i am.
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"When I first joined here about 2019 I was down as straight and had more success. Since I've broadened my horizons I have put bi curious and my luck has dropped off a cliff. Was tempted to go back to saying straight bit thought sod it as o am what i am.
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luck has nothing to do with it,you are either compatible at the right time for what the other person/s are after or you are not and of course vice versa, lots of things to take into consideration for us to meet someone and luck is not one of them  |
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We’re bisexual and proud to be. Many guys who we meet say bi on their profiles. When it comes down to the fun. If they don’t suck me first and head to the mrs. We ask them to leave. No question, just gone. We see the humiliation on their faces as we watch them leave. |
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"We’re bisexual and proud to be. Many guys who we meet say bi on their profiles. When it comes down to the fun. If they don’t suck me first and head to the mrs. We ask them to leave. No question, just gone. We see the humiliation on their faces as we watch them leave. "
Always a good test! We generally meet for a social first, you can usually tell when they don’t give hubby a so much as a side glance |
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It was wrong that they were abusive.
There appears to be a massive culture on here of men lying about their sexuality.
I saw a profile recently where the guy had messaged me. His profile said he was straight but the only verification he had was from a gay male couple.
I'm not into playing games so I didn't reply as I just like people who are upfront.
So for your sake and others I would say it's best to be honest.
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"It was wrong that they were abusive.
There appears to be a massive culture on here of men lying about their sexuality.
I saw a profile recently where the guy had messaged me. His profile said he was straight but the only verification he had was from a gay male couple.
couldn`t agree more
I'm not into playing games so I didn't reply as I just like people who are upfront.
So for your sake and others I would say it's best to be honest.
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"It was wrong that they were abusive.
There appears to be a massive culture on here of men lying about their sexuality.
I saw a profile recently where the guy had messaged me. His profile said he was straight but the only verification he had was from a gay male couple.
couldn`t agree more
I'm not into playing games so I didn't reply as I just like people who are upfront.
So for your sake and others I would say it's best to be honest.
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honest is the best policy |
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"It was wrong that they were abusive.
There appears to be a massive culture on here of men lying about their sexuality.
I saw a profile recently where the guy had messaged me. His profile said he was straight but the only verification he had was from a gay male couple.
couldn`t agree more
I'm not into playing games so I didn't reply as I just like people who are upfront.
So for your sake and others I would say it's best to be honest.
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honest is the best policy |
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"We’re bisexual and proud to be. Many guys who we meet say bi on their profiles. When it comes down to the fun. If they don’t suck me first and head to the mrs. We ask them to leave. No question, just gone. We see the humiliation on their faces as we watch them leave. "
Would definitely suck cock first and keep sucking. It would not matter if the lady did not interrupt, but is always nice when she does.
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Have to agree with everyone else, never any need for abuse.
But from a couples point of view it happens so much. We get so many messages from guys saying they are bi but it says straight on their profile. Unfortunately, this is a red flag for us as some guys, not all will say anything just to get a foot in the door. |
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Sexuality is such a complicated question , I am bisexual , but for years I was a little ashamed, I liked having sex with men and women but I guess I was isolations, I think fab swingers it’s absolutely great we got to meet all sorts of people and yes will be some people that will not tell the truth of the life depended on it, so sometime in this place you have to take to good with the bad, but the good is really good |
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