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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Hi how many peaple actually know someone on Fab
I have a neighbour whom i know quite well on fab and ive tried messageing
How would you broach the subject in real life |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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I recognised a guy on here I knew who owned a business I used to visit. I messaged him and it was one of the best things I ever did as it led to multiple mmf's and mmff's with him. |
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Avoid mentioning in real life.
If you’ve tried to contact them here with no response, best thing you can do is block them and try to forget all about them.
I know some would, but not sure many would appreciate a real life approach encroaching into the relative secrecy of Fab |
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"I recognised a guy on here I knew who owned a business I used to visit. I messaged him and it was one of the best things I ever did as it led to multiple mmf's and mmff's with him."
Good for you. Hope there is more happy fabbing for you.
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Genrally we don't bring it up? Why would you? Just because your on the same site it's their personal business in what to some is a very private and secretive area of their life. We all have a responsibility to may this lifestyle feel as safe a possible for everyone. So why risk making anyone feel uncomfortable or less secure? Just leave them to it and leave them alone.
Not always the way. If you collide in person on the scene (say at a club or party) take it out their speed. If they desperately try to avoid contact leave them to it. If they seem happy to you you and say Hi, that's completely different.
But as a rule of thumb leave people to themselves on here if you know them only from outside of the scene.
And remember just because you know someone from outside the scene doesn't give you dibs or special access them inside to the scene. We've unfortunately come across this mentality before.
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"One of the other dads from the football team my son plays for is on here, and he is married on as a single guy….
No way am I mentioning it and getting involved in that!"
Sensible guy, fuck that 😂 |
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"Hi how many peaple actually know someone on Fab
I have a neighbour whom i know quite well on fab and ive tried messageing
How would you broach the subject in real life "
I wouldn't worry too much as it will probably end quickly with a block!! |
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"Hi how many peaple actually know someone on Fab
I have a neighbour whom i know quite well on fab and ive tried messageing
How would you broach the subject in real life "
Anyone went have recognised, we block. Like I want to see the cock of the guy who serves me my coffee and pastry?!? Well, I don't think I did, until I seen it. 👀 lol.
We just hit block. Keep it simple.
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I recognised a local women from fab at her place of work. I just smiled as she was attractive, and carried on walking. Sending messages oh I saw you at so and so is just not right.
There's a couple down the street from me on here also, I don't fancy meeting so it's silence and block from me. |
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By *ixie888Woman 38 weeks ago
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"Hi how many peaple actually know someone on Fab
I have a neighbour whom i know quite well on fab and ive tried messageing
How would you broach the subject in real life "
This has happened to me several times and I feel it's contextual. When I first joined I was messaged by a local guy who I knew anyway and had fanny flutters for, so that worked out well and still is!
Another guy locally who I'd spoke with in passing messaged me. That didn't end well for various reasons which I won't go into here.
Another is a neighbour I know, he messaged me and is actually a very nice person so no awkward vibes. I won't ever play with him but we do chat about being on the scene.
A few couples locally who I'm not interested in, so blocked.
And finally, my lovely sister and brother in law! They live miles away and we'll never cross swinging paths but share stories of our antics and experiences 
My advice fwiw? Proceed with caution. Some people prefer to keep this aspect of their life private and there's always the risk of creeping someone out.
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I have a work colleague on here, thats very open about being on here,and i know when he has found others he knows he tells other colleagues (dick move i know) so he got blocked as soon as I could find him. |
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