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Broken your bareback rule
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By *uzzbMan 43 weeks ago
nr Sherborne |
Took a while , but I was finally worn down and now won’t do condoms, as bare is much better ,more instant and completely natural. On PrEP , tested quarterly and have the vaccinations . Outcry of silly bugger - yed , but I try and minimise risk |
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"My rule is "bareback only" and I don't intend to break it any time soon  "
Some years ago, after the wives at three successive meets all made last-minute descions to do without condoms and have me cum inside them, I decided to exclusively play bareback from then on - until then, I used condoms 'on request', but that wasn't very often anyway... 
....since deciding to only play bare, I've turned down a few offers of meets because condoms would have been 'required' - one particular couple were quite persistent, and kept asking to meet, but as neither of us would break our respective 'rule', it never happened...  |
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Broken a rubber - Yes, and sadly it ruined what was otherwise a fabulous evening. Would have definitely played with them again.
Broken the rule - No
Made a mutual and thought out decision to disapply the rule - Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Once. Someone I had slept with a few times, hadn’t seen her for a while, was a lovely build up at a club during the day with kissing and teasing. When in private the desire carried on, and with her hubby watching on, the urge took over and just naturally happened that I ended up inside her bare. Felt bloody amazing. Must emphasise though, it’s normally not the case and safe sex always. And have done ever since this occasion. |
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By *itter78Couple 42 weeks ago
Spennymoor |
Never swinging
Happened with one another early on in dating and that's when we decided not to go bare with others
Clamydia is the leading cause of infertility in men and women
A 6 week infection could be enough to cause enough scar tissue to destroy any hope of natural pregnancy for me, and we want babies in the near future... we will reconsider when we've completed our family 🥰 |
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"How many of you started of with a safe sex rule and broke it early on???"
I did but then I met a lady who said I could bareback with her if I got tested first to prove I was clean. I enjoyed the spontaneity of bare sex so much (I had nearly always used condoms before I started swinging) that since then I have tested regularly and am always happy to go bareback when I meet other single women and couples who are also tested and trusted.
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I broke my rule as a teenager 
My rule for this scene has never been broken.
Yes I do bareback but only with selected few and only when doing a content shoot with all involved tested and Id shown.
Never safe, I know but better than a random fabber telling you they are clean.
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Was in a club and met woman and ended up in the dark room. My birthday and been drinking ended up going bare and I never go bare unless I know them a while and know if there tested regularly..have get test soon as possible |
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By *ambtopMan 12 weeks ago
Cambridge |
Always used to use a condom as I had casual fucks. More recently there have been occasions when I've lapsed, when I received sensual massages with no condoms handy, had to do something about my hard erection so fucked them bareback. |
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"It's amazing how many people on here use a condom for safe sex but when it comes to oral its nearly always bare you can get the same sti from oral  "
Agreed, I wouldn’t go down or receive without a condom, the amount of bad responses I get for not taking off my condom for head is astonishing |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"It's amazing how many people on here use a condom for safe sex but when it comes to oral its nearly always bare you can get the same sti from oral "
I'm totally aligned with you on this. 👌 |
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"Broke my bb rule with a 63 year old couple last week in holiday x
They both liked him having sloppy seconds so I obliged x"
It takes a strong man not to give in but I bet the meet got so much more fun |
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"I have from when a condom split. Once we realised it had spit there was no point having it on. So we took it off.
You play safe all the time apart from this time then ?"
This is like a fab domestic these two have history |
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Will be honest we have with long time tested coupme of guys .
Abd tbh irs such a turn on and opens play up for creampie cleaning .
I dare say alot of couples have changed the goal post as they travel along this journey |
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By *eyeYCouple 11 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
Glad D is far more aware than I, have had a few try to take liberties on that front and he's prevented it..
So no, and no judgement it's not a rule we have any leniency on in honestly, although with known partners and because he's had the snip, I don't mind if the lady prefers it with him.. 😘 |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Broke it ages ago. Since then 95% of my meets have been bare. 90% of people who have safe sex on their profile who I have interacted with have stated a preference for bare sex. I test on average about once a month either at a clinic or using SH24 |
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I remember the first time I broke my condom rule clearly!
As he was guiding me into his wife the husband removed the condom from my cock in kne movement. Spend the whole night barebacking and having a great time |
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Our first full swop was with a couple we had known for years and yes we played bare, he then plastered it all over fab and that completely broke the trust, we never played with them again, we still play bare but only with people we know and trust |
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Never! but was a bit baffled when a couple stated safe only initially when laying out the rules, then insisted I take it it off and cum inside her for the final few strokes as he liked to watch it come out….
I just came and apologised, I didn’t know it was coming and stayed safe…
Still find it odd |
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"Never! but was a bit baffled when a couple stated safe only initially when laying out the rules, then insisted I take it it off and cum inside her for the final few strokes as he liked to watch it come out….
I just came and apologised, I didn’t know it was coming and stayed safe…
Still find it odd "
If it's just the last few strokes without a condom you may aswell have started without any protection
Some people are weird |
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"I have from when a condom split. Once we realised it had spit there was no point having it on. So we took it off.
You play safe all the time apart from this time then ?
This is like a fab domestic these two have history "
Na never that |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"I have from when a condom split. Once we realised it had spit there was no point having it on. So we took it off.
You play safe all the time apart from this time then ?
This is like a fab domestic these two have history
Na never that "
Lier. Lol |
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"I have from when a condom split. Once we realised it had spit there was no point having it on. So we took it off.
You play safe all the time apart from this time then ?
This is like a fab domestic these two have history
Na never that
Lier. Lol"
I feel like Jeremy Kyle in the middle lol |
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Comes down to trust and how well you know someone though or rather how you think you know someone or anyone really ? and aslong as everyone is comfortable/happy....who's business is it of anyones who with or how you play ? ....main reason Discrete come in to aswell..xx |
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"I have from when a condom split. Once we realised it had spit there was no point having it on. So we took it off.
You play safe all the time apart from this time then ?
This is like a fab domestic these two have history
Na never that
Lier. Lol
I feel like Jeremy Kyle in the middle lol"
Im sure I dont wear see-through leggings and have false teeth
...no way
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"I have from when a condom split. Once we realised it had spit there was no point having it on. So we took it off.
You play safe all the time apart from this time then ?
This is like a fab domestic these two have history
Na never that
Lier. Lol
I feel like Jeremy Kyle in the middle lol
Im sure I dont wear see-through leggings and have false teeth
...no way
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They were very special people on that show |
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"I have from when a condom split. Once we realised it had spit there was no point having it on. So we took it off.
You play safe all the time apart from this time then ?
This is like a fab domestic these two have history
Na never that
Lier. Lol
I feel like Jeremy Kyle in the middle lol
Im sure I dont wear see-through leggings and have false teeth
...no way
They were very special people on that show "
Very special lol |
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"I have from when a condom split. Once we realised it had spit there was no point having it on. So we took it off.
You play safe all the time apart from this time then ?
This is like a fab domestic these two have history
Na never that
Lier. Lol
I feel like Jeremy Kyle in the middle lol
Im sure I dont wear see-through leggings and have false teeth
...no way
They were very special people on that show
Very special lol "
A bit like fab this has some very special people that make the Jeremy Kyle show look half normal lol |
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"My rule is "bareback only" and I don't intend to break it any time soon
Some years ago, after the wives at three successive meets all made last-minute descions to do without condoms and have me cum inside them, I decided to exclusively play bareback from then on - until then, I used condoms 'on request', but that wasn't very often anyway...
....since deciding to only play bare, I've turned down a few offers of meets because condoms would have been 'required' - one particular couple were quite persistent, and kept asking to meet, but as neither of us would break our respective 'rule', it never happened... "
I wish I'd have a couple being insistent. I wish I could find a couple I could plead with. |
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By *uzzbMan 10 weeks ago
nr Sherborne |
Minimise the risk. Take PrEP and doxy PEP after, get the injections , get tested every quarter and know when to get immediate treatment if you think you have picked up an std.
Then enjoy a wonderful bareback sex life. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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And we have “Russian Roulette” in a bareback thread. It’s not Russian roulette. That equals a 1/6 chance of death.
Out of interest, I wonder how many of the people who say “safe sex” only, only cross the road at crossings, don’t smoke, have never driven the morning after a heavy night of drinking, always wear a helmet when riding a bike, never climbed a tree……. The list goes on. Yes there is a risk. |
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"Minimise the risk. Take PrEP and doxy PEP after, get the injections , get tested every quarter and know when to get immediate treatment if you think you have picked up an std.
Then enjoy a wonderful bareback sex life."
That's one way of doing it lol |
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Only twice. First was a small group thing and half way through a fuck the lady reached down and whipped the condom off. - I was too far gone to stop! Second was with a mature lady who went from gentle kissing and fondling to quite literally climbing aboard and going like a train in a nanosecond without asking. Everything else has been safe |
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I feel like people are afraid of saying they have done it in here.
Yes broken that rule with several FWBs, feels a lot more intimate, trusting and mentally it’s just 10x hotter.
Always get tested a couple of weeks after, had bloods checked. Still all negatives.
You have to pick the people carefully though and always get tested if you move on to a different person later on.
If I was in this for one nighters it would always be condoms as you can’t trust that. |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"I feel like people are afraid of saying they have done it in here.
Yes broken that rule with several FWBs, feels a lot more intimate, trusting and mentally it’s just 10x hotter.
Always get tested a couple of weeks after, had bloods checked. Still all negatives.
You have to pick the people carefully though and always get tested if you move on to a different person later on.
If I was in this for one nighters it would always be condoms as you can’t trust that."
Not sure people are afraid to say. We genuinely haven’t played with anyone without protection and I’ve been in situations where people have said “don’t worry about a condom” and I have reiterated I will be wearing one.
Mistakes happen I get that. They can burst. But we still get checked every 3 months anyway even though we use protection.
You’re right, it is better without, for me anyway. But keeping safe, staying in the scene and having confidence that I’m safe and free from infection makes me feel good. |
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Ive had times when things have happened and I've gone and got tested straight after.
As a rule I stick to it though unless it was a regular or long term thing then you would have the discussion on when to go about it and getting tested ect. |
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By *ister_EMan 5 weeks ago
Hayling Island |
My rule is condoms only unless mutual trust has been established and mutual exclusivity agreed. And even then, I still insist we all test together and share results before the condoms come off.
Currently in a bb relationship with a couple and it is so hot when we take turns fucking her and filling her with multiple loads
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"We only have one or two regular guys where we can fuck bareback as we both hate the smell,taste and difficulty in getting them on we don't bother meeting people who want to use them "
We are the same hate the things so only play bare |
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