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By *ylo7 OP Man 35 weeks ago
Clayton, Manchester |
Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..
Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion. |
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The nightclub analogy is good, as you pay to get in those too. The difference is that in a nightclub, someone will let you buy drinks for them all night before going off with someone else rather than a swingers club where they’ll tell you pretty quickly if there’s sex on the cards |
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"Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..
Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion. "
How many clubs have you been to?
Definitely not paying for it, entry does in not way guarantee sex.
You are paying a minimal amount to use the club facilities and the event you are attending.
A club to me, is a social with the chance and location for any extra activities.
Unless it is a specific event or I have pre arranged something then the chances are slim for single guys at clubs just going on the off chance. |
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No. You're paying for entry into a place which might increase your chances, and will increase your chances of socialising with swingers and adjacent people.
People who assume that it will get them sex tend to have a bad time. |
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"No. You're paying for entry into a place which might increase your chances, and will increase your chances of socialising with swingers and adjacent people.
People who assume that it will get them sex tend to have a bad time."
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"Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..
Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion. "
Probably best you go to a club, pay the entrance fee.
Once inside, go up to the first couple or single lady and explain as you have paid to enter a swingers club you feel it fair and reasonable to demand sex with them.
You may have to repeat your demands to the husband twice, as his first response will be something like "sorry, what did you say?"
Don't thing many more words would be used.
Let us know how you get along and what ward you are on, so we can send you some grapes.  |
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"Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..
Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion.
Probably best you go to a club, pay the entrance fee.
Once inside, go up to the first couple or single lady and explain as you have paid to enter a swingers club you feel it fair and reasonable to demand sex with them.
You may have to repeat your demands to the husband twice, as his first response will be something like "sorry, what did you say?"
Don't thing many more words would be used.
Let us know how you get along and what ward you are on, so we can send you some grapes. "
Oh and if you don’t get sex, having paid at the door for it, I would suggest a strong worded letter to management demanding a refund! |
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Is paying to get into a nightclub paying for sex?
Is attending a speed dating event paying for sex?
Does going to a swingers club guarantee you sex?
Clearly the answer is no. Because you're paying entry to a swingers club, that's all. To enjoy the environment and facilities. All of the above scenarios could lead to sex if you hooked up with the right person. But you would say going to a nightclub is paying for sex and neither is going to a swingers club. Any sex you get in a swinger club is not paid for and it's not an entitlement either. It's just free sex between consenting adults just like any other scenario. |
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By *9alMan 35 weeks ago
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"Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..
Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion. "
no its not the same, I say this as someone who has visited a few massage parlors & working girls |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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The clubs provide a facility, they provide the staffing and everything else that goes with it.
People go there and expect a hygienic atmospheric environment, where they know they will be in the company of like-minded people
They may go there hoping for a good social night only
They may go there hoping for some sexual fun
However I doubt anyone goes there EXPECTING sex
The clubs don't guarantee you will have that kind of fun, because they are not there to provide that
Therefore you are not paying for sex, you are paying for entrance to the facility |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..
Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion. "
It can be difficult to socialise outside of events or clubs with like-minded people in a non-judgemental environment where you’re generally accepted for being yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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Surely sex at a club isn’t guaranteed. Unless of course you have arranged a meet at one in which case it becomes just that - a meet. The payment to enter the club would be equivalent of paying to have a meal on a date?? |
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