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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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What’s the best way to approach single women and couples on Fab as a younger single bloke? Plenty of people have in their bio that they are open to single males in their twenties but I rarely get messages back. Any idea what I’m doing wrong? |
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By *vaRoseWoman 34 weeks ago
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Welcome to fab.
Firstly remember that just like in real life you won’t be compatible with most. You’ve only been here a short time so don’t worry yet.
Unfortunately your age will shrink the pool you’re in as many members actively avoid people the same age as their own kids. Theres nothing you can do about that though so concentrate on what is in your control.
Your profile
How you message
How you use fab
Those are totally within your power to change.
Your profile is your shop window, do you think it’s a good reflection of you? Does it accurately say what you bring to the table? Or is it a list of wants? Is your gallery full of good quality images that best reflect you and your body? - bare in mind here I haven’t clicked on your profile so this is just general advice
Your messages, are you reading the bios of the people you’re messaging? I much prefer a message that shows they’ve read my profile and doesn’t immediately open into sex chat.
How you use fab, consider attending one of the organised socials. Great way to get your face out there and meet real people. You’ll pick up verifications that way too which can help prove you are who you say you are. If you’re feeling brave then heading to a club.
Lots of ladies get lots of winks, many of us don’t bother checking them. So if you’re relying on that as a way to show attraction I’d maybe reconsider using it as your only tool. It’s a tool to use yes, but maybe a good opening message would be more effective.
Remember lots of people view on ninja mode so you’ll have no idea if they’ve visited your profile or not.
My only other advice is to be yourself, don’t try and mould yourself into something you’re not. Keep chatting on the forums. |
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Honest, polite & fun. If it's a couple, you're probably talking to the guy. Put yourself in his position. How would you want to be contacted?
You already have the answers. Just listen to that inner voice, the one in your upstairs brain. |
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