Can we talk about people coming into your DMs like a bull in a china shop and trying to force their kinks and fetishes onto you. Not only is it bad manners, you might be triggering someone who has had a previous bad experience or some kind of phobia regarding that kink.
Be reasonable. If that is what you want then discuss it first rather than potentially traumatising someone. It’s about respect, it’s about boundaries. Don’t be creepy. |
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We get a bit of that. But they tend to be easy to mould into silliness. It's quite surprising how far we can go before they realise what we're doing. We tend to turn it into sport rather than getting offended,
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"I wouldn't do it but now with how soft everyone is it would be easy 'trigger' someone with everything. 🤷♂️"
It’s not about being soft. It’s about not being rude. I had someone message me yesterday, start on about his kink - not discussing, fully roleplaying, I asked him to stop. He carried on and got more graphic. That was probably part of the game for him. It’s not ok. It’s gross behaviour. |
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Yeah I get some sickos in my mailbox. I just deleted and block.
Unless I am feeling ultra bratty, then I make up some outrageous thing I want them to do. I usually find 80% back slowly away and deleted me. |
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I may be a bit old fashioned but, unless a profile is explicitly saying it’s looking for some specific kink or fantasy, any conversation of that nature should be well down the line, possibly even after a first meet.🤷♂️ |
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