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Finding a man for mfm
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"How hard is it to find a man for mfm??!!
Could be difficult enough when your profile states you're not looking for guys "
Haha very true, no blokes can message. Would be impossible to find! |
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By *lthomasMan 40 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"How hard is it to find a man for mfm??!!
Could be difficult enough when your profile states you're not looking for guys
Haha very true, no blokes can message. Would be impossible to find!"
and you’ve no verifications and very young, which can go against you with the more sceptical among us |
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I dont think it's finding a man that's an issue. It funding one that meets your criteria.
If you were to open you targeted market a little more, then im sure you'd be inundated and could then pick and choose.
Obviously, im no expert, just my thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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There loads of us single guys on here it's just we don't have verification and other stuff woman look for so we don't get messages from you. Also my question is this and I think it's a fair one how do you expect us to have verification when none of u reply or message there's 100s of singles on here it's either that or they may not like something about our profile. Although could also be they just don't find us attractive who knows but definitely plenty for you to choose from haha 🤣 |
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"How hard is it to find a man for mfm??!!"
Shouldn’t be hard finding a genuine guy is the trick sadly it seems I’m well past your age range as local to but keep looking be patient and your find what you desire the best things cum to those that wait |
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"How hard is it to find a man for mfm??!!"
I’m sure you will get inundated with offers , but lots of guys talk the talk then don’t show so I’m told . I’m out your age range but feel 25 still .. lol .
Where do I sign up !?
MMF fun is awsome fun |
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By *andb69Couple 40 weeks ago
leeds |
"How hard is it to find a man for mfm??!!"
Not hard at all if you go to a club. Volunteers line up and you can usually take your pick (plus it's safer than meeting some random guy you've never seen). If you like a particular guy you play with in a club you can always arrange regular meets outside the club. |
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Finding the right guy who we can build a connection with is very hard.
We did have a regular gent who fit our wants/needs perfectly and I guess in a way that makes it harder now as he set the bar high.
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I’d say way but slightly biased
In fairness to couples and single ladies probably a nightmare choice is off the scale a million men who think they are all perfect for every situation
How do you filter through us all
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By *arand25Couple 38 weeks ago
Crowborough |
It's very easy finding them, open yourselves up to single men on here & watch the floodgates open. A lot are fakes, married or attached etc which is very frustrating as we've arranged to meet 3 who bailed at the last minute - the excuses are hilarious 
We now look with good filters rather than being bombarded by every thirsty guy around. |
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By *arand25Couple 38 weeks ago
Crowborough |
"I’d say way but slightly biased
In fairness to couples and single ladies probably a nightmare choice is off the scale a million men who think they are all perfect for every situation
How do you filter through us all
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Decent photos first and foremost, allied with a well written bio works for us. |
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Finding a male for MFM on here is easy.
As long as you don't mind guys only asking for MF when you're clearly asking for MFM. Guys that don't read your profile.
Guys that don't want to take time chatting and building a trust which could lead to a regular fun experience.
That's just some of our experience so far.
Like the club idea but not had the best time at a club so far. |
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By *asha86Couple 38 weeks ago
walsall |
Its finding a man that you both agree on thats respectful and can turn up when says and does the business when its needed. We have found very few that tick all those boxes but when we do we tend to keep in regular contact  |
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"Its finding a man that you both agree on thats respectful and can turn up when says and does the business when its needed. We have found very few that tick all those boxes but when we do we tend to keep in regular contact "
This is why we generally meet or look to meet in clubs. Had a couple of underwhelming hotel meets, no shows and late let downs. Aborted two meets at guys houses as one was clearly his parents house which felt wrong (he was over 30 btw) and one guy that had a really dirty house and if he lives that way he can’t be hygienic!!
At least if you meet in a club you can tell if they are serious about meeting and also if it’s a flat or disappointing meet then you have the rest of the night to salvage something better!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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i think its like anything on here. finding someone is relatively easy but finding the right person who you'd be comfortable with letting into your home/relationship etc etc is the hard part |
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On the very rare occasions we've looked for a single male we look at their veris and how they put themselves across before we message. It then becomes apparent within one or two messages if we will take it further. |
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Difficult for us. We had someone we got on well with, messaged outside of fab… had someone banter and fun then before the meet disappeared.
It’s somewhat put the Mrs off, that and the raft of ‘you got bewbs, luk at my d1ck’ messages we get
We don’t really have any wild standards, obviously there needs to be an attraction from her side, and vice versa for him. Sexually we are new to it but fairly vanilla so not even looking for any specific link, just a man who wants sex and knows it’s just sex and some fun.
Maybe it will happen at some point but considering we are new to the scene so far our experience of getting a meet is proving difficult and our interest has slowed a little |
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By *reg CMan 37 weeks ago
Wiltshire |
It’s always hard as a single guy - when there are so many other single men who let the side down and are after quick pervs before wimping out. I’d say the key is how discrete the initial profile is - and is there substance beyond that, shown in veris of their experience with couples… then how readily they can share additional chat and pics. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Also bare in mind regardless of whether you’re a couple or a single….we all have feelings, emotions & boundaries.
Respect is a two way street and sometimes, a magical connection can occur |
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and I must say it’s very few and far between. I just wish there was more understanding couples out there. It is the best scenario ever me serving a husband and wife in this scenario. 