8 weeks is nothing. Your profile would put us off, not much on it and loads of pics of you posing, makes it look like you fancy yourself. Nothing wrong with being into fitness (I'm a personal trainer) but we don't like gym pics of guys posing, maybe some will. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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I would say keep in mind that there are many many other guys out there with very similar profiles. You'll blend into the crowd of dicks if you don't stand out.
"Fitness guy looking for some fun" doesn't really tell us much about you as a person. Think about what your unique selling point is, what makes you you  |
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By *andb69Couple 38 weeks ago
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If by "meet" you mean a free fuck in return for a three line message then I wouldn't hold your breath. Fab is just a part of the swinging scene so get yourself to a club, meet real people, show you're willing to put in some effort, that you're respectful, and gain a few verifications on the way. It will make a difference to your success rate. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 38 weeks ago
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You look good, but as every pic of you is in the gym or showing off the gym bod, I'd think twice, as I'd wonder if that's all you've got going for you. I'd be worried that if we met you'd be talking about the gym within 30 seconds.
Try teasing with the bod and adding more variety of photo. Also, get more creative with the blurb.  |
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"I'm always up for going to the foxy in bilston for meets as it's next door to my gym and can pretend that that's where I'm going lol I've gotta be discreet see as I live with parents"
Understand to an extent the issue of discretion but there’s always a weekend away where you could perhaps go to other venues.
Also the fact that because you live with your parents means you probably cannot accommodate, that would be a red flag to some as they would assume a single guy who can’t accommodate is probably an attached male and the partner doesn’t know. |
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"I think I better but that I live with parents in bio so folks don't get the wrong idea "
It may not help.
I’d probably put accommodate, and then you can explain when messaging that it would be at a hotel, and why. |
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"Been on here for a few weeks now and looks like no one is after a single male  "
A few weeks? Hold your expectation kid. It isn't magic and you are competing with thousands of men for like ten women. It might take some time but otherwise I am sure you are doing everything anyone else would. |
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Took us 3 months to get our first meet, and that was with us going to clubs regularly too. Not much happens from here anymore, get to a club and speak to real humans in person. Its works for us x
Mrs x |
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Why do you have to tell your parents that you're going to the gym. Surely at your age they won't care where you are, just be glad you're out. How will you be able to go to a club or hotel meet? Will you have to take your gym bag? |
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I second this
Hubs and I went clubbing first, found Fab second.
Of course, I love you too, Fab 😘
But getting out and chancing it in person is way more fun than text flirting. Naturally a bit more expensive too, but everyone deserves a treat once in a while
"Took us 3 months to get our first meet, and that was with us going to clubs regularly too. Not much happens from here anymore, get to a club and speak to real humans in person. Its works for us x
Mrs x"
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"The first thing anyone will do is look at your profile."
"Cheers guys after considering all your points I've adjusted my profile, could I please get some feedback if possible cheers"
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OP, I'm sorry to hear that you're not having much luck. As most people have said - you're still relatively new on here. I'm not sure what you've changed on your profile or 'improved' but your profile is still not...I don't know, I can't pinpoint it, it's missing a vibe, it's quite nuanced...
...it needs further work. Somewhere. 🩶 |
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