Can you please share your experiences that you’ve had with an MMF or MFM please. I’m still waiting to experience this, it’s still on my to do list. Please tell me the good, the bad and the ugly 😊 Thank you |
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Hey lovely, my first one I didn’t consider the energy/vibe of the guys and while I fancied them both they really didn’t gel as people. It seems really naive now. When picking your play buddies don’t just check they’re two guys who’s interest align actually think about would they work well in a team together |
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Didn't speak up as much as I should and the additional male (who was lovely, no criticism) set the tone, speed and direction.
Looking back on it afterwards hubby and I felt we had been led to meet his needs not ours.
Ever since, we have been much more specific.
Best advice, set your stall out, be clear on your expectations and don't compromise. |
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We've had a play situation where one male (his first time) was just wanting to get straight to it with no build up which wasn't great. Knowing what we know now, we'd be me more comfortable in telling a male to slow it down and go with the flow. FFM has been much more relaxed and sensual. |
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"Hey lovely, my first one I didn’t consider the energy/vibe of the guys and while I fancied them both they really didn’t gel as people. It seems really naive now. When picking your play buddies don’t just check they’re two guys who’s interest align actually think about would they work well in a team together "
I get that. Thing with me I need to one of them to be someone I’ve already met and who I feel comfortable with. Which I have that but finding the other one seems to be an issue |
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"MMF
Didn't speak up as much as I should and the additional male (who was lovely, no criticism) set the tone, speed and direction.
Looking back on it afterwards hubby and I felt we had been led to meet his needs not ours.
Ever since, we have been much more specific.
Best advice, set your stall out, be clear on your expectations and don't compromise. "
Great tip thank you |
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"We've had a play situation where one male (his first time) was just wanting to get straight to it with no build up which wasn't great. Knowing what we know now, we'd be me more comfortable in telling a male to slow it down and go with the flow. FFM has been much more relaxed and sensual."
Yes I wouldn’t be rushed, I have a tendency to run a mile if someone tries that |
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