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How did you start swinging?
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How did everyone end up in the swinging lifestyle?
For us it started by being watched by friends fucking each other as they fucked next to us after a d*unken night out. After a few months of talking to each other about how we felt we went further when on holiday after we chatted with a couple. Our first full swap was intense and amazing
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I would say we aren't swingers but play sexually sometimes.
Husband introduced the idea and planted the seed in my head. He said if I wanted to have sex with another man I could.
I was chatted up one day y a young man going home on the underground, he invited me for a drink and I ended up at his flat where he basically fucked and fingered me stupid.
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Bit of a long one,
Got to my first unit (army) then as it was the old pay system, where food wasnt pay as you dine, I spent all my money on a bed. Was on PoF and found a date that was in another town, went with no money and made a deal with the lovely lady that she would pay this time and ill pay the next. Got to the town and she bassically ditched me in an unfamiliar place where I had no money and missed the last train home. Slept on the train station platform and spoke to the conductor of the first train back, they laughed at my story and told me about the sister site of this place (now defunct). Then I went from strength to strength going to socials all over the country, met my wife in the scene and loved every minute of the nearly 13 years ( at the end of the month) of being in this scene. |
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By *dwalu2Couple 25 weeks ago
Bristol |
We talked about it together, did some Googling and found Fab. We put a meet advert up and a couple of days later had our first amazing FFM! We thought that’s how easy it was…well we were in for a dose of reality afterwards that’s for sure.
We put the story of our first meet on here, there’s a link to it at the end of our profile for anyone who may want to read it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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For me and my now ex it was kind of natural progression, in the early days learning about each other , experimenting a little, with a couple of very friendly friends, becoming surer of our selves as a couple and ultimately enjoying the ride( sorry couldn’t resist) |
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I wouldn't say I'm a swinger. But I do have an open mind if I find somebody extremely attractive, and I want to play with them. It's predominantly alternative stuff. Nothing you could catch anything nasty from. My sister had a pregnancy while she used condoms. And another friend of mine caught an STI while they were using condoms. And this was over 30 years ago. It's been a great lesson. |
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A little tipsy, we watched a trailer for Open House in a hotel room. After 24 hours of open & honest discussion & intense sex, we decided to give this a go.
Since then we've been on a voyage of discovery. Mostly good, a little not so good, but it's all a learning curve. |
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By *reasyMan 25 weeks ago
Caerphilly |
Some 20 old years ago I found out my ex-wife was being fucked by somebody else. I hated her for cheating and lying but got so turned on knowing another guy was fucking her. I told her I’d happily share her but she didn’t want that. That was the end of our marriage. I wondered if there were other guys like me that wanted to share their wife and thankfully there are.
vanilla sex will never ever be enough for me. I absolutely love to share another guy‘s wife with him. |
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Didn’t realise that I (Just) had been swinging right from my teens. Used to share girlfriends with best mate. Had some interesting nights with girlfriend friend joining us.
Found Fab in 2014 from watching some amateur porn where they mentioned it.
Becky joined in 2016, coming from the Fet side. |
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By *stoppMan 25 weeks ago
Durham |
I was introduced to swinger life style during a photoshoot when i was asked to step in for the husband of the model, as we finished up the shoot the model invited me to join fabswingers, the rest is history. |
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Friends party, 10 years + ago.
At end of the evening, a lady asked to borrow mobile to call her husband, to my shock and surprise she's told him exactly what she was planning to do with me and my mate, and when he could collect her the next day.
My first introduction to swinging, cuckolding and first MFM, a total eye opener. |
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"Friends party, 10 years + ago.
At end of the evening, a lady asked to borrow mobile to call her husband, to my shock and surprise she's told him exactly what she was planning to do with me and my mate, and when he could collect her the next day.
My first introduction to swinging, cuckolding and first MFM, a total eye opener. "
What an insanely hot scenario! And what a baptism of fire  |
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We booked a holiday to PDI without knowing about the resort. Our balcony overlooked Peaches and Cream swingers club so we thought fuck it and went in there on our first night. We chatted to a couple who told us about Fab and that was that.  |
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I was fucking her one night and I said ‘I would love to see another man fuck you’ I instantly felt her get wetter.
We then found fab, our first experience was an mmff, however we quickly realised that the turn on for both of us is her fucking other guys.
Since then she’s had quite a bit of cock  |
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A-bit of role play in bed. Went on holiday to Cyprus, we was about 23 and few drinks and couple young lads around our age, was speaking to us and joined us for the night in the bar. She had a little dance with them, we spoke about brining the role play into practice. Had drinks back in our room, and we started playing with each other in the bedroom and invited one of them in. Just went from there. Spontaneous, less pressure, and loved it |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I started swinging when I was 18 because my girlfriend at the time was a couple years older and she was already doing it. We were both notice anyway so was the next step to enjoy sex with others plus we were both bisexual. |
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By *manteeCouple 25 weeks ago
Manchester |
Our first time we wanted to be watched in a safe environment so went to a swingers club. It ended up being more than being watched when Em felt up another guys cock in the bar area and invited him into one of the playrooms. Its developed a lot since that first encounter |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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Was working overseas in the 1980's and it was a vibrant expat community we got involved in. We were invited to a party which was the classic 'car keys in a fruitbowl' affair, which was a bit of a shock. We bowed out of that one and left the party. However, my wife brought the subject up later, after talking to other wives, and said she'd like to 'give it a go', if I agreed. Another party invite followed, given by the same people, and again the fruitbowl' routine. My wife went off with someone and I took a horny French lady home with me for the night. The rest is history... |
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Girl at work wanted to watch a couple have sex, so my wife and I duly obliged.
We were invited to her house while her husband was away. My wife dressed up in a basque, heels and hold ups (no knickers), and left the bedroom door open. Eventually I could sense her watching, and she moved closer until she was right next to us and started to suck on my wife’s nipples. I didn’t fuck her that day but it led to us eventually having a mmff with her husband, and I fucked her regularly one on one while watching porn during our lunch break.
That started my wife and I swinging properly, and i released that I preferred to watch her being fucked (by men and women) and that I was also orally bi.
Good times, she no longer plays but I’m still having fun occasionally.
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Local pub had a swingers social in the back room, asked what everyone was doing as nosey bitch. And then when found out I was like “I’m kinky let me join!!!” then started meeting other rude people from there. |
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I wouldn’t say we’re fully pledged swingers haha! We haven’t done any social meets, clubs or swaps etc yet. Not played with anyone else barring a glory hole in Amsterdam in which we both went in and I sucked the cock whilst he watched! . We’re fairly new.
After a few drinks I think we both just came to a conclusion we’d be happy with playing with another woman or couple and then we found this site and that’s where we’re at! Lots of chats on here and with others but nothing more so yet
Are doing our first club visit this weekend though!    |
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When my wife was on her 30's we invited a friend from London to come to us for a drinks night out.
We took in around the local pubs all night.
Then when we were walking back home a bit d*unk, my wife got quite d*unk as she is not use to it, she was in the middle and both of us were holding her with arms around.
Then I noticed my friend squeezing her ass, he even lift up her short dress and put his had inside her pants squeezing her ass.
I saw it, I got very hard cock and never said nothing, she also never said nothing and we kept walking and talking.
When we got home, it was like never nothing happened. I got us another drink Nd then I grabbed my wife and started to squeeze her tits and open her shirt and asked him if he think she was s sexy beast. She was on her 39's, 5.8 tall, very slim Spanish with nice ass and small tits.
She started to say my name as I was squeezing her tits and asked him, but she didn't said nothing else and just looked at my friend. I kept touching her and opened her dress and got her tits out, she just laughed and kept looking at my friend. I then invited him to come and touch her, after he said that she was a very sexy woman and he would like a girlfriend like her. He touched her from the front as I was behind her. She kissed me and he started to kiss her niples, knowing my wife I could see she was already soaking, so I completely opened her dress and drop it off, my friend automatically touched her pussy over her pants. I could hear her breathing fast and opening her legs for him.
Then I just told him to fuck her for me, surprised she didn't said nothing till he got his cock out and we both said what a big cock he had, it was 8.5" all hard inside her. |
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For myself (Mr) it started before I met Mrs Misfit. Infact the conversation first come from my ex wife who had been to swingers clubs a couple of times in her late teens. I was actually intrested, especially the group aspect. But I didn't persue it. Because she only brought up the subject when dr^nk and something just didn't make me feel safe doing it with her. Our relationship didn't feel secure enough from her end for my liking (as history played out I was vindicated).
Moving on, she cheated, ran off, left me with the kids. So I was single, free, rediscovering myself. I was fitting in a nice varied sex life where I could but I wanted to discover the lifestyle more. Clubs, parties, threesome, moresomes, everthing. So I started on here that lead me not not only more single ladies but couples and clubs. I was smitten by the lifestyle, the social side and the sexual freedom.
As to us as a couple, we met on fab. So no elephant in the room there. I introduced Mrs Misfit to clubs and we've never looked back since. With her I have the honesty and total security I never had with my ex wife. Which gives us the freedom to enjoy the scene to its fullest with regards our shared and individual desires. It's an awesome life with the right person. |
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For me (Mr) I've always been interested in it and so started exploring online many moons ago, had some interesting experiences which cemented the whole thing.
With Mrs I started discussing pretty early and we started to explore with randoms before we met a more experienced couple who set us up profiles etc |
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By *ee1967Man 25 weeks ago
rickmansworth |
For me and the ex wife it was due to an unplanned threesome with a very fit barman in our hotel in florida. Me and roxy had only been together maybe 10 months and it just escalated from him flirting with her and her back to him for 5 or 6 days. Then bam.
When we got home we started to chat about maybe trying swinging. |
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Woman who i was FWB with arranged a mmf meet with a mutual friend for my 50th birthday, after that we created a joint profile on here and used to use the whos near feature while out in pub...had quite a bit of fun at the time. |
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Pre-internet, I used a couple of phone chatlines through which I had a number of late night/early hours meets, mostly with 'single' ladies seeking a few hours' of male 'company' - a couple of whom turned out to be married, and 'playing' while their husbands were at work or away...
....then, late one evening, the woman who I was engaged in conversation with invited me to visit, but as it would have taken a couple of hours for me to get there (which was too late for her), she asked if I could make it the following evening...
....it wasn't until after we'd arranged the when and she'd given me her address that I learned that she was married - when she asked if I'd be OK with her husband being present and watching!
Such a situation was completely new to me, and I didn't know how I'd 'perform' - but all went well, I discovered the thrill of playing with a wife in front of a husband, and the rest is, as they say, history! |
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We used to talk about it telling each other our fantasies looked up a few websites dipped our toe into talking to Coles sharing pics meeting for social and then engaging , not hardened swingers as such but enjoy the occasional meet with like minded Cples |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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Naturist beach in majorca. Was talking to a couple that was next to us. They started flurting and they had sex. Next day they were there again and this day we all ended up having sex together. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I got picked up by a couple in a local pub on a wet Wednesday night 25 years ago. Totally random meeting and great threesome back at their house. The rest is history. |
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I was invited to a party whilst in California, I was told it was good for singles to meet people. Not long before me and the 2 lads I went with all ended up fucking a woman whos husband watched...I realised it was a swingers party. I have never looked back |
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By *tark01Man 25 weeks ago
Middlesbrough |
"Found myself wanking a lot and eventually did so with other guys on cam. Things progressed and I have to say meeting couples has been by far the best thing about this so far….."
This is what I would like, as I'm shy, & nervous, I have to build myself up to meet anyone. Had some fun with the neighbours. Cpl of meets. But my shyness puts ppl off. But I'd cam with ppl. Had one cam meet. |
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My wife got best friends with a girl she worked with they started to go out for a drink after work after a while my wife told me that that guys would follow her friend to the lady's room,her friend invited us to a party at her place she explained that amongst her friends,one would hold a party on the last Saturday of every month and it was her turn this time,she explained that they would play games,my wife asked what games she said twister and dare, card games,she then laughed and said this time it is the girls swapp knickers and the guys had to guess who was wearing is wife's,as you can imagine the outcome, hence how we started swinging |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I was invited to a pilots house party. At the time I was dating a few crew members...
Long and short of this party was I left the kitchen to the lounge, and then got a blowjob from someone's wife, whilst watching others full time play. The rest is history. |
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