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By *eet in Cornwall OP Couple 25 weeks ago

Redruth

I make the assumption that when it comes to this world of swinging fun in most couples the man is the driver who makes the first suggestion (like with us). Are there many couples out there where it was the lady who instigated the lifestyle? Random Wednesday Question.

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago

Yes. Me

Was much more focused on playing with girls when I was younger in preference to males.

Got to my early 40's and missed it

Suggested it to hubby and surprisingly enough (

) he was on board with it.

Hence, here we are

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By *orny4youCouple 25 weeks ago

Huddersfield

It all started watching mmf porn and I was amazed at how much it turned me on. I asked hubby if we could look at different sites and we started camping and chatting. It was me that wanted the meet more I think..but since that it has always been a joint decision

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By *ed FlameWoman 25 weeks ago

South Gloucestershire

I started it and haven't stopped where he has.

Not his thing but totally mine.

I adore women ❤️

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By *orksbloke73Man 25 weeks ago

Goole

My wife started it after lots of dirty chats with a workmate, who'd been doing 3sums & couple fun.

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By *aandLoCouple 25 weeks ago

Southampton

There had been a lot of chat about my greediness, so I knew J would love to satisfy my desire and his desire to see me spoiled, and full.

Suggesting we take the plunge in signing up on Fab was driven by me and J signed off on it immediately. 😁

I do the Fabmin, and arrange meets, parties, clubs etc. Any socials/meets involving a woman then he obviously gets consulted before I do anything.

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By *eet in Cornwall OP Couple 25 weeks ago

Redruth

Oh wow, this is really enlightening... good on you ladies. It took me ages to get my wife to try, she loves it now but was certain she wouldn't

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By *ougntinaCouple 25 weeks ago

chigwell

it started with us both wanting to try a nude beach for a giggle, then enjoying what we saw and building it into our fantasies and chats. the first step was us both but its now the f who pursues this most

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By *issmorganWoman 25 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and it was an equal decision, as we met here as singles.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple 25 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Female here suggested it because I love females and my partner was more than happy to indulge with me and then it moved on to couples

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple 25 weeks ago

Essex

We met through swinging we were both involved as singles so it was a natural progression to continue as a couple with both of us as eager as eachother

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 25 weeks ago

Leeds

Probably more myself (Mrs) but ultimately it's a joint decision.

Mrs

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By *iddle and SquatCouple 25 weeks ago

Bristol

We watched Open House, so kinda joint decision.

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple 25 weeks ago

Cheshire