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By *arand25Couple 25 weeks ago
Crowborough |
Get more photos on your profile & improving your bio massively would help. We read them and are sure others do, we like to find out whether guys are on the same page before reaching out.
Sorry to be blunt but we'd skip you by as is |
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Zero effort on profile tells everyone nothing about you, not many pics and if a man especially ( as tons of single men v woman and couples ) can’t be bothered to write a bio that’s interesting and tells us something about you then 9/10 they won’t want to interact. This site is for casual swinging and fun but connection is what most people want before they drop their pants or knickers and it’s impossible to get a connection from your profile. |
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"Zero effort on profile tells everyone nothing about you, not many pics and if a man especially ( as tons of single men v woman and couples ) can’t be bothered to write a bio that’s interesting and tells us something about you then 9/10 they won’t want to interact. This site is for casual swinging and fun but connection is what most people want before they drop their pants or knickers and it’s impossible to get a connection from your profile. "
I beg to differ. Lack of effort tells everyone what they need to know 🤷🏻♂️ |
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By *erdyguy45Man 25 weeks ago
Solihull/milton keynes & other |
I'm not sure if I was just lucky on my first meet or whether it was because I took the time to read the profile and send a respectful nice message. No expectations, no dick picks just a genuine message.
If you can get to a social event near you then this will also be a big help. I've met some amazing people from the social I attended not long after starting my journey. |
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"Why is it so hard to get a connection??
Girls/ladies what are we/men doin wrong 🤷🏻🤦🏻
North or Ireland 🥴🤷🏻🤷🏻"
Are your messages worth responding to? What sort of thing do you write to try to kick of a conversation? |
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Zero effort in profile.
"Better in person" is often in my experience a lazy way out.
Even if I was willing to overlook that, there is nothing in your profile to start a conversation around. It is generic and describes almost every straight male on here within 100 miles of you. |
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