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Is it reasonable to ask for a face pic?
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"If your planning to meet then it's a more than reasonable request. 🤷"
Exactly this. I won't meet without one. I don't care for private you are if we're getting naked together I want to see who it is, if we're meeting in public I want to recognise you. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Personally I think if you are going to ask for a face picture you should send yours first "
Absolutely. Attach a face pic with the message asking for one.
Had plenty asking for a face pic but refusing to send one themselves. Byeeeee lol |
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It's not unreasonable to ask for one but it's also not unreasonable for them to refuse.
Not everyone is comfortable sharing face pics here for all sorts of reasons and in 10 years here I've yet to ask for one.
I don't share with anyone unless we have already agreed to meet or the conversation has convinced me that they can be trusted.
I have met lots of people over the years without sharing a pic because a 2d image on a screen tells me absolutely nothing and I would never base attraction on that alone.
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 24 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"Given my face is in over 100 photos, it hardly seems fair I wouldn't know who I'm speaking with. "
I think for us Tgirls, it's essential we have face pics in public, as there is such a huge variety between those who don't do make up and have a beard and those who look ultra fem and it's unfair not to let the other person see  |
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By *io--Man 24 weeks ago
Near Blackpool |
"Had quite a few potential meets breakdown recently because the other party refused to show there face before meeting.
Is it an unreasonable request? "
Not at all, face is the most important feature for alot of people when it comes to physical attraction. Blind meets are not fun, maybe a social meet first instead would be a good alternative |
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Everyone has the right to ask and people have the right to refuse. It’s going to dramatically reduce their chances I would have thought - I certainly wouldn’t meet without sharing face photos at some point and sooner rather than later. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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If your planning a meet then definitely.
Sadly too many accounts with zero pics and profiles requesting face pics.., sadly some of these have been spam accounts |
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If we agreed to meet, then it's fair enough they would want to exchange face pics. At least so we can recognise each other (as long as the photos are recent, not when they were 20 years younger and 10 stone lighter...). If we're just chatting, then no, I don't feel comfortable sending my face photo. Also, if someone messaged me about the club event I'm going to that they are planning/hoping to be at, I am not going to send my face pic to them, as I'm normally not that bothered to be recognised in the club (I'm also not that difficult to be recognised, with a bit of effort). |
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"If we agreed to meet, then it's fair enough they would want to exchange face pics. At least so we can recognise each other (as long as the photos are recent, not when they were 20 years younger and 10 stone lighter...). If we're just chatting, then no, I don't feel comfortable sending my face photo. Also, if someone messaged me about the club event I'm going to that they are planning/hoping to be at, I am not going to send my face pic to them, as I'm normally not that bothered to be recognised in the club (I'm also not that difficult to be recognised, with a bit of effort). "
Yes that seems reasonable. |
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I don't think it's unreasonable at all. Maybe a better way of doing it would be to ask them if they was happy to share face pics, and tell them that If they agree, that you'll send them one over first.
I wouldn't send my pic to them if they replied with a no. |
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I'm not meeting anyone without a face pic and I want to talk (at least on the phone) too.
That said, I certainly think that profiles that insist on a face pic on first contact (and particularly those who have zero photos on their profile at all! (even in a private section) are somewhat taking the piss.
For me, I like to chat a bit and see how it goes first, in order to establish how likely it's gonna turn into a meet and simply to see if we seem to get along.
This is one of those areas though, that given the sheer numbers of guys on here, people often seem to use it as a screening mechanism (no pic on contact, instant delete).
That's yet another example of unrealistic expectations IMHO and how this site encourages (and generates) poor behaviour.
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I think it's a fine art. If they ask in message three I'm more likely to say no. If they ask after we've had a slight chat and seem to be getting on ill say yes.
If they won't share a pic. No meet. |
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"Its perfectly reasonable, once chat has flowed and an attraction/interest is starting to develop, but not before."
Agreed , if no face pics on profile ( or on friend pics if that happens first) and you are requesting then need to send your pic too
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mine are in my profile pics ,
cant see why people wont show a face pic ,
how are you suposed to chat to a black siloette pic ??!!! .
if your brave enough to be a swinger , be brave enough to show your face ,
and if someone knows you , -----just remember ,---- they are on here doing the same thing . !!!!  |
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Cam chat non negotiable. Even then we’d probably want to meet at a social rather than just invite someone over.
If to shy to show face then probably aren’t that confident to be rolling with us anyway. Don’t see why would want sex with someone I haven’t seen properly either as mainly attracted to peoples faces than their bodies. |
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By *tevew9Man 24 weeks ago
Lanzarote |
I agree with most of the posts... A face pic or video call is a must before meeting.. for discretionary reasons I won't send a pic until im 90٪ sure of meeting but wouñdnt meet without exchanging face pics |
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I have no problems giving a face pic when requested. Let's assume its a woman asking a man for a face pic.
1. The woman's safety is paramount and a face pic is a start.
2. It is a sign of intent.
3. I dont actually think im all that but have had nice comments and fantastic meets after giving a facepic |
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"Not at all how will you know if there is an attraction if you haven't seen them x
Never mind that. How is he even supposed to recognise them  😂😂"
Ha ha this is true but I've done that with people who's faces ive seen 🤣 |
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