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By *avidNP OP Man 13 weeks ago
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How do people feel about guys who strip naked and walk around all night with nothing on. Im my experience people get naked in hot tub and pool but unless having sex either have underwear on or a towel. |
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Absolutely love getting naked as im a big time exhibitionist. Love showing off my big cock and it having it swing around whilst im out looking for action 
I actually think it benefits guys, especially if you've got something substantial to show off. |
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I think unless a club rule says otherwise for certain spots like social rooms, it should really come down to how you feel about being nude,not a referendum on everyone else’s opinions.Nudity has a way of reminding us who we are underneath the layers.. Is it rude to some? Maybe, maybe not,people will always have their own takes. |
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By *avidNP OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"I don't have a big cock, and Elle isnt happy with her body, both we both love being naked in the club "
From your pictures what I can see Elle has a gorgeous body. I do understand lots of woman are not body confident which is a shame. |
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We dont like it.
I guess in a swingers’ club there’s a more relaxed attitude to sex, but it just doesn’t sit right with either of us.
I’ll get stick for this, but blokes have to ask for permission to touch or join in with a woman or couple but can basically expose themselves to people who might not want to see it and get away with it.
If you “flashed” in the park to fulfil a fetish and get off on it, you’d get arrested. I know it’s a club so we have to accept it, but we personally don’t wanna see it. |
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By *avidNP OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"We dont like it.
I guess in a swingers’ club there’s a more relaxed attitude to sex, but it just doesn’t sit right with either of us.
I’ll get stick for this, but blokes have to ask for permission to touch or join in with a woman or couple but can basically expose themselves to people who might not want to see it and get away with it.
If you “flashed” in the park to fulfil a fetish and get off on it, you’d get arrested. I know it’s a club so we have to accept it, but we personally don’t wanna see it. "
You make a valid point. I only did it in the pool and hot tub. I kept my boxers in everywhere else. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"I don't have a big cock, and Elle isnt happy with her body, both we both love being naked in the club "
Mate your penis is perfect. Great size. Very suckable. And your Mrs body is stunning. Be naked and proud |
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It's always amusing that people who are about to or have just had sex in public company feel the need to cover up when walking around, to hide away whilst getting changed and to close the toilet door even when just having a pee! |
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By *avidNP OP Man 13 weeks ago
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I think flaunting yourself by strutting around naked can be off putting. On Saturday night most were covered up in the main room/ bar area. I think it’s best, from what everyone is saying in here, to read the room. Don’t be the only person naked as it could make people feel uncomfortable. |
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"I don't have a big cock, and Elle isnt happy with her body, both we both love being naked in the club "
You both have great bodys. Dont be put off by stick insects and 8 inch cocks. In my past experiances 5inch worked better for me. |
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"We dont like it.
I guess in a swingers’ club there’s a more relaxed attitude to sex, but it just doesn’t sit right with either of us.
I’ll get stick for this, but blokes have to ask for permission to touch or join in with a woman or couple but can basically expose themselves to people who might not want to see it and get away with it.
If you “flashed” in the park to fulfil a fetish and get off on it, you’d get arrested. I know it’s a club so we have to accept it, but we personally don’t wanna see it. "
Isn't that a bit like going in a sweet shop and getting offended by sugar? You don't have to buy 🤔🥷 |
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Walk round however you feel most comfortable OP! I go to clubs as a single and as part of a couple, I’ve never even thought about whether everyone else is naked in certain areas. I usually wear just my boxers but I’ve walked round naked a few times after being in the hot tub and I don’t think anyone’s thought anything of it 🤷🏻♂️ |
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By *aandLoCouple 13 weeks ago
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I love being naked, and I love lingerie, so will be guided by whatever is the rule on the day/evening.
I'm more than happy to have a preview of what a guy has in his pants, but as another poster says playing with it in non sexual situations e.g. chatting at the bar, is off putting.
Plus, natural confidence in yourself is attractive, arrogant showing off has the opposite effect for me. |
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"I love being naked, and I love lingerie, so will be guided by whatever is the rule on the day/evening.
I'm more than happy to have a preview of what a guy has in his pants, but as another poster says playing with it in non sexual situations e.g. chatting at the bar, is off putting.
Plus, natural confidence in yourself is attractive, arrogant showing off has the opposite effect for me."
I've never been on a naked day and seen men wanking off at the bar. There are standards 🤓🥷 |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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I used to smile at a well known Birmingham sauna and jacuzzi club I visit.
One single guy I know folds his towel in half before wrapping it around his waist. It seems to have the desired effect with his connections - discreet but also alluring for those who want to double take to see what he's almost showing hanging down when he's seated.
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My first experiences of visiting clubs was around 30 years ago to a formerly well known and busy naturist/swinger club. The place was usually packed and 99% of people, m +f, totally naked. All carried a towel, seldom to cover up but to sit on, more for hygienic reasons and to dry after showers/wet area. Happy days  |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"All the clubs we go to there are to many singles don’t see the point "
Alas, some folks don't understand the expectations in the club context. I've heard them described as "Lurkers", but maybe one day they'll dress down and discover the need to fit in |
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By *avidNP OP Man 13 weeks ago
manchester |
"It would be more weird and is more weird, when people are fully dressed in clubs…Le Boudoir, I people can walk around the playrooms fully dressed! 😱
K"
That’s very weird. You shouldn’t be allowed in a play room dressed it’s just not right that. |
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"How do people feel about guys who strip naked and walk around all night with nothing on. Im my experience people get naked in hot tub and pool but unless having sex either have underwear on or a towel. "
Towel for me
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By *ty31Man 13 weeks ago
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"I’m starting to think it depends on the club and what other people are doing. "
It's definitely more commonplace and less conspicuous in some clubs than in others- usually ones with wet areas. |
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By *avidNP OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"I’m starting to think it depends on the club and what other people are doing.
It's definitely more commonplace and less conspicuous in some clubs than in others- usually ones with wet areas."
Yeah I got naked in the hot tub and pool but kept my boxers on elsewhere |
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"We dont like it.
I guess in a swingers’ club there’s a more relaxed attitude to sex, but it just doesn’t sit right with either of us.
I’ll get stick for this, but blokes have to ask for permission to touch or join in with a woman or couple but can basically expose themselves to people who might not want to see it and get away with it.
If you “flashed” in the park to fulfil a fetish and get off on it, you’d get arrested. I know it’s a club so we have to accept it, but we personally don’t wanna see it.
Isn't that a bit like going in a sweet shop and getting offended by sugar? You don't have to buy 🤔🥷"
Either you’re one of “those” guys or you need to read a bit more carefully.
You’re comparing exposure to sweets (which aren’t illegal) to a man’s cock which anywhere but a club or nudist beach etc. would be against the law.
Let’s elaborate and go with your metaphor:
You are right: you don’t have to buy sugary sweets. They’re all on display for us to see. Cigarettes, on the other hand, are legal too. Both sugar and nicotine can cause damage but the cigs now have to be hidden away. Why? We know they exist but we are protected from them.
I personally don’t want weird naked men following us around a club regardless of whether it’s a sex club or not. Personally it lacks class and if they are getting turned on (once had one come and sit near us and another couple and started wanking) it’s just a bit perverted in our opinion.
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"We dont like it.
I guess in a swingers’ club there’s a more relaxed attitude to sex, but it just doesn’t sit right with either of us.
I’ll get stick for this, but blokes have to ask for permission to touch or join in with a woman or couple but can basically expose themselves to people who might not want to see it and get away with it.
If you “flashed” in the park to fulfil a fetish and get off on it, you’d get arrested. I know it’s a club so we have to accept it, but we personally don’t wanna see it.
Isn't that a bit like going in a sweet shop and getting offended by sugar? You don't have to buy 🤔🥷
Either you’re one of “those” guys or you need to read a bit more carefully.
You’re comparing exposure to sweets (which aren’t illegal) to a man’s cock which anywhere but a club or nudist beach etc. would be against the law.
Let’s elaborate and go with your metaphor:
You are right: you don’t have to buy sugary sweets. They’re all on display for us to see. Cigarettes, on the other hand, are legal too. Both sugar and nicotine can cause damage but the cigs now have to be hidden away. Why? We know they exist but we are protected from them.
I personally don’t want weird naked men following us around a club regardless of whether it’s a sex club or not. Personally it lacks class and if they are getting turned on (once had one come and sit near us and another couple and started wanking) it’s just a bit perverted in our opinion.
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No, wanking beside you is frankly disturbing. As I'm not 'one of those men', which, as you don't know me is one of the usual traits on fab, towards single men, that is levelled, you're tarring all men with the same brush.
If you're going to a club, you're going to see naked flesh. If you go into a bar, you're going to see beer. The first doesn't mean you're going to see a man (why not a woman?) Wanking, or if you go in a pub, someone isn't going to sit beside you and piss down your leg. 🥷 |
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"We dont like it.
I guess in a swingers’ club there’s a more relaxed attitude to sex, but it just doesn’t sit right with either of us.
I’ll get stick for this, but blokes have to ask for permission to touch or join in with a woman or couple but can basically expose themselves to people who might not want to see it and get away with it.
If you “flashed” in the park to fulfil a fetish and get off on it, you’d get arrested. I know it’s a club so we have to accept it, but we personally don’t wanna see it.
Isn't that a bit like going in a sweet shop and getting offended by sugar? You don't have to buy 🤔🥷
Either you’re one of “those” guys or you need to read a bit more carefully.
You’re comparing exposure to sweets (which aren’t illegal) to a man’s cock which anywhere but a club or nudist beach etc. would be against the law.
Let’s elaborate and go with your metaphor:
You are right: you don’t have to buy sugary sweets. They’re all on display for us to see. Cigarettes, on the other hand, are legal too. Both sugar and nicotine can cause damage but the cigs now have to be hidden away. Why? We know they exist but we are protected from them.
I personally don’t want weird naked men following us around a club regardless of whether it’s a sex club or not. Personally it lacks class and if they are getting turned on (once had one come and sit near us and another couple and started wanking) it’s just a bit perverted in our opinion.
No, wanking beside you is frankly disturbing. As I'm not 'one of those men', which, as you don't know me is one of the usual traits on fab, towards single men, that is levelled, you're tarring all men with the same brush.
If you're going to a club, you're going to see naked flesh. If you go into a bar, you're going to see beer. The first doesn't mean you're going to see a man (why not a woman?) Wanking, or if you go in a pub, someone isn't going to sit beside you and piss down your leg. 🥷"
I wouldnt rule out that happening either. My daughter in law had that happen to her in a nightclub in Eastbourne and I've also had that misfortune standing at a bar in PDI. Seems it can happen anywhere anytime  |
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As people who are often naked not a problem with us. We may well be naked too.
Many years ago we were in a club we saw this rather unassuming standard looking young man walking through the club naked with a towel over his shoulder like he owned the place. He was the only one naked. Following behind him were his entourage of 3 single women. So he was definitely rocking it. Some guys just have it I guess. We caught up with them in a play room later on. He had them all eating out of his hand. We had a lot of fun with that little group. |
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By *avidNP OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"As people who are often naked not a problem with us. We may well be naked too.
Many years ago we were in a club we saw this rather unassuming standard looking young man walking through the club naked with a towel over his shoulder like he owned the place. He was the only one naked. Following behind him were his entourage of 3 single women. So he was definitely rocking it. Some guys just have it I guess. We caught up with them in a play room later on. He had them all eating out of his hand. We had a lot of fun with that little group."
Some guys have all the confidence and charisma to get the ladies. |
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"As people who are often naked not a problem with us. We may well be naked too.
Many years ago we were in a club we saw this rather unassuming standard looking young man walking through the club naked with a towel over his shoulder like he owned the place. He was the only one naked. Following behind him were his entourage of 3 single women. So he was definitely rocking it. Some guys just have it I guess. We caught up with them in a play room later on. He had them all eating out of his hand. We had a lot of fun with that little group.
Some guys have all the confidence and charisma to get the ladies. "
Yep, like I said nothing remarkable about him physically. In fact the kind of guy you'd assumed would get overlooked. But then in our experience of the club scene the guys who do really well tend to come in all shapes and sizes (in every way). What stands out is their character, nature and ability to read a room. Why it's so frustrating when guys get so hung up on their looks and penis size. They blame all the wrong things while not looking to the aspects they should be. |
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By *avidNP OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"As people who are often naked not a problem with us. We may well be naked too.
Many years ago we were in a club we saw this rather unassuming standard looking young man walking through the club naked with a towel over his shoulder like he owned the place. He was the only one naked. Following behind him were his entourage of 3 single women. So he was definitely rocking it. Some guys just have it I guess. We caught up with them in a play room later on. He had them all eating out of his hand. We had a lot of fun with that little group.
Some guys have all the confidence and charisma to get the ladies.
Yep, like I said nothing remarkable about him physically. In fact the kind of guy you'd assumed would get overlooked. But then in our experience of the club scene the guys who do really well tend to come in all shapes and sizes (in every way). What stands out is their character, nature and ability to read a room. Why it's so frustrating when guys get so hung up on their looks and penis size. They blame all the wrong things while not looking to the aspects they should be."
That’s good to know that having success can be down to things other than the physical look of someone. You cant change how you look or your penis size, but you can change how you behave and come across to others. |
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"How do people feel about guys who strip naked and walk around all night with nothing on. Im my experience people get naked in hot tub and pool but unless having sex either have underwear on or a towel. "
It's ok with me. Be free.
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