As you’re looking for couples i understand that comment, 4 way attraction and all that. Your Mrs is the main, but not the only selling point of your profile to attract people you are looking for.
But I’m not what you’re looking for so my input isn’t important  |
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There are only pics of me on the profile but that’s because we’re mainly looking for single men…….if we were looking on here to meet couples we would add some pics of my husband but as yet it hasn’t been an issue xx 😘 |
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"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.
Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me. "
It's the Mrs who attracts the interest |
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"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.
Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me. "
We don't mind seeing profiles that are heavily weighted to pics of one half of the couple.
What we see a lot of though is profiles where there is zero pictures of the Mr.
This is particularly frustrating when they have winked us or gone to the effort of messaging us.. |
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I think it depends on what you are looking for. I tend to see those couple profiles that are looking for a guy for her and, therefore, they tend to have more pictures of her. People looking for other things will have different picture ratios. |
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"There are only pics of me on the profile but that’s because we’re mainly looking for single men…….if we were looking on here to meet couples we would add some pics of my husband but as yet it hasn’t been an issue xx 😘 "
If couples are mainly after men and not other couples then that's totally understandable  |
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"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.
Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me. "
more of Mrs please |
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If you're a full swap couple then I think it's reasonable to want to see pictures of both. The idea that the female is the selling point only applies if you're predominantly after single men or bi woman play. We're a swap couple and J wouldn't be interested in meeting if she can't see the male half.
That being said, we of course expect many profiles to have more female photos than the male, but if there's so little that you have to scroll through pages of photos to get a glimpse of the male then it can be a little annoying. |
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Yeah quite bluntly, you wouldnt be interested in another profile if it was all photos of the woman rather than the man...
As long as there are significant photos inbetween the masses of female ones, thats fine.
The problem is is when there's 100 of the woman and one obscured old photo of the man!  |
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As a couple profile if your wanting to meet and play with other couples then should have pictures of both but if your only looking to play with male or female then you have pictures of what ever appeals to that group of people.
As we’re a full swap couple , which we we like everyone to be involved , we want to see who we might be playing with and for them to see us x |
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"Yeah quite bluntly, you wouldnt be interested in another profile if it was all photos of the woman rather than the man...
As long as there are significant photos inbetween the masses of female ones, thats fine.
The problem is is when there's 100 of the woman and one obscured old photo of the man! "
Agreed, but our pictures aren’t just of the lady and certainly not 100/1. Your profile is approximately 5/1 in favour of the lady. Is that deemed an acceptable ratio if looking to meet couples too?
Being blunt is fine if that’s how you feel about it. This post was meant to invite honest opinions and constructive feedback, that’s all.
The private messages have been very positive and constructive so thank you.
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"If you're a full swap couple then I think it's reasonable to want to see pictures of both. The idea that the female is the selling point only applies if you're predominantly after single men or bi woman play. We're a swap couple and J wouldn't be interested in meeting if she can't see the male half.
That being said, we of course expect many profiles to have more female photos than the male, but if there's so little that you have to scroll through pages of photos to get a glimpse of the male then it can be a little annoying. "
Understand that point and agree, but why does more pictures of the lady only apply if we are looking for singles. Surely our profile says what we are looking for? Or should people draw that from our pics? |
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"If you're a full swap couple then I think it's reasonable to want to see pictures of both. The idea that the female is the selling point only applies if you're predominantly after single men or bi woman play. We're a swap couple and J wouldn't be interested in meeting if she can't see the male half.
That being said, we of course expect many profiles to have more female photos than the male, but if there's so little that you have to scroll through pages of photos to get a glimpse of the male then it can be a little annoying.
Understand that point and agree, but why does more pictures of the lady only apply if we are looking for singles. Surely our profile says what we are looking for? Or should people draw that from our pics? "
I didn't say more female pictures only apply if looking for singles, I said the idea that the female is the selling point only applies if you're looking for single men and bi women...otherwise both should be the selling point (as it's a couple after all) |
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By *andb69Couple 21 weeks ago
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"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.
Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me. "
My thoughts on this are that you should use your profile exactly as YOU want to use it, and never mind what other people say. For every person that says they don't like it there are probably twenty that do. If it works for you that's all that matters. |
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By *andb69Couple 21 weeks ago
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"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.
Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me.
My thoughts on this are that you should use your profile exactly as YOU want to use it, and never mind what other people say. For every person that says they don't like it there are probably twenty that do. If it works for you that's all that matters. "
.....and P.S. given that you've had 37 verifications your profile clearly works! |
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Its your profile you do as you wish on there, im also not looking to meet couples but its always amazed me that couples profiles always seem to be about the woman and just a few shots of the gent usually with his dick out |
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By *p4fun60Couple 21 weeks ago
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As the female of the couple & the one that deals with all the fabmin, I dont think it really matters, the main profile pics are all of me for eye candy & to reel other couples in, if they like them & our profile attracts as well,then obviously we swap face pics, it is very difficult to get a 4 way attraction,but once the initial contact has been made then its the hard bit of getting 4 x diaries to align for a meet not having pics of hubbie on the profile as never caused an issue to be honest, roll with what you're comfortable with  |
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By *eyeYCouple 21 weeks ago
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"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.
Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me. "
Would agree with your feelings, Y gets infinitely more attention than I, but our thoughts are that we meet and play together so we should have a relatively equal presence.
But it's utterly your profile and your choice 👊 |
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"There are only pics of me on the profile but that’s because we’re mainly looking for single men…….if we were looking on here to meet couples we would add some pics of my husband but as yet it hasn’t been an issue xx 😘 "
We are the same, until we actively seek other couples, we shall mainly post pictures of me. |
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