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Thanking your partner for sex
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Nadja and I often thank each other after sex which is nice but also a little strange considering we both enjoy sex equally. It kind of makes sense if one of us has done something a bit special for example if I've spent a long time going down on Nadja to make sure that she cums or she's given me a nice blow job and hasn't cum herself.
However last night Nadja got into bed naked, asked me in a very seductive way whether we could have sex (to which I enthusiastically agreed) then gave me a lovely blow job to get me going and then asked me what position I'd like to finish in. I chose doggy (which I just love) and she duly got on all fours and stuck her arse in the air so that I could fuck her from behind... all absolute heaven as far as I was concerned. Then she proceeded to say "thank you" to me!!! Which really did seem a bit odd, I mean she'd just put the biggest smile on my face and yet she was the one saying thanks.
Does anyone else do this? And do people tend to thank their swinging partners or is that considered a bit weird (like they've provided a service)?
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I always say thank you and so does he. He does often remind me it’s mutual but it’s very natural for me to show how much I appreciate what we have and saying thank you is just one of those elements.  |
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Thank you or I love you seem perfectly normal. Been together since 18 and it never crossed my mind that it might be unusual.
I even say I love you after bunny has been a little rough.
I think it's all part of showing affection for each other rather than being similar to the way you might say thank you when someone brings you a meal at a restaurant.
I think loving affection is my explanation for it. |
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We sometimes thank each other but mostly we show appreciation by cuddling and kissing afterwards and saying how good it felt. We don’t tend to thank others but more lean towards saying what a good time we have had.
No one but my man has ever brought me to climax so I’m thankful to him for being able to do that. |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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I think it's not a thanks for the sex, but rather a genuine thankyou for the intimacy, the trust and the connection that you've re-established each time. Keep it going |
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This is a beautiful thread. Thank you OP
I often thank my partner after sex/play. However, this is mostly due to the D/s dynamic, ie “you were amazing, looked incredible, smell incredible, tasted incredible, thank you for being my good girl”. But the delivery is critical, has to be heart felt and sincere as you never want it to feel condescending to her. X |
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Thanks everyone who's posted such nice affirming messages.
Clearly there are numerous ways to show appreciation to your partner(s) when you have enjoyed some intimacy and saying a verbal thank you is just one of them. |
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By *rFun88Man 21 weeks ago
Portsmouth/London |
Generally often said and received a thank you. There was one time I said it to a woman and she replied 'don't say that, it makes me feel like a pr*stitute!'
Had to star a letter as apparently you're not allowed to use that word on here! |
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Maybe if my ex said thank you then we might be still together then again maybe if she actually fucked me we might still be together obviously when we first got together it was all a honeymoon period sex every day 3,4,5 times a day, then she fell pregnant then about three months into pregnancy that was it legs closed and they open probably once a year after? |
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Being stuck in a sexless relationship is awful (we've both been there) which may explain why we both feel so grateful and often say thank you to each other when we have sex (which is most days). It just feels slightly ironic to be thanked for doing something that is so enjoyable, however as has been said "thank you" is waaay better than "no thank you" and if showing appreciation fans the flames of passion then long may we continue!!! 🔥❤️😁 |
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I always thank my partner for sex, but for me it comes from the submissive headspace. It's thanking him for something that he gifts to me.
Not a mindset everyone has, sure. But that's why I do it. |
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"Being stuck in a sexless relationship is awful (we've both been there) which may explain why we both feel so grateful and often say thank you to each other when we have sex (which is most days). It just feels slightly ironic to be thanked for doing something that is so enjoyable, however as has been said "thank you" is waaay better than "no thank you" and if showing appreciation fans the flames of passion then long may we continue!!! 🔥❤️😁"
Sexless relationships suck and not in a good way as she didn’t even suck when we was having sex |
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