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I've no attraction to men what so ever but I'm craving a cock in my ass. I have quite a large toy collection that sort of keeps me going, toys ranging from cock rings, flesh lights, vibrators, huge dildos, and a fuck machine lol...I just need a chick with a dick to take my anal virginity lol...any takers? X |
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"You are definitely gay.he is gay 100% no straight guy would want a guy to fuck him"
I disagree. I think he is bisexual. I'm the same. I like a hard cock inside me, but also love pussy. It is hard for straight men to understand. |
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"Every one of us has thought about gay stuff at some point- if u say you havent your a liar. The same way we gave all looked at the urinals or in the gym showers etc."
That makes both of us liars then according to you. |
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"I've no attraction to men what so ever but I'm craving a cock in my ass. I have quite a large toy collection that sort of keeps me going, toys ranging from cock rings, flesh lights, vibrators, huge dildos, and a fuck machine lol...I just need a chick with a dick to take my anal virginity lol...any takers? X"
Why do we have to label everything? Just do what you’re comfortable with hunni. Oh and enjoy it to the max! 😋💋 |
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"You are definitely gay.he is gay 100% no straight guy would want a guy to fuck him"
I take it bisexual people don’t exist then in your world. A woman into some pussy now and then is 100% lesbian right regardless if they are married  |
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This doesn’t make you gay at all in my opinion. It makes you curious about experiencing a physical sexual sensation which is highly pleasurable for a lot of people.
For me homosexuality is about being physically, mentally and emotionally attracted to of the same sex. Individual acts which you’ve done or not done don’t change who or what you, that stuff just about sex and pleasure not identity |
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By *eyeYCouple 17 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"This doesn’t make you gay at all in my opinion. It makes you curious about experiencing a physical sexual sensation which is highly pleasurable for a lot of people.
For me homosexuality is about being physically, mentally and emotionally attracted to of the same sex. Individual acts which you’ve done or not done don’t change who or what you, that stuff just about sex and pleasure not identity "
Our opinion too, I'm attracted to women, so bi, D isn't attracted to men, we just put bi-curious for him, so as to upfront. But we're sure someone will correct us 😉 |
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WOW.
The OP was brave enough to post what he wants and ask if anyone would like to meet him for this. All he gets is other people arguing about his sexuality and trying to label him.
He didnt ask for everyone else's opinion on what or who he is.
For a site that's supposed to open minded and accepting of others some on here can be very judgemental. |
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Op, you decide your sexuality one same sex experience with someone isn’t an invitation to the next pride march.
People experiment, some at the spur of the moment, others after long periods of fantasy.
You’ve tried toys now you want to try the real thing, go ahead and if it doesn’t float your boat then that’s fine, if it does great just enjoy the experience.
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By *avidNPMan 17 weeks ago
manchester |
"Every one of us has thought about gay stuff at some point- if u say you havent your a liar. The same way we gave all looked at the urinals or in the gym showers etc.
That makes both of us liars then according to you."
Think he’s trying to justify him having thoughts like what he suggested. If d dry one does it then it can’t be gay |
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Sounds like you are bi curious? I don't have any desire to be with a woman as in a relationship, but I enjoy looking at boobs so I guess I'm bi curious. I enjoy lesbian porn but prefer the idea of actually having sex with men. |
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By *aandLoCouple 17 weeks ago
Southampton |
"WOW.
The OP was brave enough to post what he wants and ask if anyone would like to meet him for this. All he gets is other people arguing about his sexuality and trying to label him.
He didnt ask for everyone else's opinion on what or who he is.
For a site that's supposed to open minded and accepting of others some on here can be very judgemental. "
There's so much to unpack in these comments isn't there? As you say for a supposed opened minded group of people too many insist on fixed labels, see everything as black and white, and love to judge other members.
For me it's important to read the content of a profile to understand someone's sexual preferences.
I started as straight and then changed it to bi-curious after playing with a few women. I don't consider myself bi as I'm not attracted to women, I don't even particularly fancy them in the traditional sense, but the sex is fun if I like the woman as a person. Is my label accurate? I have no idea and don't care. Read our profile, chat to us and let's see if we will enjoy sex together. 🤷 |
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By *avidNPMan 17 weeks ago
manchester |
"WOW.
The OP was brave enough to post what he wants and ask if anyone would like to meet him for this. All he gets is other people arguing about his sexuality and trying to label him.
He didnt ask for everyone else's opinion on what or who he is.
For a site that's supposed to open minded and accepting of others some on here can be very judgemental.
There's so much to unpack in these comments isn't there? As you say for a supposed opened minded group of people too many insist on fixed labels, see everything as black and white, and love to judge other members.
For me it's important to read the content of a profile to understand someone's sexual preferences.
I started as straight and then changed it to bi-curious after playing with a few women. I don't consider myself bi as I'm not attracted to women, I don't even particularly fancy them in the traditional sense, but the sex is fun if I like the woman as a person. Is my label accurate? I have no idea and don't care. Read our profile, chat to us and let's see if we will enjoy sex together. 🤷 "
Exactly why do be we all need to label things. Just be happy and be you. |
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By *avidNPMan 17 weeks ago
manchester |
"For me i am a human being. I like having sex with other human beings.
What is wrong with that and why do we need to label it?"
I’m
Pleased to hear you like having sex with human beings. Having sex with anything else is a bit wrong🤣 |
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Sex is just a physical thing. If you had a blindfold on and played with a couple, you would never know who is sucking your cock or licking your pussy. Would it feel any better or worse ?.
If you want to try something, try it. Maybe you'll like it, maybe you won't.
Also....btw.... the amount of incredibly tough guys who enjoy intimacy when in prison is well documented. Just saying. |
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Guarantee plenty of “straight” guys have gone to a club popped their member through the glory hole and been satisfied without knowing who did what to them the other side. In that moment did they even care? Probably not. Did they think about the label? Again probably not.
As others have said labels are unimportant, just do you and if anyone wants to judge you and label you, just ignore them. |
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Hey op, get on grinder you'll have suiters within an hour. Tell them what you want, where you are and where to meet. What you're looking for and turn down the ugly ones. Play safe and it'll all be over within a couple of hours. You can then make your own mind up if you liked it and what your sexuality is. Please don't forget to come back to this thread to tell us all about it. Sex is best experienced in the first person. Crack on pal and good luck. XX |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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In the general bi/pan cloud there areen who are hete exible or men who are heteroromantic and bisexual. A lot of these guys find solutions in swinging circles where they find other men who just enjoy fucking and coming together but there's no kissing and romantic actions.
I enjoyed having a mate who just enjoyed guy on guy fucking for years. I'm bi but he's just a straight-ish lad who likes the stimulation. |
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