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Is honesty on what a mans preferences is in what they are looking for in someone rude?

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By *ardSenses OP Man 16 weeks ago

Leeds

Keen to know peoples thoughts , as have had some disrespectful messages which have shocked me... And iv seen lots of profiles explicitly confirming what they are after and I just think that's fair enough , I don't see that they are being rude if they are after something particular from someone x

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By *icecouple561Couple 16 weeks ago
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East Sussex

It's not about stating preferences, it's about *HOW* you state them.

Its better to say who you would like to meet and not be rude about those that you don't

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By *aven RedWoman 16 weeks ago

Liverpool x

There seems to be a lot of 'what I am wanting' on your profile. Its good that you know what you want but as the above poster said, it's not what is said but how it is said x

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By *izzy.Woman 16 weeks ago

Stoke area

"Keen to know peoples thoughts , as have had some disrespectful messages which have shocked me... And iv seen lots of profiles explicitly confirming what they are after and I just think that's fair enough , I don't see that they are being rude if they are after something particular from someone x "

You have a very interesting profile which many people would find the wording disrespectful and shocking.

It is of course acceptable to state what your preferences are, but do it in a way that isn't criticising and negative about people.

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