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By *eyeY OP Couple 8 weeks ago
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Title kind of made us giggle, but bear with..
We see Anal and kissing mentioned relatively often as being kept exclusively between a couple.
Let us state categorically, we are not saying they are wrong!
Just pondering how others perceive the intimacy level's, guess we'd be more a 'no hole's barred' couple and when in the mood as long as all are consenting and enjoying we don't really class one 'activity' higher than another.
We feel oral and kissing are possibly the most intimate act, but in general society and here they seem pretty common place..
Your thoughts, and there's no wrong answers, just your personal feelings 😘 |
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When we first started swinging I found C kissing someone harder to watch than her giving oral or having sex.
We also didn’t want to make rules about keeping certain sex acts between us. If the vibe is right and the connection is there then we’ll happily share everything with play friends.
We feel that we add people into the mix to create the hottest moments and they are achieved when everything is on the table…over the table, etc 😋
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Kissing for me is extremely intimate, breathing the same air, exchanging body fluids, having your faces close. Hand holding is another very intimate act in my opinion.
There are other physical and emotional intimacies, small and big in a relationship that I wouldn't want to share with someone casual.
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We’re pro kissing and prefer if other people like to do it but how we kiss eachother is different to how we kiss other people. We don’t do anal with others it’s not out of a sense of intimacy but more keeping something just for us when we share everything else |
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Kissing is fine, anal needs relaxed, no random man she picks will get her in the mood. One guy was lucky he fucked her, made little effort for a man of lust lol. So chances of more than her pussy is tiny. You do need things you share as a couple, keeps you intimate. So we have more "our kinks". |
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By *eyeY OP Couple 8 weeks ago
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"Kissing for me is extremely intimate, breathing the same air, exchanging body fluids, having your faces close. Hand holding is another very intimate act in my opinion.
There are other physical and emotional intimacies, small and big in a relationship that I wouldn't want to share with someone casual.
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Agreed, hadn't considered holding hands openly and absolutely correct.
Guess it's something not really within a play situation other than with a partner we suppose 👍😘 |
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I think a lot of it depends on your mindset. There are physical things that signify our relationship connection and love that we wouldn't want to share with other people. Those things will be different for everyone.
If you're poly it'll be different again |
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By *eyeY OP Couple 8 weeks ago
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"We’re pro kissing and prefer if other people like to do it but how we kiss eachother is different to how we kiss other people. We don’t do anal with others it’s not out of a sense of intimacy but more keeping something just for us when we share everything else"
A totally fair reason and boundary guys.
We are not looking for an echo chamber just intrigued x |
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By *eyeY OP Couple 8 weeks ago
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"I think a lot of it depends on your mindset. There are physical things that signify our relationship connection and love that we wouldn't want to share with other people. Those things will be different for everyone.
If you're poly it'll be different again "
Absolutely and there's no right or wrong as long as all are consenting 😘 |
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"I think a lot of it depends on your mindset. There are physical things that signify our relationship connection and love that we wouldn't want to share with other people. Those things will be different for everyone.
If you're poly it'll be different again
Absolutely and there's no right or wrong as long as all are consenting 😘"
Yep. I really wish more people understood that |
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It can be very nuanced- i’ll happily kiss other ladies, but not men for example. But I’m happy giving them oral, which seems like a dichotomy. 
I guess it simply boils down to whatever works for individuals/couples- the main thing for us is whatever we do, we agree on it. |
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By *eyeY OP Couple 8 weeks ago
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"It can be very nuanced- i’ll happily kiss other ladies, but not men for example. But I’m happy giving them oral, which seems like a dichotomy.
I guess it simply boils down to whatever works for individuals/couples- the main thing for us is whatever we do, we agree on it. "
Get what you mean, it's strange how things play differently in your mind regardless of whether it is logical or not ☺️😘 |
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Kissing is an intimacy that goes beyond just sexual physical pleasure, it’s one of the most common ‘we don’t do that’s’ for couples (beyond the three P’s) but then there are couples where they like to see partners do it, a demonstration of the passion, they get off on the emotions it triggers. When ladies play together, the act of kissing is seen as arousing to their watching partners but triggering if it’s a guy.
It’s amazing, husbands thrilled watching their wives taking on multiple men, sucking cocks, anal, DP, DVP… Yet most drama - arguments and strained relationships I’ve seen is down to a wife or husband kisssing someone… |
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By *eyeY OP Couple 8 weeks ago
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"Kissing is an intimacy that goes beyond just sexual physical pleasure, it’s one of the most common ‘we don’t do that’s’ for couples (beyond the three P’s) but then there are couples where they like to see partners do it, a demonstration of the passion, they get off on the emotions it triggers. When ladies play together, the act of kissing is seen as arousing to their watching partners but triggering if it’s a guy.
It’s amazing, husbands thrilled watching their wives taking on multiple men, sucking cocks, anal, DP, DVP… Yet most drama - arguments and strained relationships I’ve seen is down to a wife or husband kisssing someone…"
Interesting observation, we probably get more turned on watching each other kiss another than any other act..
Unsure why honestly 🤷😘 |
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We are happy to all of the above, access all areas as long as all are consenting. I would do anal but just not with my husband as I find him too large for back door fun personally. But smaller toys are a yes for me x
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By *eyeY OP Couple 8 weeks ago
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"I always think everything should be available but I understand and respect any boundaries that are set out."
Personally, we don't agree with everything should be available.
However those would be our preferred meets, regardless of whether or not 'everything' happened or not, feel a rigid don't list hampers spontaneity, but midst play if someone is not enjoying something it ceases without issue.
So, think we're on the same page, just describing it differently 😉😘 |
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