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By (user no longer on site) OP 11 weeks ago
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I was talking to a friend in the same industry as me about how I get rid of stress. She's very much a blunt, straight speaking friend so I said "exercise, gaming, sex... pretty much it. Eating and drinking in response to stress fucks you up."
She doesn't game but she does exercise and she said how it was "easier" for me and men in general to get sex. I laughed and said the only reason it was easy for me was being poly, bi and a swinger but a single guy just has his hand at least women have a variety of toys.
Her kick back was interesting. She said "yeah but if we want fucking with a person it's more dangerous". I agreed if it was with randoms but she probably had a few male mates who if she approached for casual fun would be a safe and eager option.
She laughed and said she didn't know anyone like that. I told her I'd give her oral with a 25 minute notice to shower and get to hers. Then I named two other guys who would happily have a fucking session with her and treat her no differently afterwards. She was stunned to silence as the cogs turned in her head.
Sometimes I think the world would be better if people learned from swingers 😆 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 11 weeks ago
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"Just don't overcomplicate or over think just do it then back to life"
Yep. I've been a "willing and eager sex toy" for a friend before. We finished, cleaned up and then went to our client meetings 😆 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 11 weeks ago
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"Sometimes I have used this as a way to let some stress away.
Worked for me "
It really does. I don't think I would be able to do my career without my "playmates" lol |
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I am forever grateful for my best mate and his wife being there to talk through stressful times for me and them.
And also having the option of no strings blow off steam stress relief oral or hand jobs
Sex is rare for blowing off steam with them but when it happens all my troubles seem to fade away |
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"No strings sex partners are the best"
I don't know about that. I had an arrangement like that a few years back. Worked well for the both of us until suddenly it wasn't as she "developed feelings" - even the best laid plans can get complicated  |
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