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When I started swinging I agreed to a spontaneous meet with a man who lived close. I said "I will meet you in 20 minutes". He replied "why not now". I said "I want to have a shower and put on clean underwear first. Don't you" ? He said "no" so I cancelled the meet. |
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"When I started swinging I agreed to a spontaneous meet with a man who lived close. I said "I will meet you in 20 minutes". He replied "why not now". I said "I want to have a shower and put on clean underwear first. Don't you" ? He said "no" so I cancelled the meet. "
Perfectly understandable why you cancelled,eeewww not having a shower before he wanted to meet you
Definitely a no |
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"When I started swinging I agreed to a spontaneous meet with a man who lived close. I said "I will meet you in 20 minutes". He replied "why not now". I said "I want to have a shower and put on clean underwear first. Don't you" ? He said "no" so I cancelled the meet. "
I've had similar, got to a meet. Lady was wearing a grey food stained tracksuit. I made my excuses and left. Prefer meeting at my local club these days. People usually make an effort when visiting clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Do you think there are more planned meets then random spontaneous ones?"
They aren’t “dying” but they’re definitely harder to arrange since working from home went mainstream. Less people travelling away in hotels, fewer people with alone time at home etc |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"When I started swinging I agreed to a spontaneous meet with a man who lived close. I said "I will meet you in 20 minutes". He replied "why not now". I said "I want to have a shower and put on clean underwear first. Don't you" ? He said "no" so I cancelled the meet. "
I’ve had this exact same conversation. I wonder if it was the same person  |
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They wouldn't be for me and never have been. However, I can see why those who've been let down several times or have little time may consider them.
I don't think they're favoured by the majority of people Tbf though. |
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We've been known to do spontaneous meets if travelling/on holiday, but vanilla life makes it hard at home.
But can be a lot of fun compared to endless requests for socials "to see if there's a mutual connection". |
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I think I prefer to know a little about those im meeting and im probably not a free enough spirit to agree to random spontaneous meetings. Love a planned meet though where the anticipation can build!
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By *on_20Couple 10 weeks ago
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"When I started swinging I agreed to a spontaneous meet with a man who lived close. I said "I will meet you in 20 minutes". He replied "why not now". I said "I want to have a shower and put on clean underwear first. Don't you" ? He said "no" so I cancelled the meet. "
Ewwww - defo right to cancel that one. |
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