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By *ypersoonMan 7 weeks ago
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I always try my best to be sociable & polite but have always aware of others' concerns on single guys practically since I first dipped my toe in these waters a few years ago ☺️
When I'm at Club Alchemy (my local club), I always like to have a game or 2 on the pool table as my ice breaker to strike up a conversation & socialise while heavily limiting my wandering of the play areas to avoid the "wanking dead" tag.
Also if I message someone, it's kept polite & open as possible. If I get no answer or polite refusal, I just respect it & move on.
It helps being polite & sociable as possible though as I found when having my first-ever non-club meet with a couple who left a good impression on with my manners & respectful treatment of them. It pays to be polite & sociable ❤️👍 |
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These 'men', that you speak of, they should be shackled, traipsed around the courtyard of The Tower before being hung, drawn and quartered by the venerated Yeoman of the Guard.
Or guillotined, I tell thee! |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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Because of the type of site it is they can't accept that Not everyone wants to drop their pants for everyone. People have preferences and standards and unfortunately their little egos cant accept rejection. |
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"Because of the type of site it is they can't accept that Not everyone wants to drop their pants for everyone. People have preferences and standards and unfortunately their little egos cant accept rejection."
Exactly then the abuse comes out and it’s like wow this is your true colours |
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A lot of couples are disrespectful to women and men.
I can't tell you the number of times a couple has expected me as a straight woman in this couple to turn up to a meet without once seeing the guy. They think I'm going to have sex with somebody I've never set eyes on 🤷♀️ because he's not as photogenic as his wife. Then there are the couples who completely disrespect the fact that I'm straight.
Lots of couples attitude towards single men is abhorrent too. |
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Because some people are knobbers who can't accept that they won't be for everyone. None of us will be.
This is why, when I say no thanks now, I also block now too. It saves any abuse or why nots, what's wrong with me etc.
Years ago, when single. I had a bloke who kept trying to meet me.
When I got a new veri one day,he decided to start telling me he was much better looking than the man I'd met etc and why didn't I meet him etc.
I just told him the other man might not be good looking to him, but I liked him and he'd been lovely and respectful to me.unlike him & to maybe try and work on himself. Then blocked him,no need.
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"A lot of couples are disrespectful to women and men.
I can't tell you the number of times a couple has expected me as a straight woman in this couple to turn up to a meet without once seeing the guy. They think I'm going to have sex with somebody I've never set eyes on 🤷♀️ because he's not as photogenic as his wife. Then there are the couples who completely disrespect the fact that I'm straight.
Lots of couples attitude towards single men is abhorrent too. "
Very true also |
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