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By *adyJayne OP   Woman 5 weeks ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Ok so niche topic.

We've loved watersports for a while, but have had a few years with just vanilla sex due to ill health.

The last couple of times we have tried watersports... I just can't do it, partly because I'm too turned on, partly anxiety I think (what if I drown him )

Anyone else had the issue? How did you overcome it?

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By *r.SMan 5 weeks ago

Douglas

It's happened us a few times.. depends on the mood and need to pee.. plenty of fluids and some Dutch courage always helps

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By *aughtysailor08Man 5 weeks ago

Cardiff

Men can get this in public normally, just relax.

What are your anxiety’s about it? Making too much of a mess and the clean up? If so put a sheet down, speak to the people involved and ask them question are you bothered about how much piss there is or where it goes? Then just let it flow and enjoy it x

I love it both giving and receiving

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By *Chris196969Man 5 weeks ago

Doncaster

The stage fright can be very real!

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple 5 weeks ago

East Anglia

I do sometimes struggle I always drink plenty prior and try not to get to horny (struggle!!)

I guess though he has to wait especially if he is locked in the queening stool

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By *rineForSomeFunMan 5 weeks ago

Yorkshire

As someone completely obsessed with piss play, I've been fortunate not to experience pee shyness myself, but some of the women I've played with have. Ultimately, it's just one of those things, it's often just a very temporary situation. Relaxation and not stressing about it seems to be key, and it doesn't hurt to take in plenty of fluids either - after all, what goes in has to come out eventually! Another thing that can work is to start off peeing very normally (so for a woman, sitting on the loo) and then to attempt the fun once the flow is nicely established. I recall vividly one particular time this worked for a lady I was with, and to see her sitting on the toilet very demurely one minute, and then standing up mid-flow and spraying me and the whole bathroom the next was incredibly exciting!

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By *harm and FrankCouple 3 weeks ago

COLCHESTER

Can be difficult when I'm hard

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By *idemeMidsMan 3 weeks ago

dudley

This is an interesting thread. I know that as a guy when I’m hard it is very difficult, if not impossible to piss, but I didn’t know that was the same for women.

Ladies, if you’re really aroused does that also stop you from peeing?

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By *enninemarkMan 3 weeks ago

huddersfield/manchester

As someone who loves to receive watersports, the anticipation is a big part of the excitement. I guess trying to relax and maybe not concentrate on trying. I'd happily wait underneath, pleasuring or just enjoying the view. Happy to be tormented by you with nipple play or cbt, or teasing. If you concentrate on doing that rather than your flow, it might come more easily!

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By *ip73Man 3 weeks ago

Stanwell

I get peeing anxiety at a urinal so always worry the may be a factor, had it as a piss party but just had another drink and came back later.

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