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So people what puts you off from meeting someone from here or even replying to a message to say no thank you or being polite doesn’t matter in the world of online always wondering that.
Do people have a certain guidelines on here in what they want? |
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I don't reply to say no thanks, because in my experience it leads to abuse or pleading.
Manners are cool and all, but only if everyone engages with manners.
And I know you would never abuse or try to negotiate with someone who said no, but how am I supposed to know who will and won't? And how am I supposed to know who, saying "I will accept no for an answer" is simply lying?
Manners are situational. The internet allows for cheap mass communication, and makes it easy to send relatively anonymous abuse. Under those circumstances, being defensive is understandable, and insisting on "traditional" manners is entitled. |
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"I don't reply to say no thanks, because in my experience it leads to abuse or pleading.
Manners are cool and all, but only if everyone engages with manners.
And I know you would never abuse or try to negotiate with someone who said no, but how am I supposed to know who will and won't? And how am I supposed to know who, saying "I will accept no for an answer" is simply lying?
Manners are situational. The internet allows for cheap mass communication, and makes it easy to send relatively anonymous abuse. Under those circumstances, being defensive is understandable, and insisting on "traditional" manners is entitled."
I appreciate it if I get a proper polite no thanks message. I never start begging but might send a polite reply to say thanks for it. You never know who you might bump into through your life in the future. |
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"I don't reply to say no thanks, because in my experience it leads to abuse or pleading.
Manners are cool and all, but only if everyone engages with manners.
And I know you would never abuse or try to negotiate with someone who said no, but how am I supposed to know who will and won't? And how am I supposed to know who, saying "I will accept no for an answer" is simply lying?
Manners are situational. The internet allows for cheap mass communication, and makes it easy to send relatively anonymous abuse. Under those circumstances, being defensive is understandable, and insisting on "traditional" manners is entitled.
I appreciate it if I get a proper polite no thanks message. I never start begging but might send a polite reply to say thanks for it. You never know who you might bump into through your life in the future. "
Understood. I'm still not going to do it, because of the risks involved. And I think most decent people can grasp both sides of the equation. |
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"So people what puts you off from meeting someone from here or even replying to a message to say no thank you or being polite doesn’t matter in the world of online always wondering that.
Do people have a certain guidelines on here in what they want?"
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