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There's literally 1000's of articles on the Internet offering the usual....she's secretive with her phone, working late, starts arguments, etc. BUT the best way for me is her Sex Flush.
Not all women do it but it's a 99.99% giveaway. My wife goes bright red on her chest and neck when she's turned on, especially so if she's had an orgasm.
If she's been out "with the girls" and gets in late, I always look at her chest and neck.
Very occasionally I'll see it bright red and I know 99.99% she's been fucked or been sucking cock. Nothing else causes it and I'm lucky she has these sex flushes as most women don't. They last for 2 or 3 hours after orgasm too!
Anyone on here use this method to catch a cheating wife or girlfriend? |
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My ex used to come home and within 10 minutes tell me everything, she couldn’t keep a secret but loved cheating! The make up sex was always incredible. Plus she loved me playing with other women too. Was fine for a few years but then just became friends and never fucked eachother! |
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"Any guys here who have a wife or girlfriend who has a sex flush?"
You really love this whole sex flush don't you fella.. that fetish aside, you know if she's been cheating, it's that feeling in your gut, yes phone, new gym regime etc petty sniping to create distance and actual physical space to cheat, all create that gut sense of betrayal. It's probably not a coincidence that rampant and usually ignored/denied out of cowardice/shame cheating is the driver of a lot of this kinda stuff don't you think, unconsciously and consciously creating a load of nonsense around promiscuous girls and cucked guys &no judgement, is what it is, just ime there's a fair few ladies in couples not exactly loyal even to that arrangement, pretty grim, fun but grim, yet to each their own. Enjoy the wonders of this blessed time lol, it's not going to last forever is it. |
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"Any guys here who have a wife or girlfriend who has a sex flush?
You really love this whole sex flush don't you fella.. that fetish aside, you know if she's been cheating, it's that feeling in your gut, yes phone, new gym regime etc petty sniping to create distance and actual physical space to cheat, all create that gut sense of betrayal. It's probably not a coincidence that rampant and usually ignored/denied out of cowardice/shame cheating is the driver of a lot of this kinda stuff don't you think, unconsciously and consciously creating a load of nonsense around promiscuous girls and cucked guys &no judgement, is what it is, just ime there's a fair few ladies in couples not exactly loyal even to that arrangement, pretty grim, fun but grim, yet to each their own. Enjoy the wonders of this blessed time lol, it's not going to last forever is it. "
Yep, nothing lasts forever ( a sex flush only lasts 3 hours maximum too). |
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"Your partner must be quite unusual op because apparently it only lasts minutes. It happens to one in four men too so be careful chaps or buy concealer  "
It lasts anywhere between 2 or 3 minutes and 2 or 3 hours. |
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I've always found that the bright red on her chest and neck is more prominent with red heads. Not really experienced this with other women.
I had a naughty housemate years ago, and you could always tell if she'd been up to something whilst out as she'd have the glow. |
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"I have a mate whose chest and neck flush when she's been drinking, if she's anxious or if she's too hot. She would be in a lot of unnecessary trouble  "
My wife doesn't get a red chest or neck after she's been drinking. She only gets it during and after sex. |
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"I've always found that the bright red on her chest and neck is more prominent with red heads. Not really experienced this with other women.
I had a naughty housemate years ago, and you could always tell if she'd been up to something whilst out as she'd have the glow."
Its more prevalent with light skinned ladies....which red heads and blondes usually are.
And yes you have some proof with your naughty housemate years ago. |
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"Are you sure she's not just menopausal? Seen it quite often on women at that stage in their life. "
Menopausal women can get a blushing effect, but the sex flush is quite distinctive and only happens during and after sex. I suspect the menopausal blush could happen at quite random times, not solely after sex. |
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"She may have run for the train. Tripped over and had embarrassment? Loads of reasons for flushing no? Also would only be a telltale on one demographic "
I have seen her embarrassed many times. Her cheeks blush but never her neck and chest. I've seen her orgasm many times and it's the only time her neck and chest flush (never her cheeks). |
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So just to recap, the sex flush I'm talking about is quite different to reddening due to alcohol, menopause and embarrassment.
Its a distinctive red. An overall glow. The edge of the redness is sharp not diffused. The windpipe area remains normal colour. It stays for 2 hours. |
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"There's literally 1000's of articles on the Internet offering the usual....she's secretive with her phone, working late, starts arguments, etc. BUT the best way for me is her Sex Flush.
Not all women do it but it's a 99.99% giveaway. My wife goes bright red on her chest and neck when she's turned on, especially so if she's had an orgasm.
If she's been out "with the girls" and gets in late, I always look at her chest and neck.
Very occasionally I'll see it bright red and I know 99.99% she's been fucked or been sucking cock. Nothing else causes it and I'm lucky she has these sex flushes as most women don't. They last for 2 or 3 hours after orgasm too!
Anyone on here use this method to catch a cheating wife or girlfriend? "
She might be flirted with and turned on ready for you. I don't see your flush as proof of anything solid. Makes me wonder what you are hiding then lol. |
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"There's literally 1000's of articles on the Internet offering the usual....she's secretive with her phone, working late, starts arguments, etc. BUT the best way for me is her Sex Flush.
Not all women do it but it's a 99.99% giveaway. My wife goes bright red on her chest and neck when she's turned on, especially so if she's had an orgasm.
If she's been out "with the girls" and gets in late, I always look at her chest and neck.
Very occasionally I'll see it bright red and I know 99.99% she's been fucked or been sucking cock. Nothing else causes it and I'm lucky she has these sex flushes as most women don't. They last for 2 or 3 hours after orgasm too!
Anyone on here use this method to catch a cheating wife or girlfriend?
She might be flirted with and turned on ready for you. I don't see your flush as proof of anything solid. Makes me wonder what you are hiding then lol. "
I admit it probably wouldn't be 100% conclusive evidence in a Court of Law, but I've given her 100'z of orgasms over the 10 years we've been together and she's had a sex flush every single time. Not once in that time has she ever had a sex flush for any other reason, whether that be through alcohol, menopause, embarrassment, just being horny for me, running for a train, or any other reason mentioned in the replies above. |
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I only started this thread to raise awareness about women having a sex flush during and after orgasms. To women who may be worried about it who may be cheating, and to men who suspect their wives of cheating (and I consider it a better way than say snooping on the wives phones which is wrong and intrusive). I also wondered if anyone else had noticed sex flushes in their partners or themselves. |
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"Anyone on here use this method to catch a cheating wife or girlfriend? "
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I check their silken sleeves (or their satin knickers) and if I find an ace of spades ♠️ then I know they've been cheating. After that I send them to the gallows, lest we cheat the Hangman. † |
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By *oxyFuckerMan 3 weeks ago
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"There's literally 1000's of articles on the Internet offering the usual....she's secretive with her phone, working late, starts arguments, etc. BUT the best way for me is her Sex Flush.
Not all women do it but it's a 99.99% giveaway. My wife goes bright red on her chest and neck when she's turned on, especially so if she's had an orgasm.
If she's been out "with the girls" and gets in late, I always look at her chest and neck.
Very occasionally I'll see it bright red and I know 99.99% she's been fucked or been sucking cock. Nothing else causes it and I'm lucky she has these sex flushes as most women don't. They last for 2 or 3 hours after orgasm too!
Anyone on here use this method to catch a cheating wife or girlfriend? "
Not quite sure they'll be using this in a court of law! Hahahaha |
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"There's literally 1000's of articles on the Internet offering the usual....she's secretive with her phone, working late, starts arguments, etc. BUT the best way for me is her Sex Flush.
Not all women do it but it's a 99.99% giveaway. My wife goes bright red on her chest and neck when she's turned on, especially so if she's had an orgasm.
If she's been out "with the girls" and gets in late, I always look at her chest and neck.
Very occasionally I'll see it bright red and I know 99.99% she's been fucked or been sucking cock. Nothing else causes it and I'm lucky she has these sex flushes as most women don't. They last for 2 or 3 hours after orgasm too!
Anyone on here use this method to catch a cheating wife or girlfriend?
Not quite sure they'll be using this in a court of law! Hahahaha "
Agree that it's not a 100% fact but it would certainly be considered circumstantial evidence i reckon. |
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"There's literally 1000's of articles on the Internet offering the usual....she's secretive with her phone, working late, starts arguments, etc. BUT the best way for me is her Sex Flush.
Not all women do it but it's a 99.99% giveaway. My wife goes bright red on her chest and neck when she's turned on, especially so if she's had an orgasm.
If she's been out "with the girls" and gets in late, I always look at her chest and neck.
Very occasionally I'll see it bright red and I know 99.99% she's been fucked or been sucking cock. Nothing else causes it and I'm lucky she has these sex flushes as most women don't. They last for 2 or 3 hours after orgasm too!
Anyone on here use this method to catch a cheating wife or girlfriend? "
A weird creaminess she only had this one time (she never got like that so that my be part cum too), smell was a bit off too I thought |
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By *ewMan2026Man 2 weeks ago
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"There's literally 1000's of articles on the Internet offering the usual....she's secretive with her phone, working late, starts arguments, etc. BUT the best way for me is her Sex Flush.
Not all women do it but it's a 99.99% giveaway. My wife goes bright red on her chest and neck when she's turned on, especially so if she's had an orgasm.
If she's been out "with the girls" and gets in late, I always look at her chest and neck.
Very occasionally I'll see it bright red and I know 99.99% she's been fucked or been sucking cock. Nothing else causes it and I'm lucky she has these sex flushes as most women don't. They last for 2 or 3 hours after orgasm too!
Anyone on here use this method to catch a cheating wife or girlfriend?
Not quite sure they'll be using this in a court of law! Hahahaha
Agree that it's not a 100% fact but it would certainly be considered circumstantial evidence i reckon."
You reckon wrong!
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