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when i meet couples for the first time- i always meet both of them together (in bar/pub) and chat to both - assumed that was just the way things were
But Was chatting to the husband of a hotwife couple - and he said that when they meet a new single guy, the wife will meet the guy alone initially in pub - so they can both chat and not feel awkward if he (the husband is there) - if there are vibes between the wife and the single guy, she will bring him home to hubby (who has been at home all this while)
Never heard couples doing the later ..what are fabbers preferences?
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Pretty sure there'll be as many opinions as there are couples. We generally meet at home and so far almost always together, but we've met a guy in a hotel once and Char and he left me in the bar when they went to play. Char's met a few guys for coffee at home while I've not been there and that went well, too.
We sometimes wonder if the single guys get a bit overwhelmed if I'm there so we always give the option of Char meeting and/or playing solo.
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All our Fab meets, have been arranged by me, and in some cases I’ve met the guy beforehand before inviting him to come and join me and my wife … we have discussed a plan for her to pick up a stranger in a pub and bring him home, which we both think is pretty hot 😜 |
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"All our Fab meets, have been arranged by me, and in some cases I’ve met the guy beforehand before inviting him to come and join me and my wife … we have discussed a plan for her to pick up a stranger in a pub and bring him home, which we both think is pretty hot 😜"
an interesting variation!
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Personally I like to meet both on a first social meet as I hope to be playing with both, although I have met just the male occasionally as sometimes the two of us will play on our own before we meet his wife/partner. |
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"Pretty sure there'll be as many opinions as there are couples. We generally meet at home and so far almost always together, but we've met a guy in a hotel once and Char and he left me in the bar when they went to play. Char's met a few guys for coffee at home while I've not been there and that went well, too.
We sometimes wonder if the single guys get a bit overwhelmed if I'm there so we always give the option of Char meeting and/or playing solo.
(Bry)"
that interesting - lots of different variations - which I had not really thought of - I have always meet a couple when they are together in a bar - it never even occurred to me there was other ways.
I always assumed the husband wanted to be there - first for safety but also because he enjoyed the voyeuristic aspects of seeing his wife potentially flirt with another man in a semi public place |
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"I always assumed the husband wanted to be there - first for safety but also because he enjoyed the voyeuristic aspects of seeing his wife potentially flirt with another man in a semi public place"
There's a lot to be said for NOT knowing what's happening, what she's doing, what he looks like, etc.
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"I always assumed the husband wanted to be there - first for safety but also because he enjoyed the voyeuristic aspects of seeing his wife potentially flirt with another man in a semi public place
There's a lot to be said for NOT knowing what's happening, what she's doing, what he looks like, etc.
yes - i am beginning to realise that - for the husband sitting at home - the ignorance of what is happening - what your wife is upto - must be mind blowing
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"Pretty sure there'll be as many opinions as there are couples. We generally meet at home and so far almost always together, but we've met a guy in a hotel once and Char and he left me in the bar when they went to play. Char's met a few guys for coffee at home while I've not been there and that went well, too.
We sometimes wonder if the single guys get a bit overwhelmed if I'm there so we always give the option of Char meeting and/or playing solo.
(Bry)
that interesting - lots of different variations - which I had not really thought of - I have always meet a couple when they are together in a bar - it never even occurred to me there was other ways.
I always assumed the husband wanted to be there - first for safety but also because he enjoyed the voyeuristic aspects of seeing his wife potentially flirt with another man in a semi public place"
I watched my ex wife flirting with other men many times, I learnt to enjoy it and they certainly did 😛 |
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I’ve met couple together and separate. One memorable occasion a very hot wife came to my hotel for a couple hours and then went back to be reclaimed, he was getting pictures and videos through the meet.
Meeting a couple can be great but can be awkward. Always fancied the idea of meeting in the hotel bar and leaving Mr down there. |
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"All our Fab meets, have been arranged by me, and in some cases I’ve met the guy beforehand before inviting him to come and join me and my wife … we have discussed a plan for her to pick up a stranger in a pub and bring him home, which we both think is pretty hot 😜"
This idea is so hot! She looks pretty awesome too!  |
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"when i meet couples for the first time- i always meet both of them together (in bar/pub) and chat to both - assumed that was just the way things were
But Was chatting to the husband of a hotwife couple - and he said that when they meet a new single guy, the wife will meet the guy alone initially in pub - so they can both chat and not feel awkward if he (the husband is there) - if there are vibes between the wife and the single guy, she will bring him home to hubby (who has been at home all this while)
Never heard couples doing the later ..what are fabbers preferences?
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What's the phenomenon you refer to as cpls meeting single men😁😁 |
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We always meet together and in a public environment for the first time for a strictly social only meet.
The difficulty we have is that people do not read our profile and do not make much of an effort in order to meet us.
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"All our Fab meets, have been arranged by me, and in some cases I’ve met the guy beforehand before inviting him to come and join me and my wife … we have discussed a plan for her to pick up a stranger in a pub and bring him home, which we both think is pretty hot 😜"
This is something we also have discussed and hope to do at some point.
Closest we got was both of us out she chatted with a guy then he came back with us. |
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We've met single men, a number. On a successful basis we reckon about 1 in 100 gets to a chat or vid call then that's halved down again to actually meeting and that's halved again. We've met and played with 8 so you do the maths. Now we've given up on single men after of those 8 we met, 4 let us down on subsequent meets.
And you wonder why couples don't meet single men? |
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