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"The excitement of planned meets with single guys has been vastly outweighed by the disappointment of those guys cancelling at the last minute.
We've stopped looking now & just don't bother."
So many fakes in here isn’t there and time wasters x |
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I find it hard and most of the time and it kills my interest. I've had 4 no shows from females and couples, 2 meets in 5 years which went OK. Sent hundreds of messages and only a few replies.
My membership runs out tomorrow. Do I renew? |
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It’s best to temper your expectations where fab is concerned. Some seem to think it’s offering a guaranteed shag, but they aren’t the genuine swingers.
Unfortunately it’s those people that have sent genuine swingers running for the hills (or their nearest club) rather than submit themselves to the abuse they get from entitled people faced with rejection. The advent of AI isn’t likely to improve things either, and despite the site warning that AI images won’t be tolerated, I’m not convinced the filters are in place to prevent it. Apart from that it’s great! 😂 |
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By *CExeCouple 2 weeks ago
Hong-Kong/Exeter |
It was better when it was mostly genuine swingers. Now the horndog men and the OF couples etc have made it a lot more difficult to find genuine and reliable folks. That said, we've been lucky and met some great people and had a lot of fun! |
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By *arand25Couple 2 weeks ago
Crowborough |
"The excitement of planned meets with single guys has been vastly outweighed by the disappointment of those guys cancelling at the last minute.
We've stopped looking now & just don't bother.
So many fakes in here isn’t there and time wasters x"
Absolutely crammed full of them, shame for the decent guys. |
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I have recently returned after some time off and I’m finding it quite flat, if I’m being honest.
I am though in a different position now then I was before but still. Or maybe I’m still trying to find my way back.
Forums can be rather amusing at times, however. |
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"I have recently returned after some time off and I’m finding it quite flat, if I’m being honest.
I am though in a different position now then I was before but still. Or maybe I’m still trying to find my way back.
Forums can be rather amusing at times, however. "
I agree the forums nearly always put a smile on my face |
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There is no out-of-the-box excitement on this site. Any excitement that I've experienced has been on the back of effort, energy and patience.
I don't find it frustrating or annoying, nor even boring. |
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I find it boring. Absolutely no excitement. Because you get talking to someone, eventually, and get on really well, arrange a meet, suddenly they're unavailable on the day. No message, no excuse, nothing. Just a few days later, message to arrange a meet. No
Every time. It gets so old fast |
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The excitement when you’re on your way to meet someone for the first time that you’ve been flirting with for weeks is crazy sexy. When your sat at a bar flirting like crazy knowing that you want one another, the best feeling! |
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The latter recently its got rather tedious lately some people on the site are amazing and actually have something to say but there are so many fantasists and flakes it's very frustrating and makes our guard go up alot |
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It can be exciting and it can be annoying and frustrating too, but its just how it is on here. I put a lot of time and effort into finding ladies on here and getting to know them, seeing if we all get along. But, when it all goes well and we arrange a meet and have an amazing time its all worth it x
Mrs x |
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I'm a plodder, it's fine just plod along with it. No pressure, hassle free, fun, a late night distraction or change from boring tele.
A carer at the moment so social life has evaporated, so it helps to keep in touch with old friends.
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It's mostly dull
Lots of idiots and time wasters
It's a catch 22 though
Your fairly sure the person that will fit what ever your looking for is on her though
So you drudge thinking it will be worth it when we find them.
Which really it is
But it seems harder than it should be to find them |
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"Do you love the excitement on this site or do you find it frustrating annoying and sometimes boring "
It’s a mixture of excitement and frustration. I think sometimes you get lulled into false hope and excitement once you have one or two meets, then it all drys up and you are left wondering what went wrong.
Have you actually managed any fab meets yet OP? |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"Do you love the excitement on this site or do you find it frustrating annoying and sometimes boring
It’s a mixture of excitement and frustration. I think sometimes you get lulled into false hope and excitement once you have one or two meets, then it all drys up and you are left wondering what went wrong.
Have you actually managed any fab meets yet OP?"
couldn’t put it better myself |
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Extremely frustrating & extremely disappointing. Beginning to see a clear pattern. Most single women/coupes (within my area at least) only seem to want to meet tall, gym fit, hung men. The impression that I am getting from Fab is that “average “ men aren’t desirable or wanted |
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Been on here 10 years roughly.
Most of the time it’s been frustrating with the occasional bit of excitement.
Since lockdown ended find it extremely hard to make any form of connection with couples. Given up a long time ago with single ladies. |
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The site for us is more of a tool for finding out what on (scene wise), keeping in touch with freinds and perving.
We don't really use this site to search for potential play mates and we very rarely meet of here. For us the real excitement of the scene is in the psychical world, clubs, parties, random real life encounter. We love the frill of the unknown as we go out there to apply our charm. Real world interactions are so much hotter and effective without the frustration and time wasting.
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