Trying to get a sexy meet with another couple, omg its hard. I've sent about 15 messages and not even got one message back lol . I know its tuff for single guys but didn't realise it was that hard haha. |
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We've been in Cornwall all week and would have loved two meets.
Of the single guys that were able to accommodate and Char fancied, there were two. Both available when we suggested. Both ghosted us straight after our day/time suggestion.
Of the couples we've messaged, most haven't replied (so a standard no thanks, we know the ropes) and of the three that did, all three conveniently had the female half away working, looking after the kids or simply not playing this week.
So we've ended up doing nothing. |
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"We've been in Cornwall all week and would have loved two meets.
Of the single guys that were able to accommodate and Char fancied, there were two. Both available when we suggested. Both ghosted us straight after our day/time suggestion.
Of the couples we've messaged, most haven't replied (so a standard no thanks, we know the ropes) and of the three that did, all three conveniently had the female half away working, looking after the kids or simply not playing this week.
So we've ended up doing nothing."
That sounds perfectly normal to us it what happens all time with us lol |
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"Wasn't very clear with what I said. I'm the male half of the couple that is trying to meet up with a couple on his own, not with his wife. "
We wouldn't even reply to a message unfortunately. Been here far too long and been caught out ourselves meeting guys from couples only to find that the other half didn't know.
It's unfortunate but you'll be tarred with the brush that marks you out as a chancery pretending to be a couple. |
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By *ORBCouple 2 weeks ago
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"Walking red flag 🙄 Can you explain why?? "
The way I see it is that you have multiple verifications as a couple but none as a man meeting alone.
It might seem pedantic but we've had a few messages from the male half of a verified couple looking to meet alone and we ignored them because as far as we are concerned if you are messaging from a couples profile it should only ever be to arrange a meet as a couple.
Anything else use a singles account.
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"Really? I'm messaging on our couples profile? "
Still doesn't mean she knows. We met a guy regularly for six months or so after meeting him and his wife for breakfast. Turns out she didn't actually know he was seeing us, which we only discovered when I happened to make a delivery to his house and he fairly pushed me off the door step in his haste to close the door behind us while whispering to me "she doesn't need to know about our meets".
We're just very cynical now. |
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Why not create a single profile op and then cross reference your couple account on it.
Im half a couple and we both have single accounts (we met here).
I'm guessing because your profile is quite top heavy with pics of your other half, people are expecting or hoping for her to be involved too maybe?.
My other half has been turned down by women who don't want to meet men with a partner, even though I know and encourage it.
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Single guys on single guy profiles have to send alot more than 15 messages out to get some serious interest. Competition is fierce, I once had my own profile and it was brutal to get noticed.
It's not easy, as you know being a couple you probably get bombarded with messages from single guys. And no doubt your Mrs will select the hottest guy, or the one that meets her needs more than the others.
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"I just presumed that a couple could trust a man out of a couple profile??? I totally got that wrong lol "
I would never trust a male half of a couple posting from a couples profile. Personally I would get a single profiles an mention that you’re a male half of a couple and add that in the bio |
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We never meet the guy from a couple alone. Why would you ? If you want just a guy there’s literally thousands on here to pick from so it makes no sense splitting a couple for one.
More often than not in our experience it’s either an old profile the wife is no longer using and the guys just using it to get meets as it’s more likely than on a single guy account. We always get the old “wife’s away” message. Delete and move on thank you |
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In my experience, "male half of a couple" is often a single guy who's held onto a couple profile after they split up.
I'm not saying that's what you are, OP, just trying to explain why people might be reticent. |
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"U both look hot tho so don’t see why u would struggle "
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Because attraction is only part of the story. People have preferences, penchants for various things that might be missing from their profile, compatibilities, or lack thereof. |
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"We never meet the guy from a couple alone. Why would you ? If you want just a guy there’s literally thousands on here to pick from so it makes no sense splitting a couple for one.
More often than not in our experience it’s either an old profile the wife is no longer using and the guys just using it to get meets as it’s more likely than on a single guy account. We always get the old “wife’s away” message. Delete and move on thank you "
Obviously I got it wrong to try and meet a couple whilst being in a couple , on my own haha . I do say with every message about doing facetime , so they can see my wife , but expect people will think that I have got a actress in haha |
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