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By *hocolateRod OP   Man 1 day ago

London and over UK

Hi

am always intrigued how people got started in the fun world of fab

so will start the ball rolling - as younger guy, I answered a singles ad (was in the paper back then and pre internet) from what i thought was single lady. Chatted to her on the phone and she said she was married and looking for men to join her and her husband. I nearly fell off my chair. Well, I jumped at the chance ! Never looked back - lets just say there is certain hotel in London Victoria that when I pass - I smile to myself!

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By *hat.coupleCouple 1 day ago

Kent

Ive always been bi but never admitted it to myself or anyone else. About 5 years ago I came out to my husband, he wasnt shocked as he already knew! I thought I hid it well 🤣

In telling him he said he'd be ok with me exploring with women on my own as id never been with a woman before. He was very shocked when I told him I had a massive fantasy to have a 3 sum with him and another woman. After a while he agreed once the shock wore off. We joined fab and started going to swinger clubs, the rest is history.

Mrs x

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By *nvader2021Couple 1 day ago

Watford

It started as a joke and a tease but we both enjoy inviting others to join us. So openness, trust, communication and honesty leads to heady times

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man 1 day ago

London and over UK


"It started as a joke and a tease but we both enjoy inviting others to join us. So openness, trust, communication and honesty leads to heady times"

how so - a joke? one of you was joking/teasing the other about inviting others into your sex lives?

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man 1 day ago

London and over UK


"Ive always been bi but never admitted it to myself or anyone else. About 5 years ago I came out to my husband, he wasnt shocked as he already knew! I thought I hid it well 🤣

In telling him he said he'd be ok with me exploring with women on my own as id never been with a woman before. He was very shocked when I told him I had a massive fantasy to have a 3 sum with him and another woman. After a while he agreed once the shock wore off. We joined fab and started going to swinger clubs, the rest is history.

Wow - thats quite the story- am sure lots of husbands would sign up for MFF fun! great story

Mrs x"

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By *uxurycollectionCouple 1 day ago

Port Talbot

Talking about it on a night out and both getting turned on. Then on a holiday a couple of years back there was a club near our hotel and we dipped our toes in. Never looked back.

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By *ealitybitesMan 1 day ago

Belfast

This whole site and lifestyle as some refer to it was completely alien to me.

I knew nothing like this or had even a passing interest.

I reached the age of 50 with very little sexual experience but a couple of things happened around that time that changed my whole outlook on life in general.

I found myself on another site 2 years later almost by accident but it wasn't very user friendly and when looking for alternatives found this one.

It hasn't been something I've explored to any great degree and it's definitely not a lifestyle choice as far as I'm concerned. It's never been anything more than a hobby and one I could walk away from without looking back.

I haven't met anyone new since 2020 for various reasons but all my meets prior to that have been one to one so my experiences during 10 years here have been limited.

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man 1 day ago

London and over UK


"Talking about it on a night out and both getting turned on. Then on a holiday a couple of years back there was a club near our hotel and we dipped our toes in. Never looked back. "

damn - good for you - interesting - how it starts with a chat and realisation that both are into swinging

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By *nvader2021Couple 1 day ago

Watford


"It started as a joke and a tease but we both enjoy inviting others to join us. So openness, trust, communication and honesty leads to heady times

how so - a joke? one of you was joking/teasing the other about inviting others into your sex lives?"

Exactly that

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man 1 day ago

London and over UK


"It started as a joke and a tease but we both enjoy inviting others to join us. So openness, trust, communication and honesty leads to heady times

how so - a joke? one of you was joking/teasing the other about inviting others into your sex lives?

How did you go to the next step? go to a club?

Exactly that "

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By *rankieiamMan 21 hours ago

reading

Fell into it on holiday with an ex

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By *tickler2000Man 20 hours ago

St Agnes

Got told about Fab by a cuck couple I've play with for many years.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple 20 hours ago

Ryde

My husband saw Fabswingers' web-address literally scrawled on the wall of a public toilet!

Not telling me, he signed us up as couple and checked the layout before gently broaching the subject about 2 years later. He just wanted me to have "the Rolls-Royce of fucks", and with empty-nest syndrome in full effect, I eventually plucked up the courage to let a relative stranger have sex with me.

Of course, all barriers came crashing down before long!

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple 20 hours ago

Lurgan

Long story short, D told me he had a fantasy of watching me with another man. Lot of talking later, with a bit of research, we found fab and decided to join to see if it was something we should try. 2 and a half years later, we are still having fun

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man 10 hours ago

London and over UK


"My husband saw Fabswingers' web-address literally scrawled on the wall of a public toilet!

Not telling me, he signed us up as couple and checked the layout before gently broaching the subject about 2 years later. He just wanted me to have "the Rolls-Royce of fucks", and with empty-nest syndrome in full effect, I eventually plucked up the courage to let a relative stranger have sex with me.

Of course, all barriers came crashing down before long! "

Good for you! Thats quite the story !

Think a lot of husbands are excited about the thought of their wives with another man ...

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By *uHorny1Man 10 hours ago

Cannock

Visited a porn cinema. A couple visited and I was lucky that she decided she wanted to suck me off.

Afterwards, they asked for my Fab username. I'd never heard of Fab. I made an account and that started the ball rolling...

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man 10 hours ago

London and over UK


"Visited a porn cinema. A couple visited and I was lucky that she decided she wanted to suck me off.

Afterwards, they asked for my Fab username. I'd never heard of Fab. I made an account and that started the ball rolling..."

Hi- good for you! i dont think I would be brave enough to go to a porn cinema - but good for you

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan 9 hours ago

Rotherham

Started swinging after a d*unken unplanned threesome at a uni party, not long after turned from swinging to cuckold after meeting a hung Dom guy for a threesome , the rest is history as they say

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By *s2walesCouple 9 hours ago

Gwent...

Wife had a thing with her friend in uni years ago. Years later when we were together she told me about it. We contacted her and found out she and her husband were swingers....

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By *dultfun74Man 9 hours ago

playtown

Back in 2011 after divorce and enjoying the single life just missed the sex so had tried cam and chat group and found fab through there and had really good time.

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By *yan7777Man 9 hours ago

Motherwell

Was a very curious lad and we had ads in back of paper where you’d listen to other people’s voice ads and have your own. Put on an older sounding ad and trawled through.. eventually met a couple who were keen and picked me up in their van…

Sounds risky as hell now as I say it but back then, hot as!!!

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man 8 hours ago

London and over UK


"Wife had a thing with her friend in uni years ago. Years later when we were together she told me about it. We contacted her and found out she and her husband were swingers...."

wow!

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By *otoncouple121Couple 8 hours ago

southampton

Found out she slept with a black guy before we met and also in the early stages of the relationship she asked how I felt about a mfm so many years later we joined here and had our first mfm and still have them every now and then

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple 8 hours ago

Southampton

Grew from beach nudism and exhibitionism for us. It seemed people liked seeing us naked so we dived in.

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man 5 hours ago

London and over UK


"Found out she slept with a black guy before we met and also in the early stages of the relationship she asked how I felt about a mfm so many years later we joined here and had our first mfm and still have them every now and then "

wow - love the fact you were turned on by her previous lover

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By *umagain58Man 5 hours ago

London

Mine was not planned. Was very long time back when a student and used to lodge with a couple. One morning the wife came on to me. I was really nervous but she taught me and introduced me to swinging world

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By *hilemupMan 3 hours ago

Liverpool

Long before I joined Fab I was offered a summer working in a friend's bar in Tenerife, I had the window seat on the flight and a couple in their 50's sat alongside me with the female in the middle seat.

Almost from the off we got chatting, she was very friendly and had a great sense of humour, she was also very tactile touching my arm and my leg as we chatted.

As we parted on the luggage carousel I thought that was it, but a couple of nights later they walked into my bar and we just started chatting like we had on the plane.

He went across the road to the bar opposite that was showing football leaving her to chat to me, she admitted that they'd scoured all the bars hoping to see me again, and just came out with it....she wanted me to join them at their hotel room for a threesome.

I had several nights with them before they went home, and even spent one afternoon fucking her while he went off golfing.

I was hooked.....

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By *hocolateRod OP   Man 2 hours ago

London and over UK


"Long before I joined Fab I was offered a summer working in a friend's bar in Tenerife, I had the window seat on the flight and a couple in their 50's sat alongside me with the female in the middle seat.

Almost from the off we got chatting, she was very friendly and had a great sense of humour, she was also very tactile touching my arm and my leg as we chatted.

As we parted on the luggage carousel I thought that was it, but a couple of nights later they walked into my bar and we just started chatting like we had on the plane.

He went across the road to the bar opposite that was showing football leaving her to chat to me, she admitted that they'd scoured all the bars hoping to see me again, and just came out with it....she wanted me to join them at their hotel room for a threesome.

I had several nights with them before they went home, and even spent one afternoon fucking her while he went off golfing.

I was hooked....."

wow - thats a fantastic story! great holiday!

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By *uxuriantCouple 1 hour ago

Cornwall

An amazing night, especially as it was unplanned and our first ever experience. Mrs Lux invited a girlfriend round. A visit to the pub and several bottles of wine later, the other girl started stroking Mrs L’s leg. I left them to it for a few minutes on the pretence of doing something in the kitchen, but watched through the doorway discreetly as they started kissing and removed each others tops and bras. At this point it seemed like a good idea to rejoin them. What followed set us off on our lifestyle journey all thanks to this lovely lady.

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By *atureFem4FunWoman 56 minutes ago

Las Palmas GC

I've told my story on here before but I'll tell it again.....

When I first met Rob I had been seeing Sami for over 2 years, it wasn't really a relationship, he wasn't the settling down type and over 30 years on he remains a happy batchelor. But the sex with Sami was mind-blowing, there was no love making it was just very good sex.

Rob was the polar opposite, a kind and caring man, we didn't have just sex we made sensual love. And I assured him that I'd ditch Sami but I'd have to slowly let him down, but every time I was determined to dump him he'd get around me and we'd have glorious sex.

Eventually after around four months I plucked up the courage and resolve and dumped Sami for good.....or so I thought.

Rob and I moved in together and eventually married, but twice before we married Sami managed to accidentally bump into me and begged me to see him again but I remained strong.

Then we were invited to the wedding of one of my very best friends, and I warned hubby that my ex might be there.

Sami being what he is managed to swap tables to ours at the reception and glorified in introducing himself to hubby. He asked Rob if he could have a dance with me and proceeded to whisper rude stuff into my ear as we danced very close to each other.

A few drinks were consumed and every time I left the table he'd boast to Rob about our dates always ending up in sex.

That night after the wedding in our hotel room I half expected Rob to be off with me but the opposite was true, he wanted to know what was so special about my sex life with the ex so I was truthful with him, our first real enjoyable sex followed, and I felt very lucky indeed.

This is before mobile phones so even though Sami was desperate to see me again he never managed to bump into me, then one day as I left work there was Sami leaning up against his very smart sports car, he offered me a lift home, I think if I'd said no I wouldn't be on Fab today.

Halfway home Sami pulled up at the side of the road, he leant over to kiss me, I didn't refuse his kiss. His hand slid under my skirt and I went back in time.

That night I just couldn't keep it from Rob and told him how Sami had come into me, how he kissed me, but never told of the groping.

Rob dragged me off to bed without supper, I ended up riding him and masturbating like crazy as I did so.

It was the first time Rob ever saw me masturbating, and teased me about Sami as I rode him.

He then made the mistake of asking me if I'd like to start seeing Sami again, and I just said yes if he didn't mind.

Then EVERY time we made love after that the subject got around to Sami and I'd tell him about the sordid things we once did.

So I started to see Sami again, the sex was crazier than it ever was before, Sami was so turned on by the fact that I was married, then finally came the day where after a date he took me back to our home and took me into our spare bedroom and fucked me like a mad man with hubby Rob in the next room.

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By *attooedbbwandhubbyCouple 23 minutes ago

Dorset

As a couple we wanted to explore swinging and signed up, we had a brief go awhile back but the time wasn’t right… then we decided to look again after plenty of fantasy chat, luckily we have managed to explore a MFM on couple of occasions which left us hoping for more

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By *Kcouple999Couple 11 minutes ago

Welwyn

Hi! Im hoping someone has had a similar experience to me and could maybe give a little advice please? We do not have much experience.

We had a threesome last night, meet for drinks first.. the drinks flowed a little to much before we started playing. My partner and the guy we invited to play couldn't perform properly.. im left feeling very flat, vulnerable and anxious about it today. How do I shift the feelings? Xx

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Welwyn

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