How comes single men are the ones mainly that fab pictures, we don’t have single men on our looking for and we even have a block on them messaging but constantly single men are the ones who fab our pictures most.
We put a degree of effort in with our pics to enhance our profile to make it more appealing to meet people in person and get interest in our profile, I’d say we have a variation of content that I’d hope would appeal broadly, but if the fabs are to be acknowledged only single men are looking.
Is there a reason couples/TV’s/single ladies seem to use the site different in this regard? Totally acknowledge there’s more men on here which will be a contributing factor but not to the extent we’ve found over doing this for around three years now. I am not saying the above don’t fab pics but like I say from our experience it’s very very limited. |
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"I think they're using it as a hello and hope you're intrigued enough to check out their profile.
As for us Tgirls, we're all just anarchists by nature  "
Love the anarchist comment 😂 I see your point about the hello 100% though, but why do single men see it like that and not couples etc, I fab a pic if I appreciate it or you can see someone’s made a degree of effort with the pic but no other reason if I wanted to say hello I’d either wink someone or message them which is surely what the intention is 😜 |
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"It's almost free Porn. An appreciation of something good is good too. We always check out the profiles of those who fab us. Of course then some message but that's no bad thing. "
Always good to show some appreciation I am all for that especially if your using it as free porn to get off over 😜 |
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"I’m stingy with giving out fabs as I think they can encourage a message and I don’t necessarily want that. Sometimes I just want to pay a quick compliment in the form of a fab. "
If you fab a pic and someone messages could you not just say something along the lines of I thought the pic was brilliant but that’s literally it I’ve no intention of chatting or meeting etc, I think we should be just as comfortable with saying no thanks as we are saying we appreciate something 😊 |
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"I fab pics I like the look of,even if I know they won't be for me or me them if it's a great pic it deserves a fab."
That’s brill and we totally support that, but as a single woman as I say your massively in the minority which is a shame. |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 1 week ago
not even in the north west |
I don't fab any because
A) they always message afterwards. If I wanted to talk, I would have messaged.
B) if it's someone I like and am talking to, I then feel like I have to fab every pic or I get the "didn't you like the new pic" message and I can't be arsed to keep up with that. |
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Given the amount of threads about people not wanting guys, or TVs fabbing their pics, messaging them, looking at them, shopping in the Dave supermarket etc I decided not to fab anything. I can’t be arsed with trying to work out if someone’s gonna get offended. |
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"I don't fab any because
A) they always message afterwards. If I wanted to talk, I would have messaged.
B) if it's someone I like and am talking to, I then feel like I have to fab every pic or I get the "didn't you like the new pic" message and I can't be arsed to keep up with that."
That’s such a shame as I think we should be just as comfortable telling people no thanks on here just as much as we should saying we appreciate something, if someone’s giving you grief for not liking every pic then they would be right in the bin anyways for us as there’s a difference between appreciating effort and then just appreciating everything that’s a touch needy and not for us. |
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"Given the amount of threads about people not wanting guys, or TVs fabbing their pics, messaging them, looking at them, shopping in the Dave supermarket etc I decided not to fab anything. I can’t be arsed with trying to work out if someone’s gonna get offended. "
Though I do occasionally fab a woman’s pic if I think it’s a really good pic. Given I’m gsy and there’s zero sexual connotation to it hopefully they just see it as a compliment. |
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"I’m stingy with giving out fabs as I think they can encourage a message and I don’t necessarily want that. Sometimes I just want to pay a quick compliment in the form of a fab.
If you fab a pic and someone messages could you not just say something along the lines of I thought the pic was brilliant but that’s literally it I’ve no intention of chatting or meeting etc, I think we should be just as comfortable with saying no thanks as we are saying we appreciate something 😊"
Yes of course, but that’s my reasoning for why I hardly ever fab, it just usually generates a message that I can’t be arsed to deal with haha. |
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"Given the amount of threads about people not wanting guys, or TVs fabbing their pics, messaging them, looking at them, shopping in the Dave supermarket etc I decided not to fab anything. I can’t be arsed with trying to work out if someone’s gonna get offended. "
Yeah people do seem to take offence quick don’t they but again I’ve said it already I don’t think anyone should feel like they can’t acknowledge their appreciation just as much as folks shouldn’t feel bad for saying I am not sexually attracted to a TV for example, maybe the blurred lines of the site have gone too far |
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"I’m stingy with giving out fabs as I think they can encourage a message and I don’t necessarily want that. Sometimes I just want to pay a quick compliment in the form of a fab.
If you fab a pic and someone messages could you not just say something along the lines of I thought the pic was brilliant but that’s literally it I’ve no intention of chatting or meeting etc, I think we should be just as comfortable with saying no thanks as we are saying we appreciate something 😊
Yes of course, but that’s my reasoning for why I hardly ever fab, it just usually generates a message that I can’t be arsed to deal with haha."
Well thanks for your honesty I do appreciate it 😊✌🏻 |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 1 week ago
not even in the north west |
"I don't fab any because
A) they always message afterwards. If I wanted to talk, I would have messaged.
B) if it's someone I like and am talking to, I then feel like I have to fab every pic or I get the "didn't you like the new pic" message and I can't be arsed to keep up with that.
That’s such a shame as I think we should be just as comfortable telling people no thanks on here just as much as we should saying we appreciate something, if someone’s giving you grief for not liking every pic then they would be right in the bin anyways for us as there’s a difference between appreciating effort and then just appreciating everything that’s a touch needy and not for us. "
Aren't fabs in general a bit needy though? |
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"It's partly a numbers game. With, say 10 single males to every couple, there will be 10x more single guys fabbing your pics than couples, assuming the same ratio "
As I say in my initial post totally accept that but no where near to the degree we’ve found the numbers are way way out |
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"I don't fab any because
A) they always message afterwards. If I wanted to talk, I would have messaged.
B) if it's someone I like and am talking to, I then feel like I have to fab every pic or I get the "didn't you like the new pic" message and I can't be arsed to keep up with that.
That’s such a shame as I think we should be just as comfortable telling people no thanks on here just as much as we should saying we appreciate something, if someone’s giving you grief for not liking every pic then they would be right in the bin anyways for us as there’s a difference between appreciating effort and then just appreciating everything that’s a touch needy and not for us.
Aren't fabs in general a bit needy though? "
If someone’s posting pics just for a fab then yeah but I guess this post is more about why people don’t do it not why people might want them as such |
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As a couple we try to fab others as well. Like you said OP, we put effort in and do try to appreciate there are others doing the same. There's some amazing content and passion from many on here. K tends to deal with the attention from single men and J the couples. Keep at the passionate work x |
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"As a couple we try to fab others as well. Like you said OP, we put effort in and do try to appreciate there are others doing the same. There's some amazing content and passion from many on here. K tends to deal with the attention from single men and J the couples. Keep at the passionate work x"
Likewise, you guys have some brilliant pics, keep up the good work you two, fabs incoming 😜✌🏻 |
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It may be wrong but it wouldn't stop me from fabing a bit if I wasn't able to message I don't see the two as being connected. If I see a pic I find sexy or even funny I would fab it I suppose it's more of an appreciation of someone taking the time and effort to getting a good pic. If that makes any sense. |
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"It may be wrong but it wouldn't stop me from fabing a bit if I wasn't able to message I don't see the two as being connected. If I see a pic I find sexy or even funny I would fab it I suppose it's more of an appreciation of someone taking the time and effort to getting a good pic. If that makes any sense."
That’s great to hear it honestly is and I am so pleased as a single man you’ve put this as it shows that not all single men are doing it just to attract attention on to themselves, out of curiosity how do you view it if some one fabs one of your pics ? Like do you see that as intent on their behalf ? |
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"It may be wrong but it wouldn't stop me from fabing a bit if I wasn't able to message I don't see the two as being connected. If I see a pic I find sexy or even funny I would fab it I suppose it's more of an appreciation of someone taking the time and effort to getting a good pic. If that makes any sense.
That’s great to hear it honestly is and I am so pleased as a single man you’ve put this as it shows that not all single men are doing it just to attract attention on to themselves, out of curiosity how do you view it if some one fabs one of your pics ? Like do you see that as intent on their behalf ? "
No not intent. But I normally message back saying thank you then it's pretty easy to gauge the mood within a message or to. But to be honest I don't get many like so it's not something I've thought a great deal about lol |
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"It may be wrong but it wouldn't stop me from fabing a bit if I wasn't able to message I don't see the two as being connected. If I see a pic I find sexy or even funny I would fab it I suppose it's more of an appreciation of someone taking the time and effort to getting a good pic. If that makes any sense.
That’s great to hear it honestly is and I am so pleased as a single man you’ve put this as it shows that not all single men are doing it just to attract attention on to themselves, out of curiosity how do you view it if some one fabs one of your pics ? Like do you see that as intent on their behalf ?
No not intent. But I normally message back saying thank you then it's pretty easy to gauge the mood within a message or to. But to be honest I don't get many like so it's not something I've thought a great deal about lol"
Well if the posts above are anything to go off id hold off on the thank you’s 😂 |
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"It may be wrong but it wouldn't stop me from fabing a bit if I wasn't able to message I don't see the two as being connected. If I see a pic I find sexy or even funny I would fab it I suppose it's more of an appreciation of someone taking the time and effort to getting a good pic. If that makes any sense.
That’s great to hear it honestly is and I am so pleased as a single man you’ve put this as it shows that not all single men are doing it just to attract attention on to themselves, out of curiosity how do you view it if some one fabs one of your pics ? Like do you see that as intent on their behalf ?
No not intent. But I normally message back saying thank you then it's pretty easy to gauge the mood within a message or to. But to be honest I don't get many like so it's not something I've thought a great deal about lol
Well if the posts above are anything to go off id hold off on the thank you’s 😂"
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99% of my pics and videos are fabbed by men doesn't bother me as I've blocked them from contacting me, and I dont fab many pictures myself just what catches my eye, its always nice to be appreciated |
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We try to fab pics we like too. It’s nice to get a fab and feel appreciated.
I (m) enjoy the support from people in the scene getting your clothes off can be a scary thing and with low confidence a “fab” can give you a smile that it’s appreciated. I’m not here for fabs but I do appreciate when people fab pics. |
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"We try to fab pics we like too. It’s nice to get a fab and feel appreciated.
I (m) enjoy the support from people in the scene getting your clothes off can be a scary thing and with low confidence a “fab” can give you a smile that it’s appreciated. I’m not here for fabs but I do appreciate when people fab pics. "
Couldn’t have worded it better really, would you agree on what we’ve found though that women and couples however are less forthcoming to fab a pic, Even taking into account the mass of single men on the site in comparison for us it’s still very much out of kilter |
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"We try to fab pics we like too. It’s nice to get a fab and feel appreciated.
I (m) enjoy the support from people in the scene getting your clothes off can be a scary thing and with low confidence a “fab” can give you a smile that it’s appreciated. I’m not here for fabs but I do appreciate when people fab pics.
Couldn’t have worded it better really, would you agree on what we’ve found though that women and couples however are less forthcoming to fab a pic, Even taking into account the mass of single men on the site in comparison for us it’s still very much out of kilter "
Yeah absolutely. I have a couple and single male
Profile and find myself fabbing more pics on the single one. Mainly due to my updates being filled a lot more with status’ or profile views so don’t see a lot of pics. I’m also straight so don’t fab a males pic also feel the profile is a lot busier. |
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I don't know about anyone else but I personally don't look at local updates, so unless i am promted to look from a thread, check my hotlist or friends list I don't generally fab much other than them. What's the answer i dont know 🤷♀️ |
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