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Was wondering if the fact a guy is being tempted away by a hot wife single lady and she knows it's wrong but the sexual desire and temptation is to much that taboo is to much to resist.
What's your thoughts? I'm that guy. Is it wrong. |
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Cheating is cheating and its always wrong. No excuses for it, I'm a firm believer in communication in a relationship, things should be discussed as soon as they start to become an issue so as to resolve them before things get too bad and someone cheats. Regardless of the root cause poor communication is always the main contributing factor in infidelity.
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As above. Cheating wrong on all levels, breaks trust and hearts. Communication could solve so many issues and build stronger relationships. Instead constant cheating with either sex eats away and destroys relationships instead  |
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Nope, helping someone cheat on a partner isn't exciting or a turn on at all.
But I have seen rare threads where woman have thought this way, ie they're so hot because a man is willing to cheat with them. When in reality, there's probably loads of women he's done it with. |
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By *arand25Couple 5 days ago
Crowborough |
We steering well clear, we won't be helping anyone cheat & deceive a partner whatever the situation.
We know some are in sexless relationships & we get that, but we still won't be meeting guys that aren't honest with their partner. |
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I know this won't be popular but I have met a few married men.
It's amuses me how on here it's always married men that get slated and nobody ever asks about married women. I'm sure there are plenty of cheating women on here too. |
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"I know this won't be popular but I have met a few married men.
It's amuses me how on here it's always married men that get slated and nobody ever asks about married women. I'm sure there are plenty of cheating women on here too. "
The women don't tend to start forum threads on it asking for approval, seeking validation, making excuses or looking to justify their choices.
They don't tend to mention it in the profiles anywhere near as much as men do.
They don't see it as anything to brag about, nor use it as a selling tool for themselves.
Sure, they exist. But usually in the background away from the Fab public eye and you'll rarely know they're attached at all. |
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"I know this won't be popular but I have met a few married men.
It's amuses me how on here it's always married men that get slated and nobody ever asks about married women. I'm sure there are plenty of cheating women on here too.
The women don't tend to start forum threads on it asking for approval, seeking validation, making excuses or looking to justify their choices.
They don't tend to mention it in the profiles anywhere near as much as men do.
They don't see it as anything to brag about, nor use it as a selling tool for themselves.
Sure, they exist. But usually in the background away from the Fab public eye and you'll rarely know they're attached at all."
I said similar in another post. Plus women will still get meets even if they announce in neon letters they're cheating. As many men think it's hot or that they're getting one over on the hubby.
You only have to look at all the many threads started by men, about how sexy it is to meet a wife who is cheating on her husband.
Women rarely feel the need to start threads about it, I've seen one or 2 do it and they got ripped into by many forumites too. |
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"I know this won't be popular but I have met a few married men.
It's amuses me how on here it's always married men that get slated and nobody ever asks about married women. I'm sure there are plenty of cheating women on here too.
The women don't tend to start forum threads on it asking for approval, seeking validation, making excuses or looking to justify their choices.
They don't tend to mention it in the profiles anywhere near as much as men do.
They don't see it as anything to brag about, nor use it as a selling tool for themselves.
Sure, they exist. But usually in the background away from the Fab public eye and you'll rarely know they're attached at all."
I dont think men use it as a selling tool on here at all. Those who are honest about being married and cheating normally get ripped a new one on the forums, it never works in their favour. |
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It’s the taboo side of it, in life when ya single girls don’t wanna know ya then soon as ya have a little fitty on the go….the sneaky weekend dms are flying in and especially from the ones closest to them….ive even had her mate asking is she better then her friend 🤪😝 |
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As a cuckold couple we tend not to be too judgemental with our dynamic.
From experience most of Dee’s best cuckolding partners have been married, not all, but most. Single guys can be too clingy and start trying to dictate things a little more (probably too much time on their hands) whereas the married guys it’s about just the meet and fucking to give her the pleasure she needs.
As a cuck, who effectively being cheated on myself I do think about the wives and wondering if they know the pleasure their husband is giving to my wife, but then it starts to get into your head so it’s a guilt thing, so best to ignore it. |
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"I know this won't be popular but I have met a few married men.
It's amuses me how on here it's always married men that get slated and nobody ever asks about married women. I'm sure there are plenty of cheating women on here too. "
There are |
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By *aandLoCouple 4 days ago
Southampton |
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As a cuck, who effectively being cheated on myself I do think about the wives and wondering if they know the pleasure their husband is giving to my wife, but then it starts to get into your head so it’s a guilt thing, so best to ignore it."
Cuck and cheating are not "effectively..." the same at all. You choose to accept your wife fucking others. Those being cheated on have zero choice, and are being kept in the dark with deceit, lies and disrespect.
That's not a judgement about cheating. (people have their reasons,) but it is a fact. |
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Adding some sensible context to this.
Most of the men we have met have been in relationships. We are not involved, interested or have any ownership of other peoples relationships or choices and decisions.
We meet the people we like and connect with. From experience attached guys have tended to be a better match and more reliable and importantly more to lose from fucking it up.
In twenty years we have never had an issue with a partner from meeting guys in relationships |
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"Adding some sensible context to this.
Most of the men we have met have been in relationships. We are not involved, interested or have any ownership of other peoples relationships or choices and decisions.
We meet the people we like and connect with. From experience attached guys have tended to be a better match and more reliable and importantly more to lose from fucking it up.
In twenty years we have never had an issue with a partner from meeting guys in relationships "
Similar here x |
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Unpopular opinion, im here for me not to be the morality police for other people. I dont actively find it hot or purposely seek married men. But i have met married men and i would again if i was attracted/the connection was there .  |
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"Unpopular opinion, im here for me not to be the morality police for other people. I dont actively find it hot or purposely seek married men. But i have met married men and i would again if i was attracted/the connection was there . "
Any why shouldn’t you…enjoy! |
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"Unpopular opinion, im here for me not to be the morality police for other people. I dont actively find it hot or purposely seek married men. But i have met married men and i would again if i was attracted/the connection was there . "
Same |
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I think there are a lot of people on here who choose to remain ignorant of who they are playing with. There’s nothing wrong with that, as such, but it’s sensible to recognise that on fab if you are meeting up with a ‘single’ guy then there will s a very good chance he is ‘fab single.’ There’s an even greater chance that he’s ’fab straight.’
We all delude ourselves about things every day, it’s just how people work, and it’s no different about those you meet up with on fab. The more certain people proclaim themselves, the more likely they are to be wrong. |
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We feel it's something that is very much subjective. For us, as a polyamorous couple, cheating is very much not okay. We both have multiple partners and our preference is for everything to be open and above board. All of our respective partners know about everyone else.
We don't believe that it's fair for someone to be cheating as it gives no thought or consideration to the person who is unaware.
Very recently I (Mr) was chatting to someone who is actively cheating on their partner, but when I outlined our lifestyle, they said that they didn't think they could do the same with their "missus", while they're quite happy to do whatever the fuck they want without their partners knowledge. That for us is inherently wrong.
There are people who meet with their partners knowledge and can prove so, which to us is fine. Personally we feel the worst kind are those who chose to hide, or lie about the fact they are being unfaithful as it takes the moral decision away from the other party.
As has been mentioned earlier in this thread, if you really feel that your monogamous relationship is that lacking, talk about it and figure out where the issues lay. Don't be deceitful as I'd hedge my bets that if you were to find out that your partner was doing the same, you wouldn't be best pleased. |
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The main issue for us is consent, or in this case lack of.
Everything about swinging and sex in general should always be fully consensual. Everything. Both out of basic respect and of course for safety.
If someone is sneaking around behind a partners back then there's no consent.
Their partner is unaware of the potential risk to their health for any STD's that could be transmitted. They're unaware that there could potentially be a consequence to their privacy or in fact safety, should their playing away partner do something that has repercussions and brings drama back to their door.
We'd rather not get involved with anyone attached full stop, unless we've met their partner and the green light is clearly given. |
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I would not ask a lady or a couple their circumstances any more than I would ask them their age.
Obviously, I have my own views, but everyone has their own reasons for coming on here I would not want to pry or judge.
Ships that meet in night dont enquire as to what cargo is in the hold! |
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By *cribeMan 4 days ago
Bridgend |
The first lady that chatted to me on here did so because she could seein my pics the wedding bands on my finger. Called me her married lover guy. When I told her I am a widower I got blocked. Strange? |
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