Most of the women I have been with seem to want hard and fast although that doesn't really do it for me. I prefer slow buildup and sensual sex until the orgasm comes by surprise. Thoughts?..
A mix of the 2 is where its at for us. Start slow, and teasing, bodies moving in harmony until we're so worked up we go fast and hard. Then slow it down again and switch back to foreplay and start the whole process again 😇😈