Question more for couples and single females, do you tell your close friends, work colleagues etc about your swinger life/hotwife etc antics?
I get the feeling if you were sat at your desk and a colleague asked what you got up to and the weekend not many would answer with “I fucked a BBC while my hubby watched” haha |
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I tell nobody which can be a very lonely thing.
I do know my bf has got to know a woman at work who is in the scene and I know he's told her as much, through insinuation (ie knowing the name of local clubs), but that it was her who was open with him first. He's also, in his past, been very open about his kink life.
It'd be nice to be able to talk about it. I guess that's why I chat on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 day ago
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With the general public and work colleagues, absolutely closed.
That said, I don't even chat about songs I love, art I've seen, filmstars I like etc
I am a very private person except for with a chosen few.
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Very much the answers I was expecting and I suppose with the social side of the life style maybe that helps people, after all it’s about communication too.
Wondering if in this ever changing world and I can already notice it becoming less taboo maybe in a few years it will be far more accepted than it is now |
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I have always thought this is a very secretive lifestyle and would like to feel that people would not judge, sadly I don’t think that is the case.
This is why I like the ‘forums’ an opportunity to discuss ur little kinks.
I went to work one Monday and was asked in the kitchen area while making a cup of tea. What did you get up to at the weekend?
I replied I went to an orgy , not one person took me seriously.
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The only people that know about our secret lifestyle apart from our swinger friends is us. We are not here to brag to our vanilla friends or work mates we are here as a couple to have fun as a couple in the lifestyle for us.
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"I have always thought this is a very secretive lifestyle and would like to feel that people would not judge, sadly I don’t think that is the case.
This is why I like the ‘forums’ an opportunity to discuss ur little kinks.
I went to work one Monday and was asked in the kitchen area while making a cup of tea. What did you get up to at the weekend?
I replied I went to an orgy , not one person took me seriously.
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Haha if only they knew huh? But agree I love these forums |
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I'm happy to talk about the lifestyle but only to enlighten and educate.
If the subject pops up I say everyone has a little kink in them or how can vanilla/missionary be for everyone it's just not possible! |
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By *aveonMan 1 day ago
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Totally not discussed with anyone - my private life and escape from the everyday
Was at the local naturist club last week, two women, another guy and myself, all naked and having a totally open discussion about what we all enjoy sexually in a totally non sexual way !
It is exactly what we were saying - you just would not have a discussion as we were in everyday life ! |
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We had a chat on the way to see Seeshell's best friends from uni about telling them. They don't know anyone else from our current vanilla life.
Decided not to. Good idea, the chat turned to a nearby nudist beach and they were very dismissive of naturists. We parked that idea quite quickly. |
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We have told just one good friend of hubby’s and that’s largely because of two reasons
We have detailed knowledge of his affairs and also before I sucked his cock for him a few times when staying with us.
No one else knows anything |
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