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Why do bi guys frighten folks
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Sadly, yes. Bi ladies are the dream of most men, as most male fantasy is seeing two (or more) ladies playing together. Bi men- too many men are scared of catching "the ghey", or believing they would not be seen as "manly enough", even though at least some of the "straight" ones would happily fuck a convincing TV. |
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By *essTTWoman 8 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"To me people are people
And I enjoy doing what is appropriate for the pleasure of the company I'm in
I enjoy other people having a good time
Does that make sense "
Yes
Complete sense
I am the same and I love bi men |
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"To me people are people
And I enjoy doing what is appropriate for the pleasure of the company I'm in
I enjoy other people having a good time
Does that make sense
Yes
Complete sense
I am the same and I love bi men "
same here. It's a huge turn on, seeing men play with each other. |
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We think its because they are scared that the male will pounce on the straight male pmsl, we are both bi but always play withing the parameters of boundaries, even when we play with bi males,females or couples we always make sure everyone is comfortable and consenting.
Although we do find bi play more exciting we dont push for it xx |
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"I am a Bi male but I play within the parameters of the meet I can play straight or play with the guy in a mmf.
But generally if I am attracted to a person and it feels right I will play with them  "
Do you think it might be projection. The straight guy is worried that the bi man will ignore boundaries and consent, and do what he wants to the straight guy? Treating the straight guy like the straight guy treats women? |
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By *AYENCouple 8 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
"I am a Bi male but I play within the parameters of the meet I can play straight or play with the guy in a mmf.
But generally if I am attracted to a person and it feels right I will play with them
Do you think it might be projection. The straight guy is worried that the bi man will ignore boundaries and consent, and do what he wants to the straight guy? Treating the straight guy like the straight guy treats women?"
Are you saying all us straight guys ignore boundaries set by women? |
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By *aveonMan 8 weeks ago
Dartford |
Some guys are not interested in guys, and confident of that, some are curious, want to be naked and touch but have a mental block not allowing them to go further !
Then those who are varying levels of bi I suppose ? (Ranging from wanking with other men through to being fully versatile, kissing etc.)
I think those scared of bi guys are those unsure themselves of maybe considering being with another man
I certainly remember feeling that way myself - being scared about it, but once I tried it a few times was able to forget social conditioning and be much more open minded |
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I don't know anyone who openly identifies as bi and I don't meet couples so it's all hypothetical.
As such bi men don't frighten me at all but based on comments on forum threads where some bi men and couples are of the opinion that everyone is a little bi and that anyone who claims they aren't are just afraid of their own sexuality or are narrow minded there will be a lot of straight people who feel that bi men and couples won't respect their preferences.
I'm also one half of a fab couple and we wouldn't meet a bi man for this reason and also because my completely straight lady friend has had messages in the past from couples asking her to play bi and telling her she doesn't know what she's missing if she's never tried. |
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By *essTTWoman 8 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"I am a Bi male but I play within the parameters of the meet I can play straight or play with the guy in a mmf.
But generally if I am attracted to a person and it feels right I will play with them
Do you think it might be projection. The straight guy is worried that the bi man will ignore boundaries and consent, and do what he wants to the straight guy? Treating the straight guy like the straight guy treats women?
Are you saying all us straight guys ignore boundaries set by women? "
This is not what they said
However nearly every woman has a story where her boundaries have been ignored by a man
But no, not all men  |
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"I am a Bi male but I play within the parameters of the meet I can play straight or play with the guy in a mmf.
But generally if I am attracted to a person and it feels right I will play with them
Do you think it might be projection. The straight guy is worried that the bi man will ignore boundaries and consent, and do what he wants to the straight guy? Treating the straight guy like the straight guy treats women?
Are you saying all us straight guys ignore boundaries set by women? "
I'm asking if the straight men who won't play alongside openly bi men (lots of "straight" men message me, so the label means little) are worried about their consent being violated, because that's how they view the world.
Not all men, just those who don't trust other people to respect boundaries.
Personally, I'm bi, but if I'm with a couple, I'm going to be focused more on the lady, than the other man, even if he were bi. If he was straight, I'm not going to ruin the situation by trying something. |
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