So last night we put on a meet and we had over 30 replies , only 10 of which we actually liked or could come in the time frame we required, we did it by first come first served based on what we wanted and liked but still kept the others as options should the first choice stand us up. We were crystal clear about this to everyone we spoke to so not to waste their time or get their hopes up but we new to mmf we not sure what the protocol is for this ? |
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Single guys get a bad reputation on here, and sometimes rightly so.
However, Ghosty was a single male in the lifestyle for over two years. Some couples are worse than single men when it comes to be fantasists and time wasters.
We don’t bother with single males, as they bring nothing to our dynamic. Deal with single males like you would anyone else! I’m sure we’d all feel like shit knowing we were fourth choice in the pecking order.
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"Single guys get a bad reputation on here, and sometimes rightly so.
However, Ghosty was a single male in the lifestyle for over two years. Some couples are worse than single men when it comes to be fantasists and time wasters.
We don’t bother with single males, as they bring nothing to our dynamic. Deal with single males like you would anyone else! I’m sure we’d all feel like shit knowing we were fourth choice in the pecking order.
Just our two cents "
That’s why if we have swapped face pics and a mutual attraction we come on first come first served attitude as it’s not about pecking order but I feel it’s more polite to give the person that contacted us first to get the first refusal, no one is better than anyone else and we have felt like that before too so we get what you mean x |
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"We talk to a few people but our meets so far have been planned more ahead, so anyone we talk to knows we aren’t an instant meet… quite often the men disappear from chat"
Excatly this we dont rush into a meet |
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