Ok so we’ve talked endlessly about etiquette of no touching before asking at clubs.
However, here’s possibly a new area to be explored!
Some clubs, with hot tubs, wet rooms makes it easier to instigate a conversation with someone due to the nature of immediate surroundings, enjoying hot tubs, pool etc.
But clubs that don’t or if you like the look of a female or couple, how is it best to approach them?
Recently I approached a couple late in the evening and asked if it was okay for me to join them and started to try to strike a conversation, that went well. And before anyone starts, no this isn’t about just try to start sex…but let’s face it’s what most of us are looking for, but I don’t wish to come across as that single guy looking to get his end away.
I have seen a few very attractive laddies and didn’t wish I interrupted their chatting to other females. Also ear wigging and trying to join in can also seem rude! So how is the best way to get her. / there attention.?
I recently was joined by a very attractive lady at the bar, she’s a regular at that club and started to chat to bar staff etc, and while I did try to instigate a conversation or gave a offering to what they were openly taking about, I felt I was being closed down. So left it, however she did throw chats now and again of which I responded and hoped this was a signal. But alas not! Even walking off hoping she may “find me” would work! But nope!!!
The world of fab is a difficult path, you hear horror stories on others behaviour and know I don’t act like that! I don’t expect anything, but can’t help but hope when you see a very attractive female.
Anyway…thoughts?
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We go to clubs fairly regularly, some days we get approached to chat, some days we have had no one approach us at all.
I think providing you are friendly, polite and not tone deaf (read the not interested OR interested signs) you can’t go far wrong with a basic ask about how the evening is going. |
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"Ok so we’ve talked endlessly about etiquette of no touching before asking at clubs.
However, here’s possibly a new area to be explored!
Some clubs, with hot tubs, wet rooms makes it easier to instigate a conversation with someone due to the nature of immediate surroundings, enjoying hot tubs, pool etc.
But clubs that don’t or if you like the look of a female or couple, how is it best to approach them?
Recently I approached a couple late in the evening and asked if it was okay for me to join them and started to try to strike a conversation, that went well. And before anyone starts, no this isn’t about just try to start sex…but let’s face it’s what most of us are looking for, but I don’t wish to come across as that single guy looking to get his end away.
I have seen a few very attractive laddies and didn’t wish I interrupted their chatting to other females. Also ear wigging and trying to join in can also seem rude! So how is the best way to get her. / there attention.?
I recently was joined by a very attractive lady at the bar, she’s a regular at that club and started to chat to bar staff etc, and while I did try to instigate a conversation or gave a offering to what they were openly taking about, I felt I was being closed down. So left it, however she did throw chats now and again of which I responded and hoped this was a signal. But alas not! Even walking off hoping she may “find me” would work! But nope!!!
The world of fab is a difficult path, you hear horror stories on others behaviour and know I don’t act like that! I don’t expect anything, but can’t help but hope when you see a very attractive female.
Anyway…thoughts?
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Exactly in the same boat as you. |
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