You meet one on vanilla dating apps and then they tell you what they like it shocks you. But that also makes you safe and probably sane, as when you act on what she has asked for you are fulfilling their needs and not acting out your own fantasies. Will likely listen if they say it’s getting too much and not carry on regardless.
That’s how it happened for us anyway. I was very vanilla, didn’t believe any woman actually wanted to be treated that way by their partner had just become the norm because of porn. M told me otherwise and we play in ways that I would never have considered or wanted to before meeting her. And it’s still all about what she wants.
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