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Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. |
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"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "
Love the idea of that |
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"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "
This is something we are actively seeking. It's proving very difficult.
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Working towards this with my wife and a guy we see. We all get on with a guy we met and have had a few meets with him now mfm. My Mrs really likes him which adds a task hot element to it so I am going to send her to spend a few hours on here own. I like to think of him as her boyfriend. |
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"This sounds encouraging x
Ideally we'd love to find a couple like you so Longsword and the wife can be bf/gf that way everyone knows the score x"
Something like this would work for us but we need local unfortunately to work x |
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"This sounds encouraging x
Ideally we'd love to find a couple like you so Longsword and the wife can be bf/gf that way everyone knows the score x
Something like this would work for us but we need local unfortunately to work x"
Yep that's the biggest obstacle, and that most couples who message, want me and not him lol x |
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We had a FWB who lived further afield but every month or so we’d spend a weekend together at his or ours and we had this arrangement.
C had 2 boyfriends for the weekend and often we’d play together but sometimes it would be one on one.
It was fun for all.
K |
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By *0scpl1Couple 24 hours ago
leeds |
We had something similar when we were located in London. The guy had his own place and we met both as a cpl and just myself on occasions. My hubby was comfortable with the arrangement. We moved up north last year and as it happens the guy moved with his job to Paris anyway. Great while it lasted. |
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The use of the term BF is a big step for me but I do have a wife or two that I see regularly and I would say they were very good friends. Regularly go out with them on their own and the sex is always much better when you get to know someone over time. |
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"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "
Had this exact situation with my ex with a couple of guys. One for 10 months the other for over3 years. We found it great a lot more intimated, relaxed chilled fun. For us it was like I had a good friend to chill out with & she had a 2nd boyfriend. If you can find the right guy, I couldn’t recommend the situation anymore. Happy to chat if u want to know more x |
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"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "
This is the perfect scenario nut, as others have said, it is very difficult to find the right person. |
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"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this.
Had this exact situation with my ex with a couple of guys. One for 10 months the other for over3 years. We found it great a lot more intimated, relaxed chilled fun. For us it was like I had a good friend to chill out with & she had a 2nd boyfriend. If you can find the right guy, I couldn’t recommend the situation anymore. Happy to chat if u want to know more x"
To add to this hours happened organically it wasn’t something we were looking for. Kinda fell into it & loved it, Super lucky, great time in my life! |
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"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "
Love this idea |
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By *arco_pMan 22 hours ago
Hednesford |
"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "
Love the vision and Mrs is one sexy lady, your a lucky mr |
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"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "
This is the dream! More of a FWB than BF for me (mrs) who's also comfortable and friends with Mr would be ideal. When you find it its incredible but in 3 years we've only had it to the level you describe once and similar fwb only another twice but nothing really long term. |
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By *trmkinksMan 22 hours ago
London(Shadwell) |
"We had a FWB who lived further afield but every month or so we’d spend a weekend together at his or ours and we had this arrangement.
C had 2 boyfriends for the weekend and often we’d play together but sometimes it would be one on one.
It was fun for all.
K "
Sounds so hot ngl |
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By *trmkinksMan 21 hours ago
London(Shadwell) |
"I think these things need to develop naturally.
100% agree"
Spot on. A random meet turning into a regular FWB/boyfriend is super fun. It's great to meet new people, but it also feels good to stick with a small group you already know and trust |
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Sounds encouraging, we have been looking for a round a year. Best we have had is a a couple of more regular meets but we would love something a little bit more now. As said, would love the idea of Mrs having weekends away of holidays etc too |
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i have a few sexual boyfriend that iuv e known a very long time i have zero interest in anything but sexual friendship had to stop some as some guys just cant control the emotions..
just make sure your relationship can handle the extra as ive seen so many go wrong over ther years more so than those that go right... but of course we never see the bad stuff on these forums just the good stuff ...harder to find than you will think ie ive been on this scene sice 1988 regulars are far and few between alot of guys want but reality sets in and they then dont want or they keep regulars as back ups if all else fails ...best of luck  |
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I think it’s harder finding people in your local area to make this happen, obviously there’s some trial and error with finding the suitable person for your partner but from my experience it’s more location that makes things difficult.
This is the ideal scenario though  |
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I had a 2 year relationship with a couple that developed into me being her discrete boyfriend ....social as well as sexual. It was great fun while it lasted and would love to find a similar dynamic again with the right couple |
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By *omRachCouple 2 hours ago
Wirral |
I think Rach would love something like this - someone she can 'bond' with and not just for sex. Yes, she has me for all intimate non sexual issues but I think the occasional weekend away relaxing (not needing to look over her shoulder) socialising AND fucking with someone she has a strong connection with would be great for her personally.
Rach already meets one particular guy regularly to fuck, it would be great to add a little unwinding to it too. |
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It's definitely a tough ask, location and work schedules seem to be the biggest obstacles. I'm actively looking to become the b.f of a wife from a couple, something semi regular with to build trust and a connection, not just one off sex. fingers crossed, and good luck to you all searching for the same x |
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Just be wary with this kind of scenario, make sure you lay your cards out on the table at the very beginning. It could be easy for the single guy to catch feelings (have had personal experience with this despite doing this). |
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By *omRachCouple 25 minutes ago
Wirral |
"Just be wary with this kind of scenario, make sure you lay your cards out on the table at the very beginning. It could be easy for the single guy to catch feelings (have had personal experience with this despite doing this)."
That is something I have given a lot of thought to also |
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