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I’m just wondering if this actually happens.
My past relationships all end mainly as they haven’t understood this way of life. Perhaps meeting your future wife through fab is actually a pretty good idea, as they are already here.
Love to hear from people who met through fab and how you found it. Or if you’re a single woman and are looking to start a relationship from fab x |
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I suppose we should say a bit more. Over the years we have spoken to a number of couples that met on the scene, the one thing we all seem to have in common is that we weren't looking for a relationship when we met. It developed over time. |
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"We met 23 years ago in a swinging site (not Fab) so it can work for some.
So you advise it’s probably best to meet from within this lifestyle. "
It worked for us and for people we know. Of course we don't know how many it didn't work for. |
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Yes I have had two.
The first started as NSA, but gradually became much more. He was spending weekends with me, asked for exclusivity, wanted profiles deleted, met my kids—the whole lot. After about a year, something didn't feel right, so I came back onto Fab and discovered he'd been meeting other people the entire time. That was the end of that. As far as I know, he's still operating in much the same way with his current partner.
The relationship wasn't planned at all. We met a few times, really clicked, and both decided we wanted something more. We even tried a couples account and explored a few things together, but ultimately the relationship ended because of their significant lies and deception (and no, it wasn't because they were married! But not going into details on here).
So yes, relationships can happen through Fab. I'm not ruling it out, but after being bitten twice, I now approach romance and relationships with the caution normally reserved for unexploded bombs.
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It is intresting to hear because it sounds like no word comes here expecting a relationship. But it can happen, and it as all things in a relationship, if you dont have trust then it all fails apart.
And with this lifestyle, trust is the biggest and most important thing to fight for |
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It's possible to find a relationship anywhere. It depends on how you click with people and a genuine attraction and connection with someone .
That said if you are both open to swinging , then that saves a awkward conversation down the line .
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I feel it can work. It seems in some ways the best place to meet an ideal life partner if you are into the lifestyle. But whether you'll manage to bump into someone "just right" when there's so many people on here is more of a hurdle. It's pretty much down to chance in that sense. |
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I met my partner though here a while ago! We both came off for a long time though! Bit confusing at the start in what was only supposed to be a FWB thing and a cover story for how we met but it's great that it's always been in our relationship so to speak so it didnt have to be one of us bringing it up xx |
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"I met my partner though here a while ago! We both came off for a long time though! Bit confusing at the start in what was only supposed to be a FWB thing and a cover story for how we met but it's great that it's always been in our relationship so to speak so it didnt have to be one of us bringing it up xx"
Lovely couple too 💕 |
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IF I was looking for a relationship fab would be the most likely place I would look. As I wouldn't be faithful and if anything I would want to play more. So that being said it's unlikely I will find a partner.
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I met someone I had a full relationship with here a few years ago.
There's also been several regular partners I've met through Fab too.
If you want to meet someone who's into the lifestyle it's probably as good a place as any... |
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Had a relationship for several months with a Domme from this site but that was over ten years ago! Also met my wife about 8 years ago and my girlfriend 4 years ago (we're all poly) in other online places. |
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We met on here about 10 years ago at a club,
We’d both come across each others profile so we ‘knew of’ each other a couple of years before that.
Been together now for almost 8 glorious years 🥰🥰🥰
We are always so thankful that Fab actually brought us together and are living our best lives, both in the lifestyle and in our own little vanilla world 😍❤️🥰 |
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"I’m just wondering if this actually happens.
My past relationships all end mainly as they haven’t understood this way of life. Perhaps meeting your future wife through fab is actually a pretty good idea, as they are already here.
Love to hear from people who met through fab and how you found it. Or if you’re a single woman and are looking to start a relationship from fab x"
Not through fab directly but we met in a Kik chat room for swingers and both had profiles on here. We then decided to hide our single profiles and start a couples one and we have been together almost 6 years since |
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i know a few who have mainly from club meets but i know alot where it failed too
think of it this way look how hard it is to get a meet as a guy then times that by 1000s and that how many who got lucky i think those who were not looking for it are the ones where it worked just like in vanilla life but this is a cscenr with very few women comp[ared to zillions of me ... nest of lock tho as you never know.. |
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I met Sir on (we think Fab or similar) about 13 years ago. We built our relationship over time online and been very happy ever since. We would say It definitely helps both knowing that the other has Kinks etc and allows you to grow/ experiment together openly. We still as kinky as ever  |
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"Yes we met on fab over 3 years ago. We both wish we had met 20 years ago "
Totally resonate with this
Although we have now been together since 2015 and are now married we wish we could have met when we were in our 20’s and enjoyed even longer together |
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This definitely happens. I met my girlfriend via fab. Slid into her DM’s after we’d met briefly at Chams and had mutual friends. Neither of us were actively looking for a relationship at the time either. October will make it 4 years we’ve been together  |
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Not so much Fab, but three of my long term relationships were started from this kind of site and meeting for something casual, becoming FWB’s then it becoming serious.
I think you know from the first encounter that it’s got potential when both social and sexual aspects align with neither subsiding the more you meet.
Most, if not all of my other FWB’s dissent last longer than a handful of encounters. |
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