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Random question after a chat between us...
We both have a classic MFM fantasy, and we are looking to make it a reality at some point . But we have noticed there seems to be more focus on hotwives, bi MMF and cuckolding these days which isn't our dynamic, so it has us thinking do people still enjoy this way of play?
Do other couples still enjoy a classic MFM? single guys, do you still look for this dynamic?
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As a single woman, I often find 2 single men willing to join in.
Heck, One time I was in the dungeon. The wife left her husband in there. I was playing with known club regular single guys and he asked if he could join in and I said sure.
It wasn't a full swap but He got some play while his wife was off getting her play in another room.
I don't do many private meets simply because they often are not as reliable as a club is. Also in a club everyone can go at their own pace before deciding if to join in or not.
Getting cold feet at a private meet can be very disappointing....especially going to all that effort and then not clicking or some other circumstance....
Clubs, house parties and event parties, there are always MFM in my experience. and if you don't feel like it, there are always other things to do or watch.
that's just me. i enjoy the social side and once people get to know you as a regular then it's easier to have sex with each other..or even just a cuddle and or a mutual wank.
I understand some people just want stripped-bare sex. A quick hello and then start fucking, but I already know that's not my vibe. I don't want to treat a man like a dildo and I'm not sure I would enjoy being a pocket pussy to be picked up, used and then tossed aside. Communication is pretty important to me, even more so with my disabilities.
Caveat...this is only my experience for London and the Home Counties...elsewhere could be a different dynamic. A lot of Londoners do not want to drive far and they like to drink so they don't want to pay for a far-away taxi either. Our housing is far too expensive to stay in hotels all of the time because we had a drink. lol! |
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By *oldmilkMan 2 days ago
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"As a single woman, I often find 2 single men willing to join in.
I don't want to treat a man like a dildo and I'm not sure I would enjoy being a pocket pussy to be picked up, used and then tossed aside. "
Very true. I don’t like the idea of being a disposable dick for hire. Really has to be mutual friendship related fun for me. |
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"Random question after a chat between us...
We both have a classic MFM fantasy, and we are looking to make it a reality at some point . But we have noticed there seems to be more focus on hotwives, bi MMF and cuckolding these days which isn't our dynamic, so it has us thinking do people still enjoy this way of play?
Do other couples still enjoy a classic MFM? single guys, do you still look for this dynamic?
(Please don't reply privately offering to join us—we're just here for the discussion)"
VA is a lovely club....are you not able to find what you want there? They have so many different theme nights... |
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"Random question after a chat between us...
We both have a classic MFM fantasy, and we are looking to make it a reality at some point . But we have noticed there seems to be more focus on hotwives, bi MMF and cuckolding these days which isn't our dynamic, so it has us thinking do people still enjoy this way of play?
Do other couples still enjoy a classic MFM? single guys, do you still look for this dynamic?
(Please don't reply privately offering to join us—we're just here for the discussion)
VA is a lovely club....are you not able to find what you want there? They have so many different theme nights..."
It's at a club we will be looking to make it a reality , we just haven't been able to go yet as life has been pretty hectic since we joined VA. It's good to hear it's a lovely club. |
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By *aandLoCouple 2 days ago
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MFM is our favourite dynamic. We are incredibly lucky to have a regular guy to join us.
Our profile is very clear Ja is not a cuck, and we're not looking for a bi MFM
There's no shortage of messages from guys looking to join that dynamic.
Maybe a straight MFM is almost vanilla for Fab, so doesn't get talked about so much in forum threads 🤷 |
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"As a single woman, I often find 2 single men willing to join in.
I don't want to treat a man like a dildo and I'm not sure I would enjoy being a pocket pussy to be picked up, used and then tossed aside.
Very true. I don’t like the idea of being a disposable dick for hire. Really has to be mutual friendship related fun for me. "
I don't have to be friends but I'd like to know that we both understand the rules of engagement. Also, if I say "stop" to stop because I can get overstimulated and that's no fun at all if I pass out. Lol!  |
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"Random question after a chat between us...
We both have a classic MFM fantasy, and we are looking to make it a reality at some point . But we have noticed there seems to be more focus on hotwives, bi MMF and cuckolding these days which isn't our dynamic, so it has us thinking do people still enjoy this way of play?
Do other couples still enjoy a classic MFM? single guys, do you still look for this dynamic?
(Please don't reply privately offering to join us—we're just here for the discussion)
VA is a lovely club....are you not able to find what you want there? They have so many different theme nights...
It's at a club we will be looking to make it a reality , we just haven't been able to go yet as life has been pretty hectic since we joined VA. It's good to hear it's a lovely club."
Ah I see. Well my single male swinger poly partner recommends the event "What Women Want". He goes and is very experienced in MFM....what am I saying?! He's experienced in all kinds of Shenanigans. Lol! MFM, FMF, MMFMM, MFMFMFMF.
I only know this because I end up in some of the shenanigans myself, even though sometimes I'm on my period so no penetration for me. I'm a voyeur too, though with lots of compersion. I like to watch him enjoying himself and moaning. I do like telling him he's a naughty good boy.  |
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"Random question after a chat between us...
We both have a classic MFM fantasy, and we are looking to make it a reality at some point . But we have noticed there seems to be more focus on hotwives, bi MMF and cuckolding these days which isn't our dynamic, so it has us thinking do people still enjoy this way of play?
Do other couples still enjoy a classic MFM? single guys, do you still look for this dynamic?
(Please don't reply privately offering to join us—we're just here for the discussion)
VA is a lovely club....are you not able to find what you want there? They have so many different theme nights...
It's at a club we will be looking to make it a reality , we just haven't been able to go yet as life has been pretty hectic since we joined VA. It's good to hear it's a lovely club.
Ah I see. Well my single male swinger poly partner recommends the event "What Women Want". He goes and is very experienced in MFM....what am I saying?! He's experienced in all kinds of Shenanigans. Lol! MFM, FMF, MMFMM, MFMFMFMF.
I only know this because I end up in some of the shenanigans myself, even though sometimes I'm on my period so no penetration for me. I'm a voyeur too, though with lots of compersion. I like to watch him enjoying himself and moaning. I do like telling him he's a naughty good boy. "
🤣🤣🤣 "He's a very naughty boy" immediately came into my head.
We have been looking at that event funnily enough |
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"Issue is as always, finding a reliable single guy.
Reliable and genuine (serious about meaning) and compatible with the couple. .. it can be a challenge!"
Lol! I just pop up at a club or event and see who's available. Lol! But I do live in London.
I have unreliable health conditions, so I don't make those demands on others. Some of my other club mates have similar conditions, so we just see each other when we see each other.....same in kink world. My poly partners have wives, children, dependent parents and jobs that can scupper the sexy plans....I don't hold it against them. Family and health are super important. More important than me getting my rocks off.
Plus, I have toys for emergencies to scratch any unbearable itches....and streaming and ice cream.... lol! |
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"Random question after a chat between us...
We both have a classic MFM fantasy, and we are looking to make it a reality at some point . But we have noticed there seems to be more focus on hotwives, bi MMF and cuckolding these days which isn't our dynamic, so it has us thinking do people still enjoy this way of play?
Do other couples still enjoy a classic MFM? single guys, do you still look for this dynamic?
(Please don't reply privately offering to join us—we're just here for the discussion)
VA is a lovely club....are you not able to find what you want there? They have so many different theme nights...
It's at a club we will be looking to make it a reality , we just haven't been able to go yet as life has been pretty hectic since we joined VA. It's good to hear it's a lovely club.
Ah I see. Well my single male swinger poly partner recommends the event "What Women Want". He goes and is very experienced in MFM....what am I saying?! He's experienced in all kinds of Shenanigans. Lol! MFM, FMF, MMFMM, MFMFMFMF.
I only know this because I end up in some of the shenanigans myself, even though sometimes I'm on my period so no penetration for me. I'm a voyeur too, though with lots of compersion. I like to watch him enjoying himself and moaning. I do like telling him he's a naughty good boy.
🤣🤣🤣 "He's a very naughty boy" immediately came into my head.
We have been looking at that event funnily enough"
Hopefully you will meet him. He's kind of famous for his stamina. That's why I'm happy to have other women to tag team and tap me out so I can go get a drink and snack break Lol!   |
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"It still is going strong, it's one of the wife's biggest fantasies 😂... Maybe... One day"
One of my partners books time off with or without his wife once a month and then books into a house party or club. They have kids so it's mainly a once a month thing. He always goes but sometimes his wife isn't up for it. So when he goes alone he's one of the straight M in the MFM.
When I was in a committed relationship, we had to schedule time off just to reconnect once a month.
Harder with kids, two full-time jobs and being carers for elderly relatives.
Just have to squeeze in the time where you can.
Illness and disability definitely make it harder on top. Had a few club mates drop out because of it. They are still on Fab but they hardly meet anymore.  the most fun one always burn so bright. |
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"Random question after a chat between us...
We both have a classic MFM fantasy, and we are looking to make it a reality at some point . But we have noticed there seems to be more focus on hotwives, bi MMF and cuckolding these days which isn't our dynamic, so it has us thinking do people still enjoy this way of play?
Do other couples still enjoy a classic MFM? single guys, do you still look for this dynamic?
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My bi male friend and I have enjoyed MFM sex on several occasions. Different F each time which was truly enjoyable and horny for all of us |
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"Random question after a chat between us...
We both have a classic MFM fantasy, and we are looking to make it a reality at some point . But we have noticed there seems to be more focus on hotwives, bi MMF and cuckolding these days which isn't our dynamic, so it has us thinking do people still enjoy this way of play?
Do other couples still enjoy a classic MFM? single guys, do you still look for this dynamic?
(Please don't reply privately offering to join us—we're just here for the discussion)"
Very much enjoy a straight forward MMF, great fun |
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